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Posted: 5/14/2008 6:08:24 PM | I too was unhappy being treated like Gold...this is why my neighbors on my street witnessed a man screaming like a girl running down the street and some woman behind the wheel of a car with the accelerator pushed to the floor. No names though.
galonemt: I am oddly finding myself obsessed with the heroine of this tale..WE MUST EMBARK ON A JOURNEY TO FIND HER! | |
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| Kids packed her bags!!
Posted: 5/14/2008 6:08:31 PM | I'm packing (don't have any teenage sons to do it for me).
Can we take a big bus and rescue all the women who are being "treated like gold"?
EDIT: Nona drives. | |
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| Kids packed her bags!!
Posted: 5/14/2008 6:45:00 PM |
'm packing (don't have any teenage sons to do it for me).
Can we take a big bus and rescue all the women who are being "treated like gold"?
EDIT: Nona drives.
First can we look up the OP and his sons, to see how fast THEY can run with full suitcases and/or bad backs?
Cindy O | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 6:56:59 PM | | ^^^^won't be too fast at all - seeing how the boys will have to carry their poor, injured father and their hobo packs. | |
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| Kids packed her bags!!
Posted: 5/14/2008 7:03:19 PM | I see a movie coming...........
ROAD TRIP....POF Women in seach of the Golden Goddess | |
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| Kids packed her bags!!
Posted: 5/14/2008 10:23:12 PM | I just knew that much bitter cynisizmhad to eventualy erupt.
I always thought it was men who needed to get laid occasionaly to keep their head out of their arse.
I am reconsidering that........ | |
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| Kids packed her bags!!
Posted: 5/15/2008 2:50:46 PM | nona37 said:
galonemt: I am oddly finding myself obsessed with the heroine of this tale..WE MUST EMBARK ON A JOURNEY TO FIND HER!
Yep, it's not stalking, so long as we do it as a group.... (grin)
...just kidding, I promise... | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 5:09:56 PM | im sorry but did u not read through properly? how the hell would they of made her life hell?!
tbh if she wasnt happy and wated a cheap fling away from her fmaily then thats just disgusting involving his sons? there 17 and 18 there pretty much grown men and they involved themselves by finding out there mums a cheat, no offence to you but ur making it sound as though its all the guys fault when tbh all they did was be a carign family who as he said spoilt her rotten i guess thats never enough for some people | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 5:22:33 PM |
And that is because there is an underlying hypocrisy related to cheating. And the hypocrisy goes as follows: "If the man cheats, he's a dog. If the woman cheats, it is his fault as well as he did not give her enough attention, affection........and so on." This entire thread is a testament to how this hypocrisy is alive and well!!
Well, you would be wrong about that. I don't care who cheats they are wrong. When I read this, the first thing that came to my mind, was these men?, jumping into their big old truck, screaming, and hollering, pulling into someone's yard, ready for this big fight, that dad couldn't take care of on his own, confronting a guy, that they know nothing about, and not having a clue whether the woman is in the house or not. But at least the guy that actually lived there, had the balls to go outside by himself and tell them to leave. There is no evidence of cheating. There is no evidence she was even there. I would never condone the cheating, but I do know what the fear of a man feels like. What everyone is reacting to is the fact that this man, done all the above, with his sons. I can honestly say I don't know anyone, other than people on a jerry springer type show, that has ever done anything like this. Whatever is between a man?, and his wife, is just that. It's not between a mother and her sons.
My first husband cheated, and when I divorced him, he told my daughters, we would not be getting a divorce, if I would just come back to him, and the divorce was allll my fault. "I" did not put them in the middle of it, and I explained some of it to them when they could understand. And even though he lied, pushed the blame onto me, when they actually found out some of the truth, just couldn't tell them all of it, they totally understood my position. AND even though he was such an a sshole to me, and about me, I made sure my daughters kept a relationship with him, not for him, but for THEM. Now do you understand the difference? | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 9:00:40 PM |
Now do you understand the difference?
Some days irony is just not a big enough word to cover it all.
I am curious where "their big old truck" came from?
Or where the "screaming, and hollering" came from?
I noticed how pretty much all of the concocted hyperboli was used to obfuscate and push a personal opinion or agenda by being injected into what happened.
SHEESH! Some people will go to extremes to justify where they are and how they got there.
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Posted: 5/15/2008 9:56:45 PM |
Now do you understand the difference?
Some days irony is just not a big enough word to cover it all.
I am curious where "their big old truck" came from?
Or where the "screaming, and hollering" came from
I "said" that's the first thing that came into my mind after reading it. You know, as in Jerry Springer type of people. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 11:11:57 AM |
I "said" that's the first thing that came into my mind after reading it. You know, as in Jerry Springer type of people.
So you made some unfounded assumptions to justify the exact same hypocrisy I was talking about. You tried to rationalize (no matter how vague) how he must have done something to make her cheat, which is exactly the hypocritical stance I was talking about.
How about this for being a better and easier explanation: “She is a self sintered biatch who decided to abandon her family and cheat on her husband to relive her 20s!!” After all, if there roles were reversed, that is exactly the tune you would be singing. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:31:37 PM | | Why am I not at all surprised that all the women on here run to the defense of a truly worthless kunt? You all really do think with one brain and half a soul to try and shame a guy who is being cheated on by a woman who won't even face him. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:36:57 PM | 
*shakes head and walks away*
Ladies...we need to get started on this road trip, we have a few detours to make. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:40:46 PM | I agree..I think it's jacked up to be defending the woman at all. If the kids were already involved, which he said they were because they are old enough to have a MIND of their own, than what right does the dad have to stop them from coming with to investigate what they already thought might be happening. I seriously was shocked to see people be infuriated with the dad for doing his proper duty and being a good father. What you may think is good parenting is your opinion and yours alone, I take sides with the dad and respect him for exposing his woman that he treated like gold.
