| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:44:14 PM | She was watching two men who were likely super good looking and hung like horses pleasure each other. To many straight women that is just as erotic as a man watching two women pleasure each other, and oddly enough, nobody thinks that is weird or scandalous.
Get over it. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:53:32 PM | People, people, people.
The OP's moniker is Besserwisser which means he is a smart ass and pseudo-intellectual.
Me thinks I smell a rat. A snoopy, insecure, smart ass rat.
^^BG^^ | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 8:16:42 PM | Here is why gay porn can be appealing to some women:
The men are actually hot- esp the muscular ones-unlike in hetero porn, and the camera actually lingers on their bodies, instead of only on the woman or a genitals close-up (which is very boring to me)
You can be a voyeur without having mixed feelings about the girls (who are likely on drugs/molested by an uncle/in pain/counting the minutes til the shoot is over etc. etc.) When it's two guys I really don't worry about that stuff. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 8:22:18 PM | I go to the leather bar with my gay boyfriends and they always have it playing on the various displays around the room.
Frankly, some gay porn is sort of hot. It's very intense and the men look a lot better than the men in straight porn. Nice physiques, less tattoos. It's not something I would seek out in particular, but it's interesting to watch.
So what if she wants to see two men together. I have a long standing fantasy about having two hot men at the same time, one vacuuming and the other doing the windows.  | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 8:34:30 PM | | This thread is hilarious. I have a friend who looks at gay male porn because she thinks it is hilarious. Everything from the website names to the fact that some of the guys are actually married with children and just do that for the easy money. I kind of think that is funny too, but it definitely would suck to be that guy's kids. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/19/2008 11:24:50 PM | Hmmmm....I'm thinking, that this is not any different than a man watching porn that shows two women going at it. For men, it's not considered out of the ordinary and I would tend to say, that many women would agree. I may be wrong here, but I've always been under the impression that this is one of the top fantasies among men. (Guys, correct me if I'm wrong.)
So, your girlfriend is watching a video of two men and you are shocked. It doesn't mean she has a thing for gay men. You feel it's cheating (psychological). Have you spoken to her about it? If it bothers you that much, you should. Understanding where her interest is coming from might really help you and your relationship with her.
Best of luck..... | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/20/2008 1:56:12 AM | angela really IS the coolest.... read her post again, OP, and others as well.... what's good for the gander is good for the goose... it was only a matter of time before some guy had a problem with his girlfriend watching some kind of porn (not preapproved by him, of course!)
hmmmm..... after all these great descriptions of the male bodies in gay porn, I'm thinking I need to do a little sociological research in this area, for the good of humanity. lol
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/20/2008 4:33:33 AM |
Sweden is a country where men know their place
Huh? fukked, if I know what that means...
It's about respect.
Yes it is.....so how come you were snooping through her stuff?
Lots of women get turned on by gay porn. It's a fantasy.
OP....give your g/f a break and leave her personal things alone.....deal with your insecurities first..
She is probably fantasizing about the actors bodies and sexual equipment......seems pretty healthy to me......she is entitled to experience this.....it's her buisiness | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/20/2008 6:03:46 AM | | I love porn! Love watching it but if I am going to pay for it give me something fun to watch. Bridget the midget, some animals, trannies, golden showers and yes gays. I want to be shocked and mystified. If its just regular porn hell I can do that...have been for years. Show me what some freak and a horse can do | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/29/2008 6:47:44 AM | Wow. Just...wow.
besserwisser, you and I are clearly from different planets, not merely different sides of the same planet.
First, you are snooping around your girlfriend's place without asking.
I'd call that a no-no to start with. Psychological cheating? How about actual and deliberate invasion of her privacy? Were you snooping in her underwear drawer too?
And supposedly you are in your thirties.
Second, you found gay porn. Oh, the Horror. Did she have a computer too? Have you seen the stuff out there that anyone with a basic internet connection can access? You should be **comforted** that all it was was more-or-less normal gay porn, rather than God-knows-what-else. If you had found lesbian porn, would you now be obsessing about whether your girlfriend is a closet bisexual? Hey, at least it is clear that she is pretty much exclusively interested in guys in her fantasies also, right?
