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| having trouble finding some one because of a disabilty you may have Posted: 8/2/2009 12:07:25 PM | | Wolf- i do know what you mean by judging. I work with the mentally and physically handicapped. Some of our clients cant even hold a cup. I see the looks they get from people who don't understand. Some of the comments are even worse. People are uncomfortable with and reject the unfamiliar. Just keep doing what your doing, educating people about it, and the will eventually feel more comfortable. If they aren't, they are not good friend or possible significant other material. | |
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| having trouble finding some one because of a disabilty you may have Posted: 8/3/2009 11:03:31 PM | joanne1357 ,
Iam not what as you say whine and why would i? I see what go's on in this world i live in it day by day to watch people stare at other's who have disabilty's and some even laugh or make fun of them and why because they think there better or what i may say is bullying .
I have to say that other man is right who posted after me i have worked with people with all types of disabilty's and you know why i have something that many dont have a heart of gold and compassion for people .
And i do think every one deserve's a right to choose to date regardless if they have a disabilty or not.But why do they look at those with disabilty's and judge them befor getting to know them for who they realy are.
A quick story when i was a kid in school i can imagine other's that may rely on what im saying to be picked on or made fun of etc do you know what happend to those kids now they are now having problem physicaly or mentaly and they dont like it well my saying is what go's around come's around.
And you can never tell what will the future bring you can be fine one day the next you can get in to a car wreck and then what will you whine that you cant get up or cant go back to work or even do things simple im not attacking you personaly but it can happen.
I rember working in this factory with people who where retarded thease group of people regardless being retarded worked harder than people who didn't have a disabilty and i could just listen to those making fun of those people so tell me am i whining or am i making a point?.
Draw you own conclusions. I realy think they should make sites for people who have all types of disabilty's to make a friend or even a partner or just need support or some one to understand them I been on seval dating sites and i have to say not many will asept a person with a disabilty or any heath issues Because they dont want to take the time to understand that person .
well take care hope u have a nice day wolf | |
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