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Posted: 9/26/2004 3:21:11 PM | | Yeah, I'm more the best friend during the day and a bad girl at night. I already have a mother, don't need another one. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2004 11:07:07 AM | //All men have fantasies but would never tell his wife or girlfriend what it is. They'll go out to clubs and pic up other women. Why is this.//
I think some men do this for no other reason than the fact that they are scum . Period . I get a kick out of guy that says after they cheated "I am sorry honey I made a mistake "
WHERE WERE YOU TRYING TO PUT YOUR PENIS YOU MORON. HER PURSE !!!!!!!! "
If a guy isnt getting it at home or the two arent talking then there is alot more going on then just sexual .
I find it amusing that the thought of sexual self control is not only disdained now a days but out and out scorned . So I am not coddling guys who pull this but to be honest I would half to say that the psychotic importance that society has put on sexuality in regards to the health of a relationship has some thing to do with this behavior . It would follow that a good sex life with your partner is a by product of a healthy relationship . Listening to the mindless drivel of some men I have met they have it ass backwards and thats precisley why their lives are a complete wreck | |
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Posted: 9/27/2004 1:08:35 PM | I am the only one who can complete his. Because of my kinky freak side...
LOL
Very fortunate man, indeed ! :-) | |
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Posted: 9/27/2004 1:21:06 PM | ipreegade ! INSIGHTFUL. WISE. "...there is alot more going on then just sexual . "
The last severely uncontrolled LIBERTIES are our thoughts and sexuality and sex acts. Governments and social engineers increasingly use propaganda and tax revenue to encourage SEXUAL FREEDOM and EXPRESSION in order to balance the ever-tightening control of all buying and selling, and real property ownership. WE ALL REQUIRE LIBERTY. Denied the full spectrum of human earthly liberty through personal expression we WILL tend to let it all hang out BELOW THE BELT. This can be clearly seen in the most hedonistic nations such as Brazil or in the area of Amsterdam. Of course a talented FEW are able too suck-it up and thrive no matter how tough it gets. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2004 10:12:31 AM | Hmm if i read this forum post long enough, maybe i can learn something bout the male race.... | |
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Posted: 9/28/2004 12:33:51 PM | | I agree that you have to be friends asswell, because if that personality attraction is not there then I don't care how "good-looking" you people are, it will not last forever so therefore you must base any relationship on the character and the inner person or else the relationship is not going to work in a real true way. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 5:46:27 AM | Throughout reading this thread I haven't seen my thoughts anywhere so here goes from my point of view. Actually I find them quite alike when it comes to romance and sexual activity. neither one want to be totally honest on what they would really like to experience in either. Most of the time I have found it to be guessing game. Sure, we men know what women like in the romance department. Candlelit dinners, great wine, told how beautiful they look and pampered. But ask most women what they think men like and you will, most likely, hear, "come naked and bring beer".
Ladies, I personally am a lot more complicated than that and admit it. I also like to be romanced. Society has taught men to be strong,the dominator and the fixer of all problems. Keep your feeling to yourself. Women have been taught to be the nurturers. To be submissive and not act like a loose woman. Sex is for reproducing only. When it comes to the intimate times, both are afraid to experiment for fear of being thought to have overly feminine or masculine traits. I love a woman who will take over and have her way with me. One that knows what a man really likes. You'd be surprised what we like, if we men will admit it.
I'll pose a question. Can anyone, man or woman, visualise a sexual encounter where you both come away sexually exhausted and satisfied without actually having sexual intercourse throughout your encounter? I have a couple times but we both were open and willing to experiment with each others bodies and desires. Unfortunately that is a rare occurance. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 7:14:17 AM | | Oh i can, no details, but yes, been there done that and love it and will do it again! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 8:31:11 AM | I think it's a personal preference(s), I personally don't care for a "thin-skinny" man. Athletic & fit comes in all shapes, including 6' plus & over 200 pounds!
Personal hygene & class is always mandatory regardless of weight!
Besides being a persoanl choice, I also think there may be an unconscience choice when some men prefer a BBW. I think that they think that this type of women is "safe"...meaning....not many men will seek out a heavier lady, no-one wants or finds a "chubby" woman desirable thus making "cheating" almost impossible but this is where they're wrong 
But like my own personal preference...I prefer a man w/ some weight on him, again because of my own choice, including......the fact that I feel safe & protected w/ a big, strong man! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 8:33:21 AM | | Ahhhhhhhhhh, there are "leg" men too....lucky me! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 8:58:13 AM | "Besides being a persoanl choice, I also think there may be an unconscience choice when some men prefer a BBW. I think that they think that this type of women is "safe"...meaning....not many men will seek out a heavier lady, no-one wants or finds a "chubby" woman desirable thus making "cheating" almost impossible but this is where they're wrong "
Hmm i would comment but then it wouldn't be very nice to say whats on my mind bout that | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 9:22:26 AM | | I must be the odd bird out.I never had a problem in the bedroom,the woman i am with is my fantasy.Just watching her enjoy herself is the greatest fantasy in my book. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 9:32:43 AM | This is nice to hear a man know somewhat how a woman thinks. From the female perspective of a woman in her mid-forties, speaking for myself that is, I'm more interested in how he feels about me when we aren't making love. It seems to me, from this Internet dating experience, that many men confuse affection and admiration for who a woman is when sex is taken out of the equation.
