| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/22/2008 4:54:37 PM |
What dollar store do you shop you get your clothes so cheap? Dude.. does your mom still buy your underwear? I did not say it was for just that one date, however since you said it, dating in your 20's is different. But when you get that crappy car with all the extras added on it...Hmmm I get it, It is the personality of the car right??? I can't just saunter into a bar in jeans t-shirt and sneakers.Men do not spend as much on their appearances. And if guys did not care, Victoria's Secret and Lasenza would not be doing so well. How many guys pass on us girls who wear the jeans and the tee shirt while their heads turn for the girl in the skirt and heels? Heels were not invented because women like to wear them... They were invented because crocs do not look good with stockings!
To whom exactly is this directed?? | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/22/2008 5:13:01 PM | To whom exactly is this directed?? Oh I'm sure it was me. LOL. How dare I think $30ish for a pair of undies might be on the pricey side.
Also FYI OP, I'm not a dude, and I'm far from being in my 20's. I've also been buying my own undies for quite some time now. Additionally I do have appropriate dresswear for dates, without having to buy a new outfit each time I go out with someone new.
Seriously, I have to buy my bras from speciality shops because of the cup size, and even I don't pay that type of dough. I dunno, I guess I would rather a guy meet me as I normally am than put on a front just for a first date. Each to their own I guess. Nothing wrong with dressing nicely but I guess I just figure I could grab a nice skirt and a nice blouse from my existing closet, instead of using a first date as an excuse for a shopping spree, and then blaming the guy for making me pay so much money. JMHO but it comes a cross a tad high maintance to me. | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/22/2008 6:07:13 PM | lol....this woman must work for the government and the union. Thank god she didn't mention labour costs
-edit- she's just not getting that many dates, is she?
-double edit--had more to say, but was more intrigued by that damn monkey.
:)
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/22/2008 9:28:56 PM |
How many guys pass on us girls who wear the jeans and the tee shirt while their heads turn for the girl in the skirt and heels? Heels were not invented because women like to wear them... They were invented because crocs do not look good with stockings!
If all they want is the look, give them a picture.
If they won't see anything else, give them the boot. | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/22/2008 9:49:56 PM | Maybe it's me but I find it funny for someone who blasts text-messaging, lattes and 20YOs in her profile to call someone dude.
That prep for a first meet - I dunno, screams of self-confidence issues to me. The packaging ain't gonna change what lies beneath, and since new panties and bra are a must for a first meet, probably fair to assume that dude is gonna see what lies beneath pretty quick anyway. So probably money well wasted.
@ angelssintoo - LOL!!!  | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/23/2008 8:12:30 AM | Ok I have been reading these posts and honestly I think her point was that women spend money to go on a date as well not just men . and how much we spends depends on the women it's her decision ..And I dont know about anyone one else but if I cant find anything in my closet that I feel like wearing I am off to shop .. lmao just my opinion | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/23/2008 8:27:59 AM | I agree with you Special! It was her point in that gals do dress for the ocassion. No matter what is spent on her wardrobe for the date! I think both parties do try to put their best foot forward on a date with someone new. Cost is not relative. The guy the OP talks about is just rude for making such a brash statement! | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/23/2008 8:42:56 AM | I too have been reading these posts and agree with Special and Moonchild. Many years ago, I was shopping for something special and I learned something that has stayed with me and I continue to practice it today. A woman can look all confident and classy on the outside with nice hair, nails. pretty outfit, but it does not all come together without comfortable underwear. I also learned that wearing sexy undies helps boost some self confidence. It DOES NOT MEAN that the potential date is going to get to see what you are wearing first hand. I dress for myself and if I want to wear a $50 dollar bra and $30 panties ....I do it for me! I remember going for a job interview once and I decided to wear some outrageous sexy underwear....at least it was a bit over the top for me at the time (now it is all old hat . All through the interview, I felt like I had a special secret and I let a sparkle show in my eyes and I had a confident nature about me that I don't think would have been there without that edgy feeling. I got the job...and it was one of the best jobs I ever had in my life! So stop slamming the op... I know I have done it myself...gone all out with a new outfit for a date...especially if he is someone I really have taken a liking to. Besides, any excuse for new duds works well with me! | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/23/2008 11:49:10 AM | | Okay, but if you're going to spend $85 on a underwear set for yourself, don't **** about how you spent this money for a first date. | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/24/2008 3:31:09 PM | [ decided to wear some outrageous sexy underwear....} Ok Greanize If your going to talk about your underwear like that we are going to have to know what colour they are? | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/24/2008 4:12:07 PM | dress for myself and if I want to wear a $50 dollar bra and $30 panties ....I do it for me! I remember going for a job interview once and I decided to wear some outrageous sexy underwear....at least it was a bit over the top for me at the time (now it is all old hat . All through the interview, I felt like I had a special secret and I let a sparkle show in my eyes
Next time I see you I am going to check for that sparkle in your eye. Geez! Spanking monkey is all I can think to post right now.
**spank** <---- closest thing to a monkey.....
<---monkey food - I have one of those. The feet are my ass cheeks; hands are my balls... and you can guess the rest cheeky monkey.
