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Posted: 4/24/2008 5:11:54 AM | | A lot of women are like that, i am like that but i am upfront on my intentions and never cuddle and then say "just friends" You need to be clear about your needs,intentions and feelings.But yes embrassing that freindship is a good i dea. I mostly have male friends, real friends no cuddling or anything and man/woman friendships are the best. | |
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Posted: 4/24/2008 12:16:24 PM | She's lonely ..she wants attention and comfort which you will provide ...but she's not really interested in anything more with you or is unable to handle a relationship at this time ..
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Posted: 4/24/2008 12:57:07 PM | | I think the only one that can give you the answer to this one is the girl you are asking about. There are several different things it could be. Yes, she could be a player. OR it could be that she does in fact like you and for whatever reason is afraid of those feelings and wants to take it SLOW and isn't ready to even admit them fully to herself let alone you ...but yet wants that time with you to get to know you. OR it could be she really DOES want to be a real friend to you and honestly enjoys spending time with you like that...and the roadtrip was offered as a genuinely nice gesture to have you go visit your friends and she thought the two of you would have fun on the roadtrip there. And the "cuddle"...some people simply *are* more touchy-feely with their friends and really don't mean anything "like that" by it and aren't trying to lead you on..which is why she put the brakes on when you tried to kiss her. I think you need to simply try to talk to her about your feelings..explain your confusion...get her take...and go from there. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2008 9:17:28 PM | I think this answers it PERFECTLY
It's not right and it is a very mean game girls play. It's more about their own insecurities and fear of being alone and the guys feelings get lost in the mix and it always ends badly. Don't stop being a nice guy though trust me there are women out there that are searching desperately for that. In the end Karma will win out i promise i don't want to see one of the few good guys go to the dark side. :) | |
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Posted: 4/26/2008 11:44:59 PM | | I agree with Todreamandbelieve. I think that she wants you as a friend but knows that you want more and is lonely. She can come to you for some comfort with no strings attached. I could see a FWB situation if it keeps up. | |
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Posted: 4/27/2008 12:27:15 AM | Well that confirms a theory of mine...thanks...:D
b.t.w...regardless, this girl is or (was by the date of the post) playing a rather sick game... | |
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Posted: 4/27/2008 10:49:29 AM | I agree with what most people said on here in their replies to your post.
I think she "kind of" likes you, but is just keeping you around to be a comfort blanket.
I mean, she calls you when she was drinking, and wanted to come over and cuddle.. I would of said no - imo. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 2:19:28 AM | So...........she finds out I had a date last night and she has a mental breakdown....saying shes jealous of the this girl but when ever I tried something she ALWAYS shot me down
this girl is a mess | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 4:57:22 AM | Walk away with your dignity intact. Maybe she was game playing to find out how much you care? I'd say that backfired, wouldn't you?
Date women who know what they want and lose the ones who are clueless.
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Posted: 4/30/2008 10:04:05 PM | | I agree, walk away now man...she may be playing a game, maybe not, at this point it doesn't really matter. | |
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