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| FOUND A RARE BREED: A GOOD MAN!
Posted: 5/15/2008 10:29:07 AM | Gee Sharzi I went thruogh the SAME thing.
I met someone on POF, became close, he kept saying he was going to delete his account but he didn't. In fact he practiacally LIVED on this site. He was on somedays every hour according to some of my friends. Even when we were chatting on a messaging service he was on here chatting to others. He denied it but one of his email buddies was one of my friends.
Cheating???? How is this: he had 3 confirmed women on the go at the same time and promised ALL of us the wonders of the world. And sleeping with all three. And was also looking to pick up a few more.
And he denied it all amd lied about the other women. I was when a friend of mine talked to one of the other women I found out. The one woman and I have become friends and we both dumped him.
I learned a lesson of trust. I am now with a man that I SHOULD have been with from the start. I turned him down for the "player" and this man was there for all my frustrations and suspicions and tears. He's loyal, honest, non controling and I still can't believe how dumb I was to NOT be with him months ago.
Always remember that just because a man is on here doesn't mean he's genuine. Follow your insticts and rely on friends. | |
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| FOUND A RARE BREED: A GOOD MAN!
Posted: 5/15/2008 1:16:35 PM | oh is this turning into another "good guy" thread?
All i know that guys who insist that they are 'good guys" more often than not are only that in their own opinion. Sure, not being a convicted felon is a good start, but takes more than that to define a "good " or 'nice" guy. If a person is good, they don't need to say it - it's self evident via their attitude, behavior and actions. as for the statements that women only pay attention to hunks - so do men, many go only for looks, and certain looks at that. Why all of us (men, women) try to be best we can be (inside and out), instead of lamenting that a goregeos lady(guy) doesnt' pay attention to an average person(complainer) of opposite gender. I have chatted/met so many guys with 'requirements" (that I have exceeded by far) ...- like the woman must be pretty, thin, this and that - whilst they were themselves nothing to write home about and could use a ~lot~ of time in the gym. So all the guys with all this "nice guy gets no attention" stuff.. look at yourself and your own actions .. maybe you also gave no attention to a good but average looking lady. | |
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