Obviously, the monkey is on top - lol!!! | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/24/2008 5:52:31 PM | Geeze guys...lol...you are too much. I can't say much more because then you will know all of our secrets. Just know that women wear pretty things UNDER their clothes because we wear pretty things under our clothes!  | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/24/2008 7:05:21 PM | | That was awesome..Brilliant....I hope that donkey reads your response..But tell me do you spend that kind of money for every date..?that's a powerful lot of money.If I spent that kind of money I would seriously think of dating only blind guys....nooo not me I mean you I am straight..but if I don't start getting more responses I may jump ship to the other side..lol..you have a great day. | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/24/2008 9:59:54 PM | Well well ! Hmmmm! I guess everyones expecting me to make a comment on this forum ! And so I think I better as some people figure it is what they wear and how they dress that makes them something specal ! Lo0k I don't care if you buy $300.oo fredricks nylons /$1400.00 panties/$400 .00 victoria secrect bra. And then get a italian made dress say $800.oo. Okay it just shows to me you spend alot on clothes . But it is not your F-n clothes that makes you or who you really are . Its your personallity ladies that is either gonna make the guy fall inlove with you or kick you to the curb. So sure she might have spent a few extra bucks for this date ! But no one was pushing her into paying that ! So she got tossed to the curb because I bet she probbly was more into appearances then personality ! And the guy probbly found out her personalitly was not worth his time to meet . And yes alot of ladies I have chatted online in these forums and who I have met some of you in person . Its not what you where wearing that keeps me away it's your personality that keeps me away ! Thats also why I don't bother even making first contact emails any more as so many women don't even realize its them and not what they wear or how they dress that is keeping the nice single guys away!  | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/28/2008 7:15:43 PM |
Heels were not invented because women like to wear them... They were invented because crocs do not look good with stockings!
Actually, heels were invented to make a woman's body look sexier. It's a visual thing where it makes a woman's butt stick out more and makes her legs look longer. It's very sexual, as a matter of fact, makes a woman look like she is "presenting" like in nature. It doesn't mean she is at that moment, but that's kind of the evolutionary thought process behind that.
Anyway, if you date me, you can just forget the expensive panties and go commando if you like! | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/29/2008 11:30:38 AM |
it makes a woman's butt stick out more .........itt's very sexual, as a matter of fact, makes a woman look like she is "presenting" like in nature.
ok - who the hell turned the channell to the "Animal Kingdom"? from fish to monkeys to wildebeasts?! WTF????? "Presenting?"....makes our butt stick out? No, no, no hun - that's more than likely someone in dire need of a restroom but can't run that fast in skirt and heels. | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/29/2008 7:44:00 PM |
ok - who the hell turned the channell to the "Animal Kingdom"? from fish to monkeys to wildebeasts?! WTF????? "Presenting?"....makes our butt stick out? No, no, no hun - that's more than likely someone in dire need of a restroom but can't run that fast in skirt and heels.
From Wikipedia:
"Reasons for wearing high-heels, which are almost exclusively aesthetic, include:
they change the angle of the foot with respect to the lower leg, which accentuates the appearance of calves they change the wearer's posture, requiring a more upright carriage and altering the gait in what is considered a seductive fashion they make the wearer appear taller they make the legs appear longer they make the foot appear smaller they make the glutial muscles more defined while wearing tight pants "
Not the last line and understand that the glutial muscles are your butt muscles.
Here are a few more articles on high heels:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=548730&in_page_id=1879
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-rock-positano/high-heels-and-your-sex-d_b_90010.html
Here is a thread on Yahoo where many concur with the butt lift:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=1006022208786&show=7
Don't shoot the messenger. Think about in strip clubs, ever see a stripper with flat shoes on? Ever notice the exaggerated way they walk and hold their body with the butt out far, legs extended as much as possible? There is a reason for that, because it is sexually flattering to the body no matter how uncomfortable it is for them. | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/29/2008 8:13:31 PM | I couldn't help but think of this thread today. There was a sale on some stuffed monkeys for children.... I grabbed one (a monkey - not a child) by the little ears and spanked it for ten seconds, or so..... I felt nothing.
I grabbed a second monkey.... spanked it too.... still nothing. I grabbed a third monkey..... spanked it... biotch slapped it..... called it names.
I was beginning to feel something.... it was a good feeling.
It didn't cost me anything to spank all those monkeys..... so.... I conclude it is cheaper than dating. | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/30/2008 4:17:59 AM | MI...you should have bought the Monkey. Then you could have spanked it whenever you wanted! There would have been a small cost involved but it would pay for itself in the long run.....much like new bra and panties!  | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/30/2008 11:21:27 AM | ^^^ he prolly bought bra and panties FOR the monkey before he started spanking it - cheap thrill :)
Don't shoot the messenger. Think about in strip clubs, ever see a stripper with flat shoes on? Ever notice the exaggerated way they walk and hold their body with the butt out far, legs extended as much as possible? There is a reason for that, because it is sexually flattering to the body no matter how uncomfortable it is for them.
Can't say I frequent female strip clubs, BUT (pun intended) I'll take your word for it. Thanks for the 411 on heel wearing. Guess I should start wearing pumps  | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/30/2008 12:21:45 PM |
Don't shoot the messenger. Think about in strip clubs, ever see a stripper with flat shoes on? Ever notice the exaggerated way they walk and hold their body with the butt out far, legs extended as much as possible? There is a reason for that, because it is sexually flattering to the body no matter how uncomfortable it is for them.
Oh, this just makes me want to run out and buy some heels so I can kill my feet and go lame by the time I am 50, go get the expensive bra and panties....then I will be all geared up for that new job! NAUGHT!  | |
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| Spanking monkey cheaper than Dating? Posted: 4/30/2008 4:46:33 PM |
^^^ he prolly bought bra and panties FOR the monkey before he started spanking it - cheap thrill :)
Umm... the monkey was wearing her own bra and panties........ that's why I spanked her. BAD MONKEY!! **spank, spank**
MI...you should have bought the Monkey
I like rentals...  | |
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