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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:47:01 PM | Not gonna learn mulch in "school". All you really need is to read a few pages of this:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
You'll be able to repeat it over and over again, your partner will know when, where, how hard, how fast and you'll be shrieking like a banshee in UNDER 2 minutes once you know what it feels like!!  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/5/2008 4:26:24 PM | Practice makes perfect! I find that manual AND oral stimulation works best. For me, anyway. Also, orgasm is stronger when I flex the kegal muscles, and squirting more, uhm... forceful if I push or bear down (at least I think that's what I'm doing, I don't have kids, soo....).
Every woman can do it, just a matter of finding the right combination of stimulation and muscle focus. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2008 6:28:49 PM | yes i think it can... you are supposed to make sure you go pee first lol, then let it build up.. gotta have someone who can really take theier time and get you close a few times without you actually cumming... when you get close, make sure to RELAX! i have to do it with only g spot orgasm... have your partner pull out (fingers hands, toys, etc) a split second before you orgasm and kinda push out with , well i guess you'd call them vagina muscles... main thing is that you get a lot of g spot play! i hope this helps ya! there are also porn websites that can teach you how...let me know if you'd like the addy
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/5/2008 7:37:36 PM | I think if both partners work to learn it, it is learnable. With a guy who doesn't get it, then well, he doesn't get it. I'm wondering if I will ever see this phenomena in my life again simply because I'm having trouble educating a lover. Web sites galore have info, you might want to present him with the links and say you want to spend your fortieth year in exploration and adventure....
Beware, it might hit you in your own face, and if you don't immediately wash it off one of the new style flat screen TV's it doesn't come off that easily. Just sayin.... | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:46:55 PM |
I'm wondering if I will ever see this phenomena in my life again simply because I'm having trouble educating a lover.
hereshecomesagain....Who says you need a partner to experience this again? All it takes is the right toy and you can experience it all you want...Though its a given that its not the same as being with a great partner....but it is a close 2nd!
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/5/2008 9:39:15 PM | ""... I'm having trouble educating a lover. ""
Like Reb sez, who needs a partner. Waaaay better with one but if you're describing the ongoing search as difficult then maybe not only satisfying your self but also educating your bod is in order. Once your body knows the feeling G-Gasms (and squirting) can happen quickly. If your guy doesn't know then it is up to you to learn what feels right to YOU and be able to react quickly and then be able to teach him. Hell, I think the vast MAJORITY of couples do NOT know how to find the GSpot or, if they do know where it is, how to stimulate it correctly. If you KNOW then you can show / teach him. If it's a big ol mystery for both of you I can almost guarantee that you're not going to get far in your attempts.
I posted a link (above) to a Technique and if you follow those instructions and / or read some of the variations you should be able to stimulate yourself to G-Gasms within 2 minutes once you get the right depth, angle and pressure. You NEED a bent toy made specifically for hitting your GSpot however. You can achieve this with fingers but the angle is wrong for any extended play. You'll give yourself wrist cramps first. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 6:52:55 AM | Well, I think that you can always just pee on the guy and most likely he'll not know the difference. *shakes head incredulously at the question.*
A forty year old woman's fondest wish for her 40th birthday. To squirt. ..............
*more head shaking*
I mean, really. Any human being who actually thinks that "squirting" is quintessential to being great in bed needs to have their god damned head examined. For one thing, that little phenom. can take place WITHOUT THE REMOTEST HINT OF AN ORGASM, you morons!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It does, at least SOMETIMES....and I know for sure because it happens to me all the damned time when I have sex with someone who has a big tool.....is just a result of some gland in there getting pounded to the point of no return. Big ass pool in the bed and the male stupidly exclaims "oh BABY.....I just love it when you do that, it means I did you sooooooooo GOOD!!!" And I just roll over, roll my eyes, and cross him off my list.
pfffffffffffffft. "learned". Jesus christ what is this world coming to that women are actually staying up at night thinking about this. Have we become *that* much nothing more than mindless servants to men's pleasures that its not enough that we constantly have to worrry about starving our asses off, having damn sacks of jelly inserted into our chests, having our labia trimmed up to be unobtrusive, removing all body hair so that our bodies will always look like 8 year old girls, using makeup and hair dye to mask features that *might* be unappealing to the male, having fake fingernails put on, getting assortments of plastic surgeries to flatten our normally soft and curvy tummies and hips that represent womanhood, suck fat out of any part of our body that might make us resemble an older woman, getting face lifts and using botox to remove wrinkles............now we have to *learn* a way to shoot a stream of questionable liquid across the room to prove SOME INSECURE EGOTISTICAL MAN'S god damned virility????????????????????????????????
