| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/18/2008 7:56:15 PM | | Honestly I can careless but I don't want to see it myself, as long she watches when I am not around I don't care. Guys watch lesbian porn all the time. I don't get it watching porn if you have a partner. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/18/2008 8:48:46 PM |
And i cant imagine myself being with another man to satisfy her, as i am not gay but how to make her happy if its two men she wants? You're projecting here. Watching an unknown person in porn is one thing; thinking everyone else actually wants to mimic porn is quite another. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/18/2008 9:10:46 PM |
but i could never imagine that MY girlfriend would do this to me!...And i cant imagine myself being with another man to satisfy her
She didn't do anything to you, ur over reacting to this. I am quite sure she DOES NOT want you to be with another man to satisfy her...pull urself together and get over it already. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/18/2008 10:08:24 PM |
I was home at her place few days ago and I couldnt help myself sneaking a little bit.. And what i saw shocked me!
So, you wre snooping in your GFs private things without her knowledge? And you don't see a problem with that?
She obviously has a thing for gaymen... and i mean that they really did everything on these pics and videos as well!
So I am guessing you took the time to sit down and look at some of these videos and pictures of gay men having sex. Did any of it turn you on?
Also, what's wrong with a GIRL having a thing for watching two guys in a porno? I would think it's the same thing as how some guys like to watch two girls, No?
I know a lot of people looks at porn these days as if its not cheating but according to me its psychological cheating and I wouldnt even consider looking at porn when i have my lovely girlfriend! Why would i want to see something that doesnt even show the real sexlife and just patronizes women? No thank you!
"Psychological cheating"? Seriously, are you that insecure? What does that even mean? Psychological cheating? ??
And, so your saying that, whenever you have a GF, you never have any fantasies or desires that you wish to watch via porn, but once you get dumped, porn is all good once again?
Obviously you have some issues with porn. But don't try to make it seem like everyone who watches porn or watches porn in a relationship should share the same screwed up views as you. Some people actually enj0y watching porn with their partners and some partners are secure enough to let their SO watch porn once in awhile. I think it'can be a problem with it's takem to the extreme level, but that's for a different post. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/18/2008 10:14:53 PM | Sex is sex, and if it doesnt violate your moral boundaries, it doesnt matter what kind it can be erotic....
And I am so sick and tired of people saying porn patronizes women....It is fantasy, and the women get paid and go into the industry with a pretty good idea of what they are getting into.
men like you patronize women....by deeming their sexuality as dirty and immoral instead of embracing it....back to the Victorian era we go. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/18/2008 10:42:39 PM | | dude..i dont know if it should be a big deal to you..maybe she is just into those things..maybe its not really you..talk to her still and get some answers | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:49:29 AM | Dang I love the forums!!!!!
Now, these are my comments.
So...did you check out her lingerie drawer as well?
Do you feel dirty?
I found porn in my renters room when he had to leave and left all his stuff. My son was horrified to find out I found his mag. I said I would have worried more if he didn't have some. Then, my son admitted he gave it to the other guy!
I care take a house that is owned by a gay guy. I found the gay porn...you BET I looked....and I'm an old gal.
I feel so normal now. Thanks everyone... | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 2:53:40 AM | Ehhhh....I don't look at gay porn. Jut doesn't do anything for me. But, well honey, if you kept looking to see that 'they did everything' and didn't stop after you realized what you were looking at...I'd have to say maybe you entertain the thought of some ***hole luvin'......Guys won't admit it...tsk tsk...but having your prostate played with can be enjoyable.
~Welder's Girl~ | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:40:04 AM | So I guess there is no way you would watch two girls together?
Maybe its the same thing for her - get double the visuals? lol | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:41:05 AM | | Wow, this is just like that thread in Ask A Guy! The OP of this thread and the OP of the Ask A Guy thread should get together and save their current partners some grief. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 11:03:32 AM | Redcassandra
So just because Sweden doesnt discriminate people that is gay or just want to live together without getting married it means we are not prude? For me it symbolizes a strong culture where people isnt being judged by their sexual orientation and its good that people can registrate partnership as a legal thing.
I feel sorry for narrowminded people. I hope you find happiness in your life, maybe then you will become less narrowminded! | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 11:14:10 AM | No... because there is no discrimination in Sweden, I consider it to be openminded country and that is a GOOD thing.
Being prude is not a good thing in my book... Perhaps it's the language problem that we are dealing with, so here is the definition of what prude means:
prude
n. One who is excessively concerned with being or appearing to be proper, modest, or righteous.
I don't really see what makes ME narrowminded in this conversation.
For some reason you decided to zero in on what I have said, though I don't think I was insulting your country, dude.
Quite the contrary.
You might be better off if you were to stick to the question that you have asked and perhaps start a new thread about life in Sweden, as this is totally off topic.
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 12:55:27 PM | Your girlfriend sounds sexually healthy. She knows what turns her own and is willing to go for it. And what is it that turns her on? Well apparently, having sex with one man (you) and watching images of multiple men doing it together (porn). So when she can't have you she gets off on the porn, but I doubt she would choose the porn over you or expect you to imitate the porn.
Maybe if you watched some man-and-woman porn together sometimes you'd have a more open-minded viewpoint about the healthy role porn can play in sexual expressiveness. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:15:18 PM | | Most people view porn of various subjects and with various 'actors'. I have seen gay porn. It's interesting. In some cases, it's funny; in others, it's sexy. Just because it's fun to watch doesn't mean she secretly harbors the malicious intent to get you to suck on some guy. Maybe they're just pretty men with pretty equipment, and the view turns her on? | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:17:45 PM | hahahahahahah sweet. I want to be friends with your girlfriend.
This is the same retarded thing as when girls get pissed that their guy thinks it's cool to see two girls kiss. Get over it. You like, we'll like it just to piss you off. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:28:25 PM | | Well, since you asked my opinion.... you snooped when she wasn't home and you think the problem is that she watches gay porn? HAHAHAHAHAHA | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:31:54 PM | My ex said she was curious about lesbians. I didn't worry about it but I sure thought about it a lot. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 1:43:46 PM | O.k. this was just toooo good... I can't resist:
besser wrote:
yes i have been told a lot of women do this although men dont think they do but i could never imagine that MY girlfriend would do this to me! lets just say i dont feel very attractive now! And i cant imagine myself being with another man to satisfy her, as i am not gay but how to make her happy if its two men she wants? I feel like im not enough at the moment...
Gotta go with kyn~ on this one:
No offence OP but...
Role reversal at its finest.
And no...I dont get off on Gay Porn.
Neither do I, and I must say, you've summed up the argument against porn very well. Only when men realize their women may begin to want/expect all men to look like porn stars will men have a problem with porn. Maybe! (*devilish grin*)
By the way -- shame on you for snooping. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 2:12:09 PM |
Sweden is a country where men know their place When can I emigrate? Where exactly is that place?
Perhaps a dungeon franchise in Sweden might be in order.
Maybe she was trying to get blow job tips? Maybe she was looking for anal sex tips? Did you find a strap on in her closet when you were rifling through her personal belongings? | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 4:32:44 PM | | if you cant deal with a woman looking at porn...maybe you have some growing up to do...get over it....it's 2008...i dont know anyone that doesnt watch porn. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:03:30 PM | Dont know why OP is even asking the question as a translation for his POF name might be - know-it-all. You are what you say you are as Lupe Fiasco would say.
OT - Other posters have said this but I've got to reiterate, isnt this the same as a man watching lesbian porn? That said, lesbian porn is usually made for men and gayporn is mostly made for men so the analogy isnt quite correct. | |
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