| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/25/2008 11:19:13 AM | To steer this back to topic.
When I meet someone who I been talking to on the phone and we get along with each other very well. When we meet for the first time I can tell she is interested by her eyes first. Her touching me, playing with her hair. The conversation doesnt get boring. When shes asking me lots of questions. Well hopefully not to many on the first date. lol | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/25/2008 4:15:07 PM | OP, I've always been forward, and it usually gets me into trouble. I just like to know where I stand, as long as I do I have some sort of solid foundation. I'd rather stand on truth, than to go around assuming. You know what they say about that
assume and you'll make an ass out of you and me ;)
We all know where this thread will go if we let that man take it over.
Put away your swords.
I digress, being naturally inquisitve has its draw backs. ie you do get your feelings hurt, but sometimes you are right. I'd say the best way to get over the gitteries is to take a deep breath, and ask. Ask for the Truth, something like :
"Insert name here, I wanted to know if you felt a spark when we were together. Please be completely honest with me." :) That usually works.
Good Luck!
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/26/2008 7:07:02 AM | Believe,
"Insert name here, I wanted to know if you felt a spark when we were together. Please be completely honest with me." :) That usually works.
Awesome Little line you have there missy!!!! WOO HOO..
Girl I wish I had your inner strength to just JUMP up and ask what is on your mind!! Yes, at times it can get us into trouble but, you know the truth and where that relationship might be heading!
Thank you and Good Luck to you as well!!
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/28/2008 7:31:32 PM | The way I let my date know that I am interested is by using the simple Mr.T approach.
It goes a little something like this...Come here girl!...and let me stick my tongue down your throat!!
It's gotten me slapped and even almost maced on one occasion. I'm starting to beleive that may be a bit to forward. | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/29/2008 8:12:34 PM | I guess it would depend on the person or the circumstances..... You have those types of people who are shy and your not sure what they are thinking or what their interest level is ...... Then you have those over the top sort of guys who think within 5 minutes of meeting they can do whatever they want.... .. Most women know what type of man that is ..... The ones who suddenly want to get handsy feely all the sudden upon first meeting! *shudder* I so cant stand that!  LOL I have found that you just have to ride it out and see where it goes. | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:01:40 AM | | Ok but let me ask you this..... How is that treating a lady with respect? Would you want some man to have done that to your own mother had she went on a date? I think not! But on the flipside of that ..... if the woman allowed you to do that and not get your face smacked.... then to each their own I guess.... but that is NOT the type of man I would ever date or be interested in! Period. | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:07:36 AM | | I hear that all the time. But when it happens, most of the time it happens. If you are really attracted to the guy, im sure you would still be interested. Im not sayin a guy who is acting like he is wanting sex within 5 to 15 minutes of knowing you. Im talking about going for a kiss within 15 minutes. That lets you know and himself if you and him are interested in each other. Im just a very blunt and strait forward kinda guy. I don't like guessing. So thats why I make a move if im interested. Has nothing to do with respect. Has everything to do with nature | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:28:16 AM | LOL To each there own.... lol I couldn't even tell you how many women I have kissed. It would be in the thousands if I guessed.
So if a man waits until the end of the date with you then goes for a kiss, that doesn't have you worring about how many other women he's waited till the end of the date to kiss? Or so on and so on......lol Best to go fast, it help getting rid of the jitters and pressure. Also in my opinion, if you to are attracted to each other, best to have sex on the first night. What better way to get to know each other then having sex with each other. That totally gets rid of pressure and jitters. I no your going to say you have morales, but to me morales are a joke. You dont have sex on the first night is what most women with morales says. But then they all will have sex the second night, or within a week. Morales are a joke to me. But to each there own. Thats my opinion | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/30/2008 11:34:50 AM | Justacowgirl,
Your approach is perfect and more in line with most very decent Ladies with wonderful morals. Yes, there are many that go straight to first base with no minimal regards to what the after effects could be. Do you really think they all will tell the truth about their diseases nor care what they may spread because they are pissed by a past hurt, or by a certain whomever that gave them the disease? So, why not(!!), keep on spreading it around!!!
Most "wham-blam-thankyou Ma'am (or Sir)" dates usually never get to a second date. They either got what they wanted or off the conquer another date. There is no feelings or emotional connections except for sex.
But as the above poster muttered, "to each their own". I would prefer a Lady, such as you, that has boundary's to what they expect and the "will" not to over-ride your morals.
Great attitude and post justacowgirl, I wish you much luck in your search!!!
As per the above poster, this is just my opinion as well!
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/30/2008 12:36:17 PM | | Just because you want a woman/man that decides not to have sex on the first date, doesn't mean you are getting a woman/man without a disease. As the above poster has muttered. I could have had sex with 5000 women, and not have any disease. The above poster could have had sex with only one person, and be infected with all kinds of diseases. If its ment to be its ment to be. Even if you are a virgin, that doesn't prevent you from disease. I do wear protection. But most who wait to have sex, say a month or two, when they finally decide to have it, theres usually no protection used. Meaning spreading disease. The above poster could have a disease and not even no it. Guess he thinks he ok because he has morales. Just my opinion | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/30/2008 2:50:47 PM | Well I guess you will not be having sex anymore for the rest of your life. Oh but wait, you can still get deseases without sex. What ya going to do sneaky? You argue your opinion and mock me! But your mocking makes you look very bad. I thought you were through responding to me. Go ahead and say it! Go ahead!
