We saw each other three times in one week and then I was told on a Thursday that there was not any further interest in seeing me again. We will call this occasion a misunderstanding(this one, I'll take-my fault). So, when I was contacted JUST a day later by another man, we IM'd for the next two days and then I met him on the following Saturday night. Important to note that I was NOT speaking with the new IM man until Friday, I was genuinely interested in getting to know the man I had dated just days before but that was not an option now...A week after that, the first POF date and I had spoken. We both agreed that it was a misunderstanding/miscommunication and that we did still have interest in seeing each other. So, again, we spent a few dates together and then let's repeat the latter of sentence three (yep-same ending-this occasion-I wont take-NOT my fault, we will call this one DONE ) but he told me, that me seeing another man just days after "we" decided to end our attempt of "exploring the possiblilties" for us, that me meeting someone else was too soon, that I should have feelings and even though it didnt work out for us, that I shouldnt be over him so quickly. We were not ever exclusive, had just known each other for a week and there had been no sexual relationship...Even though, I may feel or question the last meeting , why if any timeline or restrictions should be put on me ? Does that mean that there is some unwritten rules, some kind of mourning period or that I should be wearing all black ?