| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 5:57:08 PM | One thing? Ya gotta be kidding, Man!
Each person is a unique individual, with unique desires and turn-offs. What excites one person may bore the next.
You have to get to know the particular woman you're dealing with. Get to know her, listen to her, learn what makes just that one woman smile.
You "dont pay attention to there needs" (your words, OP) when you look for only one sure-fire trick to achieve a desired result. | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:05:51 PM | if there was one thing you could tell a guy to do for you that would make you the happiest person in the world what would it be"??
saying 'i love you' (when he means it) puts a smile on my face!
there's a few but that one is the icing for me! | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 6:09:05 PM | | What makes me smile is a joke that is shared by just the two of us, a hand lightly tracing the nape of my neck, and always..... a man running the vacuum. | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:08:14 PM | If I have to telllllll you, then that means you weren't paying attennnnntion in the firrrrrrst place - and you don't really loooooooooove me.....................................
Oh! Just never mind! You don't care! 
(sound familiar?) | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:18:55 PM | | There is no answer because this will be different with each person. For one, loving me just the way I was and not someone he wanted me to be. Knowing that someone fell for my mind and then the rest of me. Someone else, that he got angry on my behalf. What will put a smile on my face with one person because of the way we relate to each other might not with another individual. | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:23:08 PM | | Just knowing that I am being thought of works for me. I can foolishly smile all day after that. | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:37:07 PM | A sly grin, plus wriggling eyebrows, saying, "Come 'ere little girl and sit on my lap and tell me what 'cha want for Christmas".
~tag~ ..........I hear ya girl!!!  | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:40:48 PM | | For me doll, It's eye contact from a stranger, you know the one , that sparkle in the eyes? or full body hugs from friends, and daisys with that indication of root ball. | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:41:22 PM | | Op - it's a loaded question. Different people (friends, family etc) can make me smile for different reasons. I guess you mean the person that I am interested in: a genuine smile from him, making me feel like he only has eyes for me even if we're in a crowded room. There's more but I'm tired now, lol. | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:55:51 PM | I'm going to go out on a limb and answer this seriously....what makes me smile is that you asked the perfect question Just the fact that a man would ask "what makes you smile" says that he is intersted in what I would have to say and that he sees me as someone important enough to ask this question of. That my feelings, thoughts and emotions mean something to him. 
Kudos to you for being so considerate as to ask us this question | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 7:59:38 PM | As you get to know her, you will know how to make her smile. Here are a few that always made me smile:
-When I see him I smile
-When he gives me those bedroom eyes look
-A surprise kiss
-Sneaking up behind me and grabbing "something" or just hugging me
-Thoughtful actions
-Our own special lusty glance
-1 single rose, for no reason
-OH YES and many many many daily ORGASMS. (12 inches not required)
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:08:15 PM | As I said long ago, to someone I'm no longer with because he couldn't: "pay attention" ~~
What colors I like, what foods, what books, what places, what songs. . . . &c. Not hard at all. If you care.
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:27:35 PM | I will tell you what action consistently worked in making me smile ... when he relinquished all power to the tv remote control and refrained from his zapping-frenzy for longer than five minutes.  | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/14/2008 5:04:11 PM | during a busy day at work, an unexpected, sweet email, IM, or text message, from someone that I really care about always makes me smile | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/14/2008 5:31:09 PM | It does not take much to make me happy. To make me smile, all you need to do is show me that you think about me when we are apart, pick a flower on the way to my house, send an "I am thinking about you" email- mention seeing something in a store that got you thinking about me (you do not have to buy it, just tell me about it).
To me it is the LITTLE things that make me happy. | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/14/2008 8:54:44 PM |
what makes a women smile??
It would be quite easy to add something cynical or predictable to this discussion.I'll try my best to avoid being seen as either. I'm obviously a man so I don't know if that invalidates my comment or not . Its rather comforting and reassuring to hear the vast majority of Ladies that have posted on this thread thus far have made no mention of money or materialistic items. The ones that have are more than likely to be on this site & be single a good while. So make yourself comfortable or change the way you think and get some perspective on what's really valuable in this life.
I think there are a number of ways to make a woman smile. Obviously everybody is different and views the world from a different perspective. What makes one lady smile may make another grimace. Generally speaking though I think making her feel special and like she's the only woman in the world will always bring a smile. How do you do that then ? Holding her hand , whispering in her ear , buying her favourite flowers , writing her a sexy note /text/@mail. listening to her and understanding her , then demonstrating it in your words and actions.
Ask her opinion on anything and everything . If she needs to be told a harsh truth then tell her and give her a kick up the arse. If she needs / looks like she could do with a hug and kiss then give it to her without her needing to ask. If she's angry or upset then empathise and see it from her point of view rather than give a practical, logical argument to tell her she's wrong.
I could well be wrong though and I'm probably not the man to be asking seeing as though I'm single and on a dating site   | |
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| what makes a women smile??
Posted: 4/15/2008 11:32:57 AM | Usually it is satisfaction with whatever is happening, could happen, or did happen.......
Just my opinion.......  | |
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