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 INDYDUDE

Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 26
WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/24/2008 2:39:25 PM
They are equal. Just like in every other virtue, men and women are equal in basic value, they just manifest it differently.
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 4/24/2008 2:50:39 PM
something interesting about animal sexuality on pbs: monkeys in the jungle -the lead male was doing all the female monkeys (feeling he was superior) -while he was doing this, his female monkeys were sneaking off for quickies with other male monkeys that wandered into their territory. -natures way to refresh the gene pool. i had to snicker after he finished with one of his females, then turned and exploded in anger after catching his girlfriend behind a tree with another monkey on her back (no pun intended)- so who's really being had?
 crazytimes1

Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 28
WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:04:42 PM
Think about it. Heterosexuals average out EXACTLY the same. Yes kids, that is right, it actually takes two people to have sex. For every man or woman to have sex, there is an equal and opposite woman or man they screwed. The average is exactly the same.

Women will usually under report their sexual partners. Men will over report. This is why the 'average' partners is always different in surveys- when you think about it, the average partners should always be the same... or else the men are bonking ghosts.
 Renaissance Mun

Joined: 8/9/2007
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Posted: 4/24/2008 6:17:16 PM
I think men are more promiscuous than ladies, but gentlemen are less promiscuous than women. Seriously, assuming we're speaking here only of heterosexual men and women, doesn't each sex act take both 1 man and 1 woman and pretty much equal out, roughly speaking?
 shinxy

Joined: 3/26/2008
Msg: 30
WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/24/2008 10:03:10 PM
Hey crazytimes....that is unless they are gay.....lol
 esad

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 4/25/2008 3:19:17 AM
IF this question is ever answered to everyones satisfaction, is there some kind of prize that will be awarded ? I assume there has to be something in play since so many people are willing to waste time
on trying to deal with it.
After it has been solved, can we all turn our attention towards that "Chicken or Egg" debate?
THAT one really has me worried !
 Lv2divdeep

Joined: 9/4/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 4/25/2008 10:40:43 AM
Yankees fans for sure... No question about it...
 Enigma252

Joined: 3/1/2008
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Posted: 4/25/2008 6:56:01 PM
Amongst the Bonobo chimanzees the female is. Sex is considered collateral when entering another chimp troup. However, with humans it's a toss up. Kind of depends on the amount of testosterone and oxcitocin are ratioed in one's brain chemicals. There is generally more oxcitocin in women because of childbirth and bonding with the infant. Men have more testosterone, of course, but women who enjoy sex more and are more sexually active have more testosterone than the average female.
 JWRed

Joined: 1/27/2008
Msg: 34
WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/25/2008 7:33:31 PM
Heterosexuals average out EXACTLY the same. Yes kids, that is right, it actually takes two people to have sex. For every man or woman to have sex, there is an equal and opposite woman or man they screwed.


This is assuming every woman has a unique sex partner. One guy is usually doing 10 girls. Promiscuous women all want that same guy. Like Chris Rock said,

"10% of the guys do 90% of the f*cking."




 nickphilosoph

Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 35
WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/26/2008 6:25:42 AM
Re the Opost:
"WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????"
1) Who cares
2) Does it really matter?
3) Do generic comparisons as this one make ANY sense or have any practical value?

IMO the answer to all three is No.

4) Studies indicate that the average man has a higher average number of partners than the average woman.. But that is the average man and does one really exist? An "average woman"?

5) Is a man any man, more "promiscuous" than a woman? In actions, maybe, in thoughts, I doubt it.

6) What one can safely say is that more women today are sexually liberated than ever before, or at least since the Victorian times. And they enjoy the pleasure of good sex more than women ever did.

I am going to have a smoke now! wink! lol
Make love, not war!

 whothehellknows

Joined: 7/23/2006
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Posted: 4/26/2008 6:52:44 AM
I think some women are worse (if you call it that) than men in some areas, they just know how to be discreet. They don't have the need to brag to their friends or tell the whole world about their great weekends or whatever.
 joejoe82

Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 4/26/2008 10:16:38 AM
i think that men and women are pretty much equal on this one
 tess100

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 4/26/2008 10:53:37 AM
"Takes two to tango". End of story.
 prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007
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Posted: 4/26/2008 6:58:34 PM
Speak for yourself MelloDLyn. Maybe you're a slut, but the rest of us aren't. At least I'm not.
IMO, I think men are the ones to want more and do more to get sex than some women.
 rara_avis77

Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 40
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Posted: 4/26/2008 7:02:44 PM
Well until somebody makes reference to a reliable survey that proves men have more sexual partners than women or vice versa we can't make any valid claims and the whole issue is not worth debating.
 1missblueeyes

Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 41
WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/26/2008 7:39:58 PM
Definitely men. Men have 2 heads and think with 1 and it's the 1 down below.
 rara_avis77

Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 42
WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/27/2008 9:29:49 AM

SOME Men have 2 heads and think with 1 and it's the 1 down below.


corrected
 Sabrosura

Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 43
WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/27/2008 5:36:09 PM
lol - You can't pin point this on one or the other gender.

