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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/21/2008 6:23:35 PM | | my boyfriend and I BOTH still have are POF profiles active... we just have Not single/Not looking option, looking for Friends and in the about me, meantion how we already found someone but friends are welcome. Both of us are committed to each other and been completely faithful. | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/21/2008 6:35:22 PM | | I'd say I'm in a committed relationship with someone. My profile is still here, and so is his. I don't have a problem with it, and neither does he. I have friends I could email outside of POF, but sometimes it is just easier to do it on here. I've been active in the local events and have made a lot of friends I don't necessarily communicate with on a regular basis so I don't have their email addresses, but I know I can find them here. | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/22/2008 12:47:13 AM | | I feel absolutely SURE,...that you KNOW perfectly well,...the correct answer to THAT question. Either that,..or perhaps he should consult a Webster's dictionary, immediately!! | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/22/2008 2:12:03 AM |
He is very secretive. When he doesn't get his way-he threatens ! He is now back on as 2 different users. One with a picture and one with out. Beware ladies
If I was a woman and that happened to me, I'd immediately send an email to the admins here to have him removed. Short of that, I would start a special thread, then post a link to his photo so women will be warned. People that pathologic deserve watching. If you can save someone from that kind of grief, I think that'd be a huge plus, no? Just my two cents.
Committed relationship? And still here? BS. | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/22/2008 2:19:07 AM | | well i always tend to ask people straight out but why ask them straight out when you know there not going to be honest with you,i would ditch his ass if he was so committed to you he wouldn't still have his profile on here for starters | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/22/2008 8:01:18 AM | i have been seeing a man since last october. he actually got me to sign up here as he tends to get kicked out of the forums - so he asks me to post for him. i am not happy when we are together and he gets IMs from women here but i know that he is not seeing anyone else. the other night while we were snuggled up drinking absinthe and singing old love songs to each other, he received IMs from 2 women. he asked me to get rid of them for him and i did. i feel real bad about doing that to the other women, but at the same time i am not happy with him either. the thing is - i love him and am not going to give up on him over something as silly as IMs. (nosey, are you listening?)
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/22/2008 10:07:32 AM |
i have been seeing a man since last october. he actually got me to sign up here as he tends to get kicked out of the forums - so he asks me to post for him. i am not happy when we are together and he gets IMs from women here but i know that he is not seeing anyone else. the other night while we were snuggled up drinking absinthe and singing old love songs to each other, he received IMs from 2 women. he asked me to get rid of them for him and i did. i feel real bad about doing that to the other women, but at the same time i am not happy with him either. the thing is - i love him and am not going to give up on him over something as silly as IMs. (nosey, are you listening?)
Something seems pretty gamey here. Or is it just me. | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/24/2008 7:29:19 PM | | Dating in a committed relationship- he should have noticed how tall she was at the first date not later, and younger-well the age is posted-hello? and as far as richer -how does he find that out- nosey guy? Three things one cannot change except to win the lottery- I think that guy is arrogant -if he had wanted to break up and find someone different- he could have change his profile! I am happy she chose to leave the ?? | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/26/2008 1:32:53 AM | | He may be hedging his bet as to whether or not you will last. Or he may be looking for something on the side or just something better. Guess you will have to figure out which. | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/26/2008 2:43:20 AM | I think it should be at least not looking forums only.
It doesnt show respect for the other person if profile stays the same.
It takes two to make something work and if one keeps their profile the same then it brings doubts. We are human and most of us are aware about pitfalls on these sites.
Friends can be emailed or other ways than a dating site.
We all have to learn to trust again and open up and work though things as two people and not have to worry about other persons profile.
Its a dating site and to me if the other person wants to keep profile up, they arent serious . They should be spending time on the person that they want to have the realionship with to build a foundation
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/26/2008 5:01:29 AM | | Ask him why first, then ask him to delete it! If he doesnt, then he lacks respect and comittment to u! If he wasnt willing to, Id then dump him and move on!!!! | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/26/2008 5:35:32 AM | | this is so easy.. if he is still on pof then there is no committed relationship. never was. as to what i would do ..i would drop him like a hot potato. why would u even want to be with somene whom u cant trust at all? jsut lose the loser and move on. | |
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| committed relationship and?? he still is on POF
Posted: 4/26/2008 6:13:21 AM | This isn't a gender thing or shouldn't be. When I pause to look at profiles there are tons of ladies here that are in the same situation. They claim to be here only to talk with friends or forums. Fine I can accept that but at least hide your profile or at least dump your images. You friends already know what you look like and the forum junkies could care less what you look like.
Much like sweet n heart above, grats on the relationship but I don't need to see your pics and this is a dating site and sifting through singles is tough enough without your profile ending up in the mix. | |
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