Personally I'd rather put my trust in a man who can honestly say would I still want to be with this person if they were a quadriplegic? Would I love her if we could never make love again for medical or health reasons? Would I care for this person if they had a life-altering event that left them deformed or misshapen? If the answer is yes, then I know I’ll love that person forever, because I’ve fallen in love with who they are, not what they can do for me.
To me making love is a sacred act that happens when two hearts unite and not a moment before. I think that is half the trouble in society today. Sex is used as a tool to gain someone’s affections or interest. Where, in fact, for me, if I’m pushed before my heart is ready, cheapens the friendship that builds over time. You see, I want the man I fall in love with to love who I am and what I stand for first and then get to know my body. If he can’t handle that, then he’s not for me. It is so very important to me. Important enough to me that should someone be unwilling to wait, it’s a deal breaker on my end. I’d rather live alone than give myself to someone who hasn’t taken the time and care and respect required to really learn to know and understand me at all levels first.
That's my two cents.
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Posted: 9/29/2004 10:42:40 AM | Thaaaaaaannnnk you SHARON . Your a right on Gal  | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 10:43:28 AM | | I mean for your post . I knew you werent talking about me in any way . I was reffering to the rest of your post | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 12:04:54 PM | GL, Hi ! This is a GEM:
"Personally I'd rather put my trust in a man who can honestly say would I still want to be with this person if they were a quadriplegic? Would I love her if we could never make love again for medical or health reasons? Would I care for this person if they had a life-altering event that left them deformed or misshapen? If the answer is yes, then I know I’ll love that person forever, because I’ve fallen in love with who they are, not what they can do for me."
I believe the hormone driven passion and lust of youth serves to enable procreation and LIFE-- this was and is the GOOD intention of the Creator. A providential few find the true LOVE you spoke of in youth-- hormones notwithstanding. The profitable popularity of phone and Internet sex demonstrates that even old people can be stimulated by virgin contact with new partners even though their body function and hormones are not capable as in youth. This touches on the TRUE nature of LOVE of which you spoke so well. A husband and wife may transcend gender in soul and spirit becoming one flesh without sex acts as were performed in youthful joining. HOWEVER, the combination of body soul, and spirit between a husband and wife in TRUE LOVE must be BLISS. I have never known it. I am searching. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 1:01:56 PM | Bravo Sharon! ;)
silken
P.S. If you are ever blessed enough to find a man like that, please ask if he has a brother for me. ;) | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 5:00:58 PM | I've begun a new thread under Relationships. Perhaps some of you would like to join in?
Sharon | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 5:07:02 PM | I'm not so young not to know that 'making love' is like pulling teeth without the novacane. That whole feeling of 'could we just get it over with' and get on with the show, the dragging on and time it takes to get to 'the good stuff' is like torture to most guys.
HOLY CRAP! It's a good thing most men don't think that way! There are a lot out there that want romance just as bad as us women do! Bravo for those who take the time! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 7:19:09 PM | I tell you one thing ben76. Even male animals get rejected... quite often! Most female mammals come into heat/season infrequently. Deer, elk, bears, cougars and the larger ones ONLY once a year. Better believe he'll get kicked, clawed or bitten if a male tries to jump her when its not the right time. Smaller animals like dogs, couple maybe three times a year. Rodents are more frequent, but that also depends on climate and season. I think your comparison of women rejecting her male more often than animals is not a valid comparison. I think human (primate) males have a LOT more sex than the animals I listed above.
The thing that separates the females of the human species from others, is that our estrus is hidden, and that we have minds. The brain is the biggest sex organ in the body, without stimulating it you might as well be a jellyfish! If the male imperative is to produce offspring and you can understand your own drive, then you should be able to understand the female's drive is not the same.... and using that brain of yours, find a way to compromise so you both win!
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Posted: 9/29/2004 7:49:35 PM | My apologies if my comment was perceived as deragatory...NOT!
What I'm saying is, all I'm saying is; "Some men feel & think ( possibly sub-conscience ) a "chubby" woman is..."safe". Meaning that not many men would look at her or find her desirable...thus making it almost impossible for her to be unfaithful, that she wouldn't be able to cheat on him.
Now..there's more to my comment the just what ya see here but way too much to go into depth. How ever ya spell the word..."psycological"....is the way I'm looking at my comment...nothing more. If you view my profile...I am what some call a BBW!! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 8:05:34 PM | | actually i wasnt thinking deragatory, i was thinking more along the lines of how correct you was on their thinking and a few other unkind things which is not in my personality to say | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 8:14:17 PM | | I personally love a lil stubble on a man in the mornin, I think its sexy and it feels nice, as long as he ain't too rough hehe..some women cheat on men also, and usually it's when he treats her good. I dont want a man tendin to his cuticles though, but I Don't want him bein a stinky a** either, unless he farts, thats just normal for a man once he gets to know you well, it just shows how comfy he is with you | |
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Posted: 9/29/2004 9:03:25 PM | I like costalbreeze.... her reply to this post was:
Men like women are shaped by their cultural, religious, socio-economic environments, their colleagues/peers, their parent/s or guardians, life experiences, education or lack of and the media. It is a brave soul who thinks they can sum up the mind of a man or woman!
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