| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/17/2008 1:06:09 PM | | I don't have any desire to be nice to someone with these particular views. You are the same type of person who excuses rapists because the girl was wearing a short skirt. I would say I am bitter and frustrated to see backwards ideology like that still in existance in this society. This is the same type of logic that dresses women in Burkas or floor length skirts and turtlenecks. I find it insult to both men and women throughout the world and really don't feel any need to be tolerant of that type of thinking. | |
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N*Love
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Joined: 2/22/2008
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/17/2008 3:37:33 PM | You are the same type of person who excuses rapists because the girl was wearing a short skirt. I would say I am bitter and frustrated to see backwards ideology like that still in existance in this society
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Ok, if we "assume" the "natural reason" females dress provocative is to attract a male (as I pointed out in about 30 threads on POF about), and many of you agree with that, I hate to say it..but then the logical extension is the male species is ready to breed...guess what???? you know that is something to think about. Of course you hate that concept. AND THE GUYS HATE THE CONCEPT OF LOOKING AT A SEXY 1/2 NAKED WOMAN who says "hands off".
This could all be solved by all (most) ladies agreeing: "Yes those women whe dress like that are nutcases, and there should be a law against it". Call your congressperson!
(((I call BS on this one. Yes, all men, unless they are mentally ill, can control their sexual urges))). How would you know if you aren't a man? As you can tell from the forums, most men have no clue what women do or think.... | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/17/2008 3:44:43 PM | Or it could all be solved by men taking responsability for their own behaviour. BTW, this should be on the form about real men because no real man is unable to control himself.
OH, and guess what, I don't hate the concpt that men are ready to breed. So are women. I love sex. I indulge frequently. However, I also know that we are capable of controlling ourselves just fine thanks. Again, i suggest moving to one of those fine countries that require women to cover themselves from head to toe if you can't control yourself lest you run into one of us women who are very comfortable with our guns. | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/28/2008 10:13:33 AM | I like 'the Bear's response...!!
Women know _Exactly_ how to [and how Easy it is to] *Weed-out* the Losers..!!
..{even _without_ trying!}..
Maybe...SOME day...the day of the *Bad-Boy* will end .. and more guys will learn that
Manners .. Class .. Charm .. and Respect
will reap more and better rewards than making 1st contact with a *W - F* letter...!!
****
A Lady worth Having is a Lady worth Respecting...!!!
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/28/2008 12:14:31 PM | 
for some it's the old bait an hook trick,
hey you gotta have good bait to atleast get a bite..
an men are visual creatures.. show some clevage some legs or thigh an in minutes somebody will come along sayin "O that's hot" or "mmmmmm yummmy" "dam babe thats sexy"...never fails...
so when the fish or "Piranha/men" start biting an responding she can go down the line an pick out the ones she likes best an then throw back the bad ones...pretty simple... | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/28/2008 12:51:51 PM | Well. It is rather silly dissonance..
I think some women simply want men to acknowledge their sex appeal and beauty. Not that they necessarily want men to mentally sex them up. Hence the reason their profiles still say "dating, hang out, friends, etc". But I think when women do this, they shouldn't automatically assume the guy is a pig if he says "nice butt" when you clearly have a photo of your nice butt on your profile! If you put up sexy pics, expect and be tolerant of those kinds of comments. It's only fair. If they say "I want to put my polish dog in your buns", that's certainly 'pig-like'.
I don't think women have to include pics like this to get comments on their beauty or sex appeal. Just a good quality up-close photo =] Granted, I have no qualms with seeing provocative photos as well!!  | |
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JLWTV
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Joined: 1/23/2008
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 8:20:24 AM | it is very simple...
some women want you to be desperate "to get inside their knickers" (as we say in the Uk)..
and they very much like to hear that you are... they are so ****ing keen for you to be keen that they really do not need for you to spell it out too clearly .. and they thus think that when you do spell it out.. instead of showing respect for how sexy they are, you are taking it for granted that you are going to get what is on offer..
The other thing is that to some extent some women may feel in a double bind.. they may not primerily be interested in sex... but feel obliged to reveal this side of themselves in order to get a mate... If they had a higher self-esteem i suspect they would not make this effort until later.
but maybe a woman can explain all of that better... at the end of the day they are all a total ****ing mystery?? | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:06:55 AM | Because they feel it's the only way to catch a man's attention, especially because it seems like every other woman is putting up provocative pictures.
I've been tempted to post booby shots but never did, mostly because I knew the kinds of men I'd attract with that weren't the kinds of men I'd want to date. | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:35:00 AM | | because we are supposed to be respectful towards all women regardless of what she shows or wears. these women who post provocative pictures yet moan when men only want one thing from them need to fix themselves a date with a psychiatrist because they are f*cked in the head | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 1:31:03 PM | Fair enough: I don't see anything wrong with showing some of what comes in the package!
I think these placements probably should be done by only women who have a keen sense of the "player", because she's going to have to sift through quite a few of these and they ARE quite sly. If I knew how to be a "player" I would probably take a shot at these ads. Otherwise, one of the first things I would want to find out is that she's not throwing herself around. I'd have to offset that impression for anything to work well in the longterm. That may or may not be a problem.
A reasonable amount of chaste is very sexy! | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 2:21:52 PM | | I agree with you to an extent.....someone attempting to be SEXUAL is more about a look...prevocative as it may be...but someone being SENSUAL...now, tha's more of an attitude.....you can have a judge dressed up in a completely covered black robe and be VERY SENSUAL...it's about the way they carry themselves...not how short the skirt is.....but showing their wears....I DO agree it all boils down to taste....trashy has NEVER done anything for me..those are a DIME a DOZEN. | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 2:33:11 PM | Call me lazy, but I've read all I'm going to of the past 3 pages of posts...LOL
Ladies...and Gents....
far be it for me or anyone else to say what kind of pics a person wants to post here
or anywhere else on the net....that is entirely up to the individual....that said,
I personally would save the "best" pics for a sellect few........why flaunt what you got unless you intend to use it.
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 2:38:30 PM | From a woman that has one or two shots that might show a bit of cleavage, it wasn't done with any intent of teasing and nowhere in my profile do I rant or rave about rude replies or such. What grosses me out by far is the thought of those same pervs, perusing the more scantily attired & whacking off over their pictures. I wonder if that thought has crossed other women's minds? I'd never dream of posting a negligee or thong pic (not sure you'd want to see it anyways) but that's me. I received some of the same replies -with or without the cleavage shots-it didn't matter.
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 2:42:49 PM | | As a woman I have to agree. IMO if you don't want to be looked at then you don't dress in certain ways. To me negligee and other sexy undies are made for the privacy of your own home with that special someone NOT for the whole world to see. If you post a pic like that of course people are gonna respond accordingly. | |
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| Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire?
Posted: 4/29/2008 2:54:44 PM | far be it for me or anyone else to say what kind of pics a person wants to post here
or anywhere else on the net....that is entirely up to the individual....that said,
I personally would save the "best" pics for a sellect few........why flaunt what you got unless you intend to use it.
I agree with Sam on this subject...it's NOT that...at least I don't think.....anyone's trying to tell a woman what they SHOULD or SHOULDN"T lay out there for men to see.....wha's missing here is......does it send mixed messages for those who DO and then get hacked off when men respond to their profiles wanting something different than the woman intended? To me...the females who have to bend over in order to even create a cleavage are the ones I get tickled about.....
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