| Back In the Pond... Posted: 4/30/2008 9:24:55 PM | Dont give up ... You are going to find a good guy ... Like others have said here .. dont look so hard .... he will show up ...  | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 1:59:24 PM | | My last post is all BS as I am..haha | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 3:05:15 PM | | I have almost given up on this site, but i have met some good friends on here. i have met some strange ones, some i love to take home to mommy. there are alot of people out there only for pleasure. these guys may want only, they will not get it unless you drop your panties. you need to tell these guys they have no chance of getting in your panties, and stick to it! | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 3:05:28 PM |
Hey if He can send Jonah a whale, I am sure He has something better in mind for me.
Yes, He sent a whale to Jonah, but Johah would never have seen the whale without going to the ocean, would he?
Who's to say this wasn't the ocean He sent YOU to? But any fisherman needs patience. | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 3:20:30 PM | I'm sure u r right - but its just the same for us guys. it works both ways. be lucky...... .. .... | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 4:20:41 PM | I am sorry but I feel I am meeting all the nice people off this site, the people who are messenging me and asking for dates are fun people, dont know how or why it changed, but I am just seeing the nice side of the site.
Don't give up hope - keep changing and honing the profile, change the pictures to be current and always be honest, then it all saves time.
People often say to me, goodness you are just like your profile, and that makes me happy cos that is what I wanted to put across. So wishing everyone fun on the site, it is worth it, and you can find lots of nice people just got to find them. | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 4:31:26 PM | So do I babe,
All ive found on here are married men looking for a bit on the side. Do they realy think women on here who , are older than they would prefer (even a 60 yr old man wants a 20 yr old woman) are that daft we cant see thro the, witheld phone no, The I cant phone you, only email cos I washed my phone (yes one did realy pull that) the same one couldnt turn up to meet me cos he got involved in a domestic that wasnt his??? Yea, right, TomOadby, im with you all the way. Great big neon signs says Im married but my wife dosent understand me
Why should she??? a serial womaniser. Who can understand that. Do me a favour, go take hike to all the married men on here who aint got the guts to walk away from a realtopnship that makes the sink that low.
Tinkerbell
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 4:38:05 PM | most likely the reason all the 'nursies' are quitting is out of good sense | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 5:27:49 PM | You can add me to the quit list! All I have met on this site are crazy people!  | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 5:29:22 PM | My pic has me wearing a hard hat in case one falls out of the sky.........will she have a job?  | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 6:18:02 PM | | I've gotten a number of replies on my site but no one seems interested in keeping in touch or in meeting. I was looking for longterm but now I'd be happy just to find someone to be friends with. | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 6:30:25 PM | | Hmmm and did you approach anyone or act friendly? Or did you just sit back , feel uncomfortable and judge others for not talking to you...DId you catch the perpetual frown you were wearing?? | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 6:46:36 PM | women are much worse than men for dating
They are O-N-L-Y interested in looks, I have never received a response from a lady that didn't start with "Send Picture" | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 6:59:06 PM | | I have never asked for a pic of anyone. | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 7:11:59 PM | You will have to work towards what you want but may have to work and wait for what you really want.  | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 11:39:20 AM | To many pretentious females here. So many misrepresent them selfs, are on dope, are waaaay huge and say they are "average" size, are gold diggers, are ****es, are ho-bags but deny it, think they are "classy" but are as trailer trash as the next meth queen, are drunks, are desperate, think waaaaay to much of them selfs, or are dyky.
I know the owners of this site think they are providing a good product. I think in some ways they are but the screening process is just not good enough. To do so would entail far to much time and money...
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 12:34:04 PM | Well, it's all in what you think. You are a mirror and you reflect the energy you put out.
If you think most of the guys are that way or this way then so be it! You attract what you think... The key is to adjust your wants and think of what you want *NOT what you don't want* and your subconscious will grant you what you want... The universe will provide -- kinda like the glass half full or half empty.
If you think you will win... well, your half way there to winning...
Good Luck and may you find your perfect mate. | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 12:56:35 PM | I can understand how you feel. There are lots of people on here who hide in the costume of long term when they really just want to get laid and play games. If it weren't for my friends and the forums, I would have been long gone from here too.
You are going to find a good guy ... Like others have said here .. dont look so hard .... he will show up ... This is sage advice and has recently happened to me.
Good luck to you.  | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 1:16:14 PM | I have to say that most of the people I know in person who have met someone off here, are deranged, unfussy, and kinda trailer trash. That's not to say that the people who have met people off here are too, I don't know them personally so it woudn't me fair of me to comment. But from what I can gather, most relationships formed here are between two disfunctional people. I came on here looking to make friends and maybe someone nice, I've been on for a few years on and off and have only met idiots with hidden agendas and no social skills. I work all hours and have two children, so coming on here seemed a good way to meet people, I was soooooo wrong. The women have it all hanging out, licking fingers in pics, bras out, trying to look sexy but failing and instead reducing me to fits of giggles at how sad they are. The men assume that women will be more interested if they show a torso pic and state in a boastful fashion how long they can breathe through there ears! Pathetic.
Shallow players who don't appreciate the good honest people there on here. There are so few of us tho, we get lost in the fog of slappers and morons.
I admire anyone who sticks at this, it's soul destroying at best, and I really hope that anyone on here finds someone lovely for them, but I'm outta here! I have brains, intelligence, morals and I know who and what I am, too good for this that's for sure.
Good luck to you ladies and gents who are coming off here, come on...we can do it....sending you hugs and luck for meeting someone without issues!!!
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 2:19:33 PM | So with you on this this one to, i have been on the site a few months, so far all i have meet is complusive liars, sex manics or manic depressives, so i have quit to.. I just drop in nowfrom time to time for the amusement values this site has... I have meet someone, not from fish might i add and he said the same......he was a ex fishie......... This site has become a total joke, which is a shame...there are more swingers here than in the swinging sites! these are just my views.......others have different views...one may have meet the man of her dreams, only to have read weeks later hes cheating on her.. Maybe the new term for cheating is called fishing!! | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 2:32:09 PM | I tend to agree with lobstergirl, tho' personally, my experiences with dating in general, and online in particular, in the 21st century, have not yet yielded what I would like to find. (a girl to marry...there! I said it!) As a man, I am appalled that there must be as many players, married guys looking, sex fiends, etc etc, out there as there evidently are. That makes it tougher for us decent guys who are genuinely looking for an exclusive long term relationship. Dating is tough these days. It was a lot simpler when I was younger. But hang in there, the right one is bound to appear, if and when you want him or her to. | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 2:40:54 PM | ERM YOU MEET YOUR PARTNER HERE, SO WHY ARE YOU STILL LOOKING TO DATE? as on your profile? enough said | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 4:18:49 PM | | negative, negative and negative...always very attractive to both sexes. | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 4:38:21 PM | | Boy, isn't that the truth!!!! I find the same thing. Most of the guys on this site cannot even thank you for a simple compliment. If they could get past thinking with their p****'s, they might just actually find a really good woman. Most of the men on this site are just "posers". And, the ones that like to put in pics of their bodies.........jeez, who are they doing it for? Other Men? Wrong site boys!!!!! Glad someone else feels the way I do. Phony-A** Jerks. | |
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| I quit Posted: 5/16/2008 4:39:19 PM | | Seems to me like god is working through us, not for us...You know? | |
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