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 Moonchild48

Joined: 3/11/2007
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Why bring up another woman on 1st date?
Posted: 4/14/2008 7:20:18 PM
You would be correct in that assumption Marius!
He was and acted like an azzhole. Some of you folks talk about him being honest, which is perfectly fine but when he threw in the "she is 49" he was simply being a braggart. And to lie about his age? That is honesty?
Honey, consider yourself lucky you never got further involved with this guy. You did the right thing! Men like him are NOT honest.....they are silly little boys who never grew up with the notion of respecting others.
 ~transparent~butterfly

Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 26
Why bring up another woman on 1st date?
Posted: 4/14/2008 7:36:38 PM




I have to agree with aspiring angel on this one, and add, that while he may have handled it poorly, he was being honest with you and telling you that while he liked you, there was another person we wanted to meet as well.



^^^^^^^^Yep.....the guy was honest from the OP right from the start....telling her that he was 55 years old and in fact 65 years old....then telling her that he was meeting a 49 year old woman..

To me, I think this guy is an a$$hole......yeah right honest enough to tell her that he is going to give her the brush off for younger woman and lie about his age.....JMO


my apologies - I missed the post where he lied about his age. That'll teach me to multi-task.

The lie about the age is inexcusable.

~tb~
 idahosun

Joined: 4/26/2006
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Posted: 4/14/2008 11:13:31 PM
No problem tb, and thanks for the apology, it was appreciated. We have the problem of not being able to tell the full story, of relating the body language, the tone of voice, and all those details of the event in this format. So it is often hard to see it through the other person's eyes and how the situation made them feel. Thanks.
 strangebunny

Joined: 2/15/2008
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Why bring up another woman on 1st date?
Posted: 4/16/2008 4:22:06 AM
some men are more in love with themselves than they ever are with anyone else... so essentially a waste of your time... forget him quickly and find someone completely different..
 CharlieRose99

Joined: 7/27/2008
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Posted: 8/10/2008 2:51:11 PM
I think he was being honest


I quality that is kind of lacking these days, but good to hear some actually are.


it didnt mean he was less interested in you..
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