I have to agree with aspiring angel on this one, and add, that while he may have handled it poorly, he was being honest with you and telling you that while he liked you, there was another person we wanted to meet as well.
^^^^^^^^Yep.....the guy was honest from the OP right from the start....telling her that he was 55 years old and in fact 65 years old....then telling her that he was meeting a 49 year old woman..
To me, I think this guy is an a$$hole......yeah right honest enough to tell her that he is going to give her the brush off for younger woman and lie about his age.....JMO
my apologies - I missed the post where he lied about his age. That'll teach me to multi-task.
The lie about the age is inexcusable.
~tb~