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 rivereye

Joined: 2/19/2008
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Trying to be a twisted Karma
Posted: 6/1/2008 7:40:38 PM
This is called "transference", and it's a cheap shot at some poor,innocent,unwitting individual who's going to have their hopes and trust needlessly crushed for the simple purpose of momentarily boosting another's ego. "Karma" works, and this is a very bad idea.

 seaga

Joined: 1/4/2006
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Posted: 6/1/2008 9:32:40 PM
OP the fact that you are EVEN thinking about it..says a lot.....
 sam-spade

Joined: 12/2/2007
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Posted: 6/2/2008 6:16:28 AM
lol. Must be your twisted mind.

If I'm with someone, you can bet your boots I like them. Sounds like you need some time alone honey. Like a year or two. You'd be surprised who much good it'll do you. Don't date just to have someone (Tell me that doesn't suck.)
 Sharzi

Joined: 10/6/2007
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Posted: 6/2/2008 6:22:34 AM
I would absolutely never take it out on someone who had nothing to do with it.

We've all been hurt and that hurt can shatter your heart into a million pieces. But I think first, if that's the case, you need time to heal before you even think of dating. That's because, bottom line, the next person doesn't deserve the transfered pain.

Instead, I have taken the hurt others have caused me, and used that to remind myself what I am looking for, what I won't tolerate, and it's opened my eyes to red flags I never used to see, because, love is indeed blind.

Learn from what's happened to you, but don't hurt someone just because you've been hurt. Why would you ever want someone to carry around that kind of pain when you know how horrible it feels?

Sharzi
 lavender44

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 76
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Trying to be a twisted Karma
Posted: 6/2/2008 1:42:22 PM
no way id much prefer to hang on to that nice guy and be happy,anyone who feels the urge to hurt others because of anything they have been through have issues that need working on and no way should be dating.
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