Whatever happened to being the woman who raised good kids, baked a mean loaf of bread, tended a beautiful and functional garden, kept a clean house, and was loving, caring, and nurturing.....
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Posted: 7/6/2008 7:02:19 AM | Well, you're certainly entitled to your opinion, and, if you're the type of woman you describe, and are happy that way, by all means, continue on that way.
But, I'm not quite sure it was all that necessary to be so critical of others...except, if it made you feel better. YOU DON'T HAVE TO LEARN A THING YOU DON'T WANT TO LEARN now, do you? It's obvious you don't feel that you're missing anything, so why bother.
Sincerely,
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Posted: 7/6/2008 8:11:32 AM | "Whatever happened to being the woman who raised good kids, baked a mean loaf of bread, tended a beautiful and functional garden, kept a clean house, and was loving, caring, and nurturing....."
Dang pesky 19th amendment. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:23:06 AM | RE: JABER's rant.
Methinks the fair maiden hath done battle with one too many slithy toves and those cursed Bandersnatches.
GUDDAMN and whenever I call somebody a moron in here I get banned for 3 days. How come those with boobs can do it and I get slapped. SEXISM, perhaps?
ANyway ... this sounds like somebody with some ANGER issues that are bordering on the sociopathic. I can't IMAGINE why she's divorced either. One can only imagine the cacophony of vicious criticism that would pound down on any poor schmuck who did something ... ANYTHING that she didn't agree with? WOW. DuuucK ... Incoommmiiiing ****
And your list of things that women do to make themselves "acceptable" and sexy for men? Many I agree with. DUMB but you forgot the ""TWAT SHOT"" in your list. I imagine that was just a momentary lapse and you didn't actually mean to leave it out.
Geez, girl. Get over it. Read the posts and the TRY THIS thread (links above). This is NOT about making a guy feel good or proving that a big tool is what it's all about. Or as you so foolishly put it:""prove SOME INSECURE EGOTISTICAL MAN'S god damned virility?"" .... NOPE. NO "attitude"" here!
This is about learning a Technique that can comPLETELY satiate most women. I agree that the "squirting" part is much over-rated and expectations of a vastly improved orgasm if you squirt too are unfounded. The G-Gasms which sometimes lead up to female ejaculation ARE what most of this thread is aimed at though and that's giving HER all the orgasms and NOT EVER USING your di¢k. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 11:56:55 AM | "The G-Gasms which sometimes lead up to female ejaculation ARE what most of this thread is aimed at though and that's giving HER all the orgasms and NOT EVER USING your di¢k. "
Actually, you little twit, if you think this thread is "mostly" aimed at "g-gasms" - another medically unproven theory - then you are merely celebrating your egotistical, attitudinal victory at having HIJACKED THE THREAD TO BE TOTALLY OFF TOPIC for your own mediocre, self proclaimed importance. The title of the thread is "Squirting..can this be learned?" My post was on topic. Obviously, you get more enjoyment out of picking individual people to bit*ch about.
I just love it when some short, fat, pedantic little male on a dating site spends his days telling women how they feel. It would definately be supremely masculine to insist that jamming something hard up under your bladder and banging it until liquid even sometimes releases would "comPLETELY satiate most women". You go right on thinking that, Homer.....you'll stay as single as you are right now, forever and ever, amen.
You are about as aware of what feels good to a woman as male gynocologists that tell you that giving birth does not hurt. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 12:24:04 PM | WOW. Conflicted or what?
"""g-gasms" - another medically unproven theory ""
That statement certainly demonstrates to all your complete LACK of any qualification as far as giving Gspot or squirting advice. If you'd ever found anybody who could do this for / to you you wouldn't have made such a silly statement. Pity. Something for you to look forward to though - one day.
Just another clarification re: the thread.
G-Gasms are, as ANY person who does know what they're talking about, is THE number one way of achieving this "mythical" female ejaculation which is what the thread is about. Learn the Technique(s) and explore the variations of this type of orgasm and that is the best way of "learning" to squirt. SO I'm not OFF the damn topic at all.
AND .... I'm slightly over 6ft. You're 5'5" . Who you callin short? I'm 15lbs overweight. FAT? Pedantic? I like to think I'm sharing rather than pontificating. There IS a difference. Many and you can obviously include yourself, do not know how to stimulate the GSpot properly. The TRY THIS