Deja vu!
Everything was going so well, but then you always end up going back to your child like ways. You're to easy | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/30/2008 3:42:00 PM | I said I'd leave you alone unless you said something, I agreed with the young Ladies views and not with yours.......you got wrought out of shape over my opinion and I was glad to oblige with answering you back. My comments were not off base and you could have just let it go......but your Wolfie, I knew you wouldn't!
I am not mocking you, well perhaps in your mind I am but I am not. We have two very distinct opposite views of couples meeting and what happens afterwards. I come from a conservative stance, you from a very liberal stance. So what(??), is it something to get all torgued out of shape over it? I think not.
I "mutter" as much as you do, I just don't get mad about it as you do......and that's for real!
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 4/30/2008 4:09:05 PM |
Don't flatter yourself.
By what Wolfie.......talking to you??? Perhaps you shouldn't flatter yourself and I don't get all upset and go to another thread, as you have, to take a jab. I said all I had to here and I am done for a while. I am very sure I'll say something that you'll have a "hissy fit" over and it'll start all over again. Your Wolfie, time is on my side.
Until then, people's views of meeting others will have mixed reviews of conservative and liberal thoughts.
Done for now, have a nice evening Sir.
~Sneaks | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 5/1/2008 9:26:27 AM | You decided to take a jab here! So why cant I take a jab somewhere else. I guess you think I should just roll over and play dead everytime you decide to take a jab at me. I bet you would love that. But its not going to happen like that sneaky wolfie man. Your responce to my responce towards cowgirl, was not just your opinion, it was an insult thrown my why by you using the word Mutter. You responded to me. You said you where done responding to me, unless I respond to you. I havn't until you started it as usual.
Do you need me to go back and find what you said seeing how you have forgotten so easily?
I have not known you for long at all on these forums. I also don't know how wolfie was on these forums. But im guessing going by your words he was alot like me. So
I understand stand then. You're just plain jealous of me. I can be the bad boy, and get all kinds of women wanting me. You play the big brother and all you get is friends. I see why you are the way you are. Pitiful!!!
When I meet women for the first time, im just a fast mover. I like to know where I stand. I don't like guessing games. If shes really interested in me after talking on the phone for awhile then meeting, she would kiss back when I go in for the kiss. If she doesn't I will take that as her not being interested. This has worked for me more then going slow. Most women in my opinion don't like slow men. And again this is just my opinion.
They want in my opinion a man that will take charge.
This is fact.................. Im that Man! | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 5/1/2008 11:26:26 AM | I understand stand then. You're just plain jealous of me. I can be the bad boy, and get all kinds of women wanting me. You play the big brother and all you get is friends. I see why you are the way you are. Pitiful!!!
ROFLMBO............Do you really believe what you said Wolfie?? I am trying to keep from peeing all over myself from laughing at that remark. OK Wolfie, if it makes you feel like something of a man to say that........you have my humble permission.
Jealous?? Now, I don't care what anyone says, that was funny!!!!
Do you need me to go back and find what you said seeing how you have forgotten so easily? Poor little Wolfie, he sure doesn't like anyone that may have an opposite opinion to his....(Picture Wolfie pouting....too cute). I made a remark in regards to the thread based on yours and hers comments. Whether I stated "muttered" or "stated", you had the option to leave it alone and prove to all your not Wolfie. Which I knew you couldn't let it ride, because you ARE Wolfie and you trying to cover it up is so freaking funny.
Your responce to my responce towards cowgirl, was not just your opinion, it was an insult... I did not insult you little man, I gave a response that you didn't like nor agreed with. I agree with Cowgirl, she is a VERY decent Lady.
When I meet women for the first time, im just a fast mover. I like to know where I stand. I don't like guessing games. If shes really interested in me after talking on the phone for awhile then meeting, she would kiss back when I go in for the kiss. If she doesn't I will take that as her not being interested. Whatever works for you and fine for you. I prefer the a respectful decent Lady to go out with. With my life in a transition ( Retiring from Delta and working elsewhere).......having friends works best for me.
I left my remarks only in this thread, you scampered off, like a child, to other threads leaving real jabs at me because you can't take anyone standing up to you. I did not leave a single comment in any thread but this one.......so who really is acting out so small Wolfie boy. You are!
Go ahead Wolfie.......your turn.
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 5/1/2008 2:45:16 PM | Then the cow went under the moon.
Just keep doing what you're doing! Remember its who you really are. The truth is coming out
Im glad me and cowgirl are friends! Thats right sneaks I know her. And we can agree to disagree without insulting each others opinions. That is what makes her a great gal.
I know someone is interested in me when im getting some sugar. | |
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| When you meet for the first time how do you know they are interested in you??
Posted: 5/1/2008 3:31:53 PM |
The truth is coming out The "truth" as you put it depends on the person and their version of it Wolfie. You make the truth look like anything to anyone you want it to.
Im glad me and cowgirl are friends! Thats right sneaks I know her. And we can agree to disagree without insulting each others opinions. That is what makes her a great gal. By her remarks, I could assume she is quite a Lady. My remarks was an assessment of yours and her thread post. Whether you now her or not does not water down that fact that we have different approaches to meeting Ladies. There are many out there to fit the desires of many men, getting the right match takes time.
I know someone is interested in me when im getting some sugar. Well......something we can agree on.
I have just learned some very interesting info tonite, more later on this threads.
~Sneaks | |
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