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 HabsMan08

Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 26
Should I call her?
Posted: 4/20/2008 1:50:43 PM
I have sensed for the longest time she isn't interested and that is fine. Not everyone is going to be interested in me and I accept that. She should have said that a long time ago and move on.
 HabsMan08

Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 27
Should I call her?
Posted: 4/20/2008 2:01:37 PM
I deserved being slagged here by everyone. I used a poor choice of words saying that I am making her pay by not calling her. In fact I am the one who is making the mistake by not calling her. In fact I stopped being stubborn and listened to the advice and called her but I got her voice mail and left a message. If she phones good if not time for me to move on for good.
 ~tag~

Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 28
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Should I call her?
Posted: 4/20/2008 2:02:01 PM

OP......"Well I stopped being stubborn and gave her a call".........."I have sensed for the longest time she isn't interested"........

Okaaaaaay. So, you knew it but you called her anyways? You got tired of making her suffer, right?

Alright. You called. Now PROMISE to leave the girl alone! I'm very sorry, but sometimes, things just aren't ment to be!

ps................................ if you're going to discuss your 'love life' with your mum, don't tell others that you're doing it.
 HabsMan08

Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 29
Should I call her?
Posted: 4/20/2008 5:52:11 PM
I will take your advice. If she doesn't call which I know she won't I will move on. I have been though this before with her. If she isn't interested than she should say so instead of leaving hanging I can accept the fact if she isn't interested but what I don't like is that is that when we do chat she says she wants to see me but doesn't make the effort.
 Snakewhisperer

Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 30
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Should I call her?
Posted: 4/20/2008 5:57:27 PM
I think if she was interested, she would have called you. But if there's a shadow of a doubt, just call her. If she blows you off again, you will know.

And I don't know what's up with this lynch mob mentality on the forums. Poor guy asks for advice...........
 NERO1

Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 31
Should I call her?
Posted: 4/20/2008 6:21:53 PM
OP, I would try maybe once more, calling her that is. If that goes anywhere, then cool, go with it. If she gives you any kind of a blow-off type response, or whatever, then probably just move on and keep looking. Good luck.
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