How have you "found" that ladies are more and more becoming the "leaders" in promiscuity?

Re: Smelling body parts? lol If someone has to go to those lengths to figure out if they are being played - then you deserve to be played! Come on......

For the member that said to use soap and water - that is a dead give away. If your partner comes back from lets say a "boys/girls night out" - he/she better not come back smelling like soap - dead give away!
 Phoebus2k9

Joined: 3/15/2008
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Posted: 4/29/2008 6:10:06 AM
Well it was more of a ...Yes we shower after sex ....but sometimes the scent of another lady never seem to get totally washed away and i know this for a fact cause one of my best friends got busted cause his gurl could still SMELL this other gurl i was WOW...its like weird cause other girls can smell when another gurl is on her monthly....geez
 jcrew617

Joined: 6/19/2007
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Posted: 10/13/2009 8:06:56 AM
I sometimes come across articles from women who dislike that its okay for men to "sleep around with lots of women" but its not okay for women to "sleep around or they are called sluts."

I think the reason men are "celebrated or high-fived" for sleeping with one woman or many women is basically because ITS Really difficult for most men to find a girlfriend or any women, even if a man has really low standards. Basically its a "Miracle" any time a man gets laid from the eyes of other men.

The downside of promiscuity is that you risk diseases and fathering children. Also, Men lie about the number of GF and exaggerate their hookups. So basically Men are Lying to seem more promiscuous and women are Lying to seem less promiscuous.

If a woman has low standards, its pretty easy to find a boyfriend or several boyfriends to sleep with. The reason in the past that women were called "looked down upon" was because of getting diseases and getting pregnant/holding out for marriage. Still, MOST women want guys who will be their Boyfriends and not players. Especially if a guy makes more money than her.
 Bad*MonkeyFunker

Joined: 7/9/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2009 8:37:16 AM
It's not a gender issue, it's a character issue....
There are low-character people in both genders .....
 scottdehart

Joined: 6/5/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2009 10:04:38 AM
Doesn't it take two to Tango?
 canoga77

Joined: 5/25/2008
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Posted: 10/13/2009 10:06:45 AM
Have a look:

From "Fake lie-detector reveals women's sex lies," by Shaoni Bhattacharya
NewScientist.com. July 2003. http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn3936

"Women's coyness about their sexual behaviour was unveiled by a US
study involving a fake lie detector test."

"Women change their answers depending on whether or not they believe
they will be caught out not telling the truth, the researchers found.
The number of sexual partners a woman reported nearly doubled when
women thought they were hooked up to a lie detector machine."
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 10/13/2009 10:16:51 AM
I'm inclined to think it's the ladies who are more promiscuous....

I base this on the people I know or have known...

I have a lot of male friends who probably have had less partners than fingers on one hand... and a couple of male friends who have had over 20-30 partners... but for the most part, low numbers...
I have a lot of female friends who have had 15+ partners... some over 150 partners...
The average seems to be around 40 partners.... None of them have had less than 5 partners....

It's interesting too, how women count....
One woman I dated told me she had only slept with 7 men... I thought it was odd, (knowing her background) so I asked her why only 7... She replied, (This is classic!) "I don't count the mistakes or the one night stands!"
 m_church

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Posted: 10/13/2009 10:22:26 AM

Well it was more of a ...Yes we shower after sex ....but sometimes the scent of another lady never seem to get totally washed away and i know this for a fact cause one of my best friends got busted cause his gurl could still SMELL this other gurl i was WOW...its like weird cause other girls can smell when another gurl is on her monthly....geez

I'm not surprised, I can often smell when they're aroused or on their period... aroused is harder to scent, not like that mouthful of tinfoil and pennies scent of blood...

Sometimes when a woman says she can smell "the other woman" however, she's just fishing... wondering if she says it, that the guy will believe she can and confess....

That being said, if someone isn't washing well enough to get rid of one woman's scent before sleeping with another, he needs basic hygiene instructions....
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