| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/3/2008 3:51:22 PM | oohhh a few things: snoopin is no bueno!!
1. you suck for snooping and guess what?? you didn't like what you found! hah.
2. she has every right to enjoy it. and you can either sit in the dark and worry or you can confront her.. either way.. you're toast.
3. far fetched but she may have set up the pix to screw with anyone who snoops on her pc. lol i did. i had some stuff that made my ex's head spin and i knew if he's been snoopin because I can see it in his green face.
regardless.. you broke cardinal rule. you snooped.
thats no bueno.
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/3/2008 7:50:26 PM | I thought "gayporn" was fine when it was all hairless young men holding each other's junk in artistic poses. When I realized there were whole areas of the genre that involved hirsute men with where-the-wild-things-are genitals peeking out from forests of pubic hair...oh, and, like, real man asses, rather than romantic, tanned cherubic things...I confess, that was the day I knew I'd never be a gay man.
If your girlfriend is into that, I say more power to her. To paraphrase a previous poster, "What's she going to do, leave you for a gay guy?" | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/3/2008 10:05:52 PM | first off "chobits" you rock! and firstoff i dont know how a male cannot think that a woman wouldnt even be the least bit interested in gay porn. for one theres tow men and no women. as "chobits" wrote. second some women are turned on to penetraition the same as men are. third the body part most looked at by women is the male ass. theyre just as bad as we are guys. (guess what the other guy is going to go inside of) this is really a stupid question in general. im sure if you were to get an honest answer out of this guy as to if he in any way or another likes girl on girl, he say yes. and dude.. grow up. youre on a dating site, porn is a far lesser evil of the two. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/20/2008 7:15:55 PM |
Hmmmm....I'm thinking, that this is not any different than a man watching porn that shows two women going at it. For men, it's not considered out of the ordinary and I would tend to say, that many women would agree. I may be wrong here, but I've always been under the impression that this is one of the top fantasies among men. (Guys, correct me if I'm wrong.)
I felt compelled to reply since you *did* ask for guys to correct you if you were wrong. While I'm sure a lot of guys (including the majority of my friends) like the thought of "two women going at it", for some reason this is a super turn-off for me and has been as long as I can remember. Whenever there is "guy talk" going on and that subject arises I usually become mysteriously quiet for fear of not fitting in, although I seem to recall admitting it to at least a few people I know. Somewhat ironic that one would be sheepish to admit *not* having a particular fantasy, I know. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/20/2008 7:45:36 PM | Invite your buddy over and do a show for her.
Come back and tell us how fast she was able to pack and bolt. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/21/2008 11:39:51 AM | My god OP, pull your head out of your ass. I like porn...ALL porn, well I'm not big on animals being involved (makes me gag) I find 2 men hotter than 2 women and I have been known to watch both. My boyfriend thinks me watching 2 men is kinda gross but doesn't think less of me as a person or as a partner. Nor does he feel threatened by my tastes.
I feel horrible for her to have such a snoopy untrusting boyfriend, she definitely deserves someone better than yourself. You need to find yourself a prude who believes that missionary is the only 'normal' way to have sex and that to enjoy it any other way is evil. Your perfect girlfriend will be someone who thinks that you should only 'make love' on Saturdays and on Saturday night she will be waiting in bed at 10pm with her eyes closed and her nightgown hiked up to her waist. She will not look at you nor touch you during the act, yet will lay there like a board as she was taught to. She will have been taught that fantasies are wrong, and that no good girl should ever think 'impure' thoughts. Don't forget to take off her white collar before the act. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/22/2008 10:51:59 AM | oh you should be so lucky...It prolly means she has a freaky side to her, the fact that you don't, prolly means you don't have a freaky side to you. Too bad, This could only improve your sexlife....ya really gotta lighten up.  | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/22/2008 1:07:25 PM | | i am a straight female, i go on the sky and flick though the porno on there and take a look at gay porn channel its nice to see men naked and doing things, dont really see it much on pornos with the women and men at it. xx | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/22/2008 3:12:55 PM | Just as some men enjoy looking at adult content of two women together, some women feel the same about seeing two men together.
Since there is a limit to my hypocrisy, I can see no real fault in it. I wouldn't want to see it myself, but hey, whatever. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/24/2008 10:53:55 AM | hey I know people who enjoy that so who cares nothing wrong with it she has every right to do what she wants | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/24/2008 10:35:30 PM | | OP, in your profile and in your complaint about your girlfriend you come across as a s self-righteous prig. I suspect you are unable to satisfy her wilder side, with your rigid ideas about right and wrong. Ignore this comment at your peril. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/25/2008 3:00:52 AM | This thread is pretty funny actually. My first reaction was that I had no previous knowledge that and sizable percentage of woman liked to watch gay porn. I mean really, I thought it was just made for an audience of gay guys.
I guess to be fair I've never known of another man that is turned off by lesbian porn. Interesting idea though. This thread made me think "If I had a girlfriend who I found out liked gay porn what would I think?" Hmm, honestly I don't know. It's and alien idea to me that I have never considered before. I don't think I would be too bothered by it though. I can't imagine how a woman watching homo's go at it would be any threat to myself. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/25/2008 3:25:28 AM |
Opinions people? Just thought Id throw this in here for interests sake.
Heard the latest divorce information....
Apparently pornography use is cited in 2/3 of Divorces as reason. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/26/2008 1:21:20 AM | Absolutely love it and even have my own collection. At the chatsite i go to, there is a porn room where a few of the room owners show porn on their cams (you need to download certain software to enable streaming video in real time ). One particular co-owner shows only MM/MMF porn cuz he knows i loveeeeee it! lolol | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 5/31/2008 1:20:26 PM | I find gay porn kinda sexy, myself
But OP, I have to wonder by the way you wrote that out if it's the KIND of porn she's watching that bothers you. If she were watching straight porn would you still considering it "psychological cheating"?
It does get tricky with that because everyone has different opinions of what porn is or isn't in terms of a relationship -- you feel it's like cheating while a great deal of people feel it's just entertainment or something that gets them into the mood. I doubt your girlfriend fancies herself in love with any of these porn actors, so maybe instead of feeling threatened by her watching porn, maybe you should just concentrate on the fact that she's *with* you. I'd say that means more than any video vices she might have. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 6/12/2008 3:44:33 PM | I watch porn all the time and I dont think its cheating its better then me going out and screwing someone. I also go to stripclubs and will NEVER stop watching porn or going to stripclubs, ill just find a guy who accepts it and comes with me
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 6/12/2008 3:58:12 PM | | dude like you wouldn't watch two chicks make out with each other. get over it or get rid of her. be honest if she just looking at the porn, at least she isn't riding another man's rod. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 6/12/2008 4:14:39 PM | "I was home at her place few days ago and I couldnt help myself sneaking a little bit.. And what i saw shocked me!
She obviously has a thing for gaymen... and i mean that they really did everything on these pics and videos as well!
I know a lot of people looks at porn these days as if its not cheating but according to me its psychological cheating and I wouldnt even consider looking at porn when i have my lovely girlfriend! Why would i want to see something that doesnt even show the real sexlife and just patronizes women? No thank you!
Opinions people?"
So obviously there is a reason that she is infatuated by gay porn. What that is, I have no idea. Should you address it? Absolutely.
And before I get a flood of replys saying how I'm being hypocritical I'll cover my ass and say the same thing for men. | |
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| My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 6/16/2008 4:11:27 PM | | doesent matter what kind i like odd porn to. so if you dident have a girlfreind to respect so much. what kind would you watch? | |
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