Third, you watched it. Several videos!! "they really did everything on these pics and videos as well". How many of the videos did you watch, man? Because you needed to make sure that these guys were going all the way, right? Because the cover photos of the half naked guys grabbing each other were *apparently* not sufficient to inform you of the content. Did you need to reassure yourself that you were not going to get turned on by it, or did the investigation really need to be that thorough?
And now you're acting all shocked, and you have to tell all of us about it. That is just TOO funny for words.
Besserwisser, an ex-g.f. of mine, who shall remain nameless out of concern for HER privacy, once admitted that she had the same turn-on, and felt guilty and ashamed about it. I 'manned up', did the "chivalrous" thing and rented her the d*mn gay porn she was too ashamed to even look at in the store, and surprised her with it. And no, I won't be sharing the details of the evening that followed with the general public on the Internet. Let's just say it was fun and leave it at that.
And no, I'm not bi or bi-curious or any of that nonsense. It was purely about her and making her feel sexier, and reassuring her that her own desires were going to get fulfilled in our relationship, instead of judged or mocked. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:09:24 AM | I remember in college, my roommates had a fantasy involving the members of Led Zeppelin and Neil Young.
They were straight women in their early twenties who just found it hot.
It's common. There's no red flags here. Some women just like gay male porn; it's an affirmation of how turned on they are by male sexuality. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:25:10 AM | | You are trying to tell me you dont spank your meat once in awhile? And when you do thouhg you may not be looking at porn you are probably using your imagination and not always of your precious girlfriend. that is psychological cheating no? it is unrealistic to expect a woman to stay focused on you sexually all the time . I think you are a bit of a control freak to expect this ... lighten up and just be glad she doesnt want to share her fantasies with you or you might end up in a two guy threesome LOL | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/30/2008 6:36:36 PM | it doesnt get my rocks off personally....but maybe she watches it because she thinks its interesting  | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:17:45 PM | I don't know about the Gay porn thingie. Women get turned on by different things then men. Romance Novels and chick flicks are porn for women.
Though, in Japan there is a genre of Fiction, movies, comic books Called Yaoi or "Boys Love" that details the relationships between very attractive young boys that sometimes include sex, but the focus is more on the relationship aspect. Yaoi is targeted and mainly read by a very large percentage of Japanese women. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 5/1/2008 5:56:56 AM | i dont know if anyones already mentioned it, i dont think so but like someone said earlier...role reversal!
Majority of men LOVE lesbian porn which is exactly the same as women loving gay porn! whats the big deal? works both ways. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:55:02 AM |
Sweden is a country where men know their place
And, apparently, that 'place' is 'snooping in somebody else's private affairs'.  | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 5/1/2008 7:20:42 AM | See, why would they want straight porn? Unless they're bi, they probably aren't in to women, and they know the woman is faking it. With gay porn, they are getting two for one. Or, if they don't like one guy, they might like the other.  | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 5/1/2008 4:00:22 PM | Psychological cheating? Like...she's going to break up with you in favor of a gay couple who's going to let her watch?
It's what gets her off when she doesn't have a man, just like you watch straight porn when you don't have a woman.
What even makes you think she watches it while she has you? Just because she has it in the house/apartment doesn't mean she watches it religiously! I'm sure you don't throw YOUR porn out when you have a girlfriend :) it's a horrible waste of money if you do. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 5/1/2008 9:08:19 PM | | HMMM and yet you list yourself as single if your girlfriend has the same mindset as you I wonder what she would think of that????? | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!!
Posted: 5/1/2008 9:52:50 PM | Wow ... I must live "under a rock" ... I had no idea women were into watching gay porn!
Interesting, though, that a man who has a girlfriend - but claims single on his profile- would be snooping in "her" things .... and then be disturbed by what he discovered.
Nice sentiment though ... that you "wouldn't even consider looking at porn when you have a lovely girlfriend". | |
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