daspark wrote:
I'm gulity of what one of the posters said she didn't like eopel doing when she talked to them.the whole nodding of the head repeatedly or say"hmm" over and over, but i actually am LISTENING when i do those things, am i'm afraid to say anything before the person finishes because then the person will think i'm intterupting, so what should i do?
Interrupting someone isn't alway the wrong thing... particularly where someone
is just rambling on and on and on about themselves. While there is a place for
being courteous and polite, there's also a time to set limits and boundaries, particularly
if the person we're engage in conversation with is being rather impolite themselves
by too much monopolizing the talking. So if you sense your good nature is being
taken advantage off by someone who seemingly only just wants to yap about
themselves, then don't at all hesitate to keep yourself from too much being
victimized -- sometimes interrupting someone really is the right thing to do.
Apolinary
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