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 697989

Joined: 4/23/2007
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Posted: 4/17/2008 3:49:04 PM
The culture and beliefs are so differant from the west also.

I had a lady friend who also fell for a guy, from South Africa, she and he really fell for each other and they e-mailed then talked on the phone for 4 month's she really felt that the guy was the one !
Like your friend he had problems getting a visa to visit her .Well to cut a long story short he visited her and for the first week it was bliss !! so she told me !
Then all the things that she never thought about started to pop up !! He was the man and what the man said was what was going to happen ! Religion then also popped up as a real problem ! His basic thinking on subjects that you have never probably discussed made them grow apart in a very short time ...
It was also evident to her that he wanted to wed her as the job prospects and money he could earn were so much better in the UK !!! so in a way a scam ..but one that would have hurt her more than the simple loss of some money ..

I know you do not want to hear anything like this said about your guy !! but !!

be careful.
 cuteazabutton

Joined: 8/8/2006
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Posted: 4/17/2008 5:38:57 PM
Thank you " 697989" at least someone is being a little sensitive about their comments they make unlike some of them that have posted in my thread. I know this is a forum and i will get negative opinions about it but everyone seems to have it all wrong. I in no way plan to send this guy money, yes i know ive only known him for a short while and as a matter of fact he did offer to send me money to go see him but i declined. If he wants to see me he will have to come here. Im not stupid as one poster seems to think and that just goes to show his maturity and his ignorance. It was just a question i wanted an opinion on because i just feel the government seems to put too much emphasis on foreign visitors. Anyways im not going to let one poster or several posters make me feel like im naive and cant figure out one scammer to the next. So for the posters who gave me some good advice i thank you once again.
 Not_a_FAT_Slob

Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 4/17/2008 6:54:30 PM

Some of the more experienced ones can keep it going for months before any request for money, etc is made or the marriage proposals ever come to the conversation. All you know about this man is what he chooses to tell you. That's all you know.


When I broke up with my ex, I was talking on the internet to a woman in the Phillapines and it didn't take her very long to ask me for money. We were talking for a few weeks. I was the cats ass until I said NO. She claimed she was so poor up to that minute. I am sure she has moved on to some other guys who are lonely and desperate and naive.

Nowadays, I won't even waste my time talking to any woman who is not in my area.

OP how do you know "Morocco Joe" is even telling the truth why he cannot visit you ? I know the visa requirements are strict. For all you know, maybe he has a criminal record. As another poster mentioned, you only know what he tells you.
 angelheart3

Joined: 2/3/2007
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Posted: 4/17/2008 7:34:24 PM

I know the visa requirements are strict.


And to add to that, they're strict for very good reasons, IMO.
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