| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 4/23/2008 10:42:57 PM | It depends on your heart. If you are in love with that person, and it's pure, yea, wait...BUT this person better have a good reason to be stalling this relationship to go further AND you better really know this person, not only one on one but through family, friends, etc. If others that know him understand his reasons for stalling in the relationship, you have third party confirmation.
When you speak to him about your relationship, your heart makes the decisions...when you talk to others that know him, your mind makes decisions.
Follow both and come to a conclusion.
Kind Regards,
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 4/24/2008 6:18:04 AM | Gary,
I thank you for your input!! Awesome ideas.. I would have to say you have been here before?? what ever the case may be.. You have helped with your thoughts!! Thanks honey!!
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 4/24/2008 11:45:27 AM | Question for downboy, have you been having any luck with dat dhere profile? lol 
Sure gave me a laugh
Giggles I wish the best for you. Hopefully you'll get what you're looking for, cause I believe you deserve it. | |
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 4/24/2008 1:41:02 PM | Pardon me for a min Anvilghost??
But, I feel your replay to Downboy was very sad and hurtful to my heart! once again my heart is sadden but the superficial ideas of oneself and others! How can we live in world of non-hate, non prejudging of others?
We all are give a deck of cards from the Lord and we all have to deal in te right way of which them deck of cards are given to us. We have no choices in some matters but, we do what we can and what is best for them metters!
I'm not here to point fingers but, how and why would anyone want to cause pain onto someone they have no idea who they are and never walked into there shoes to know what there life is like?
WOW...... A very sadden,
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 4/24/2008 2:05:44 PM | Giggles I wasn't being smart towards him. I just thought it was a funny profile. Im sure when he was writing it, he was meaning it to be funny. Really I liked the profile, it made me laugh. Hopefully any woman who reads it, will see the humor in it. So I ment no harm. I apologize if you took it in a negative way M'lady.
I'm not here to point fingers but, how and why would anyone want to cause pain onto someone they have no idea who they are and never walked into there shoes to know what there life is like?
I dont understand this myself. How can a person or persons want to cause pain to someone they dont know? Only God can answer that one, and im sure they will answer to him when at those gates.
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| Would you wait on someone?
Posted: 4/24/2008 3:12:45 PM | So rebel, no reason to apologize but we could say you owe me one
Loreli, I always pay my debts my lady !!!! | |
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 4/25/2008 6:07:10 AM | Anvilghost,
I have to say I did not catch the humor in his profile and I hope it was just me then, that missed that point in his profile! I did not take it as a negative but, I felt it was hurtful.
You know I myself never pass judgment or assume anything of anyone for I do work in the medical field and have seen and still see to this day............. The outer strength of some very wonderful people! I have seen some outstanding Miracle's that would make you go "WOW" or just drop to your knees and cry like a baby!
So yes, when I see 2 grown men attack and play this war of the minds... I think the energy they waisted could have gone to help someone smile in the need of just that smile for a ray of hope for just one more day.
Or when I read a profile I do not just skim over it but, I read the depth and or the meaning of it. That is what I see and I feel! When I read what you had said it did not make me laugh but, think of the harship this man is going through, my heart just wanted to reach through the PC and give him a hug for a hug is wroth more then the price of gas if you ask me!
Thank you,
Giggles | |
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Posted: 4/25/2008 7:42:13 AM | So yes, when I see 2 grown men attack and play this war of the minds
You dont have to worry about me attacking back anymore. I apologize for the way I have acted. Now im looking into the future
I guess I would even wait on someone. But I wouldnt wait long. Maybe a month | |
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 4/25/2008 4:25:03 PM | No I would never wait on someone. I would end it, if you all deal with your issues seperately and end up coming back together then Goody Good. But if not, you would have saved yourself time and heartache.
Good Luck!
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 4/26/2008 12:33:02 PM | Believe,
Thank you for your input!! You are correct and you have to look at the siatition and then decide what is best for that time! Should we all give someone a chance? I think we should for you would be kicking yourself in the butt on the "what if's"
But, if all has been bad from the et go then you are once again correct not to wait on anyone but, on the other hand you can set a time limit and still go out and have fun. Never sit at home to wait!! For if it does turn for the worse you did not waist any energry or time!
Once again that you honey!!
Hugs,
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Posted: 4/26/2008 2:10:08 PM | Never sit at home to wait
Thats my #1 rule in life. I have a fun life
Get your swerve on! | |
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Posted: 4/27/2008 8:07:23 AM | Correct Anvilghost........... We should not wait at home for anyone! Life is too short not to enjoy while you wait for that person to come out of there "CAVE" so to speak!!
WOW.. you posted a photo about time!!! lol
Giggles | |
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 6/3/2008 7:02:05 AM | Yes. Without a doubt! If I knew in my heart she was worth it, I could definitely "out-wait" whatever amount of time the situation demanded/warranted.
This might sound very strange in this "Oh, So Fast-Paced World" we live in, but I still believe my heart, when working with my mind, is intelligent and discerning enough to know ahead of time when waiting is worth it. And, if I get hurt, I learn not to get hurt in a situation that's exactly the same. [The] Problem is, most of these situations seem not to be similar enough for me to learn from.
Well,... "That's my story and I'm stickin' to it!" -- Lewis Grizzard, Southern humourest (1946-1994)
"Long live Lewis!" -- Me, Southern Web Geek (1964-)
Ciao4now, 
jon (jonslate)  | |
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 6/6/2008 10:24:05 AM | Wait until someone else was available! And not a second longer.
What is the deal with "waiting"? The purpose of a relationship is so that you can not only enjoy each other but support, encourage and grow together.
On second thought, don't even wait until someone else is available. Why is he blocking you out now.....what will he do when the going really gets tough? And it will. | |
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| Would you wait on somone?
Posted: 7/3/2008 5:23:55 AM | | Do not wait for this man . Respect yourself , you are a beautiful woman who deserves someone who can handle life crisis along with a mate. Men who push her away when the going gets tough cannot deal with realist issues in life. | |
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