Not to mention the fact upon reading more posts that people said he totally messed up any chance of mending the family. Umm, did you not notice at this point that regardless of what you may think and what the guy or cheater woman wants it wouldn't work anyways, the kids already had an idea and if the dad went by himself and found out, I don't think it would be fair to hold that from kids that age anyways, if the mom is a cheater, they should have a right to know, just like I would want to know in the same situtation. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:41:28 PM | | Nautical..I'm all packed.............had the boys do it lol so I'm ready............. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:53:37 PM | Hey, can I go too?
I'll drive and do all the heavy lifting. I'll even rent the trail bus.
All those ladies who were treated like gold will need some TLC after being starved for it so long.
Can I go? Huh? Can I? Can I? I'll be good. I'll be real good.
Pleeeeeeeeeze? | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:55:49 PM | 26 pages devoted to this BS? Y'all are obviously under the delusion that this guy and his story are real.
Seems to me it reeks of "troll". Apart from the flimsy story, look at when he joined and when he deleted his account.
TWO WEEKS. He probably sat back and read all your sincere and genuine responses, all the time laughing his ass off.
For some strange reason there is a contingency of youngsters who think playing head games with the "grown-ups" is more fun than a barrel of monkeys, but hasn't it always been that way for some? | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 8:15:48 PM |
I "said" that's the first thing that came into my mind after reading it. You know, as in Jerry Springer type of people.
So you made some unfounded assumptions to justify the exact same hypocrisy I was talking about. You tried to rationalize (no matter how vague) how he must have done something to make her cheat, which is exactly the hypocritical stance I was talking about.
How about this for being a better and easier explanation: “She is a self sintered biatch who decided to abandon her family and cheat on her husband to relive her 20s!!” After all, if there roles were reversed, that is exactly the tune you would be singing.
I "said" this kind of behavior made me think of a jerry springer episode, I don't know how I can explain that to you any better than what I have. People that act like this are usually on his show. I did not rationalize anything to do with cheating. What I "said" was, there is no proof of cheating, or that she was even there. How many times do I have to say that? If you think I'm taking up for her, just because she's a woman, then you need to go look at some threads that have to do with women cheating, and exactly what I think of them, and how they tear my a ss up for telling them how low they are, before "assuming", that I said any of this because I'm taking up for some woman cheating. What I don't condone is some fool and his sons running over to some guys, and his parents, by the way, showing their a sses, in the front yard, and they still don't even know if the woman is even in the house. What I don't condone is the sons being in the middle of it, daddy putting them there. Because he wasn't man enough to take care of the problem himself, or in a civilized manner. What's really good about this thread is that all the women can see how all you guys would react in a situation like this, how you think of your adult children, how you talk to, and about women. And it doesn't mean a rats a ss to me, what you think about my opinion, or thoughts. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 8:17:40 PM |
We treated her like gold ,spoiled her rotten, in the 19 years, and we get this kick in the nuts.Me and the boys are wondering is she messed up??
"WE" who was married? YOU. You have enmeshed your children into what should have been an adult marriage. Whether the kids wanted to know or not, YOU are the adult and it should have stayed between you and your wife AND your wife and her children's relationship is between her and them. Is SHE messed up? Sounds like the whole family is messed up.
The truth is, IF she FELT treated like "gold" & "spoiled rotten" and for 19 years no less, she probably wouldn't have gone anywhere. Me thinks your view might be slightly skewed. For the fact that she felt the need to "hide somewhere" tells me she knew something you're not telling.
At this point she does not want to try and seek proper help,(talking to the wrong friends)
Maybe YOU can get some "proper help" and see where all this enmeshment has probably been going on for a long time and only by getting help yourself will you be able to show your sons that the actions of the 3 of you were out of line.
and one last thing how much time do I give her to realize this big misstake
This statement is the most egotistical, arrogant, self centered statement I've heard in a long long time! My dear, I think she's made her decision.. Whatever her problems might have been.. you can bet she won't be running home to that "gold spoiled" home anytime soon! | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 6:39:43 AM | OMG! What have you done to those boys???
You were soooo wrong and so sick and so twisted to involve them. I am so angry right now I could scream.
I have a feeling the three of you made life a living hell for this woman and I hope she finds happiness.
I also hope one day she has a relationship with her sons, that they all reach some kind of understanding of what happened.
The sad thing is...I am afraid the boys will be just like you.
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I beg your pardon! Women frequently involve children as young as five and six when its them storming out of the house.
These MEN (18 is no boy in any legal sense be it driving, sexual, voting, or military service) were not involved by their father. They chose to involve themselves and THEY were the ones ready to get violent with the guy thier mom was cheating with. It was the father who calmed them down. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 6:56:28 AM | | Oh the father calmed them down.?.........Was this after he took them to the supposed boyfriends house...and after he let them PACK HER BAGS..............After he let them do what he should have done as a man and husband..........confront her..........now there's a man any woman would love to have in her life.......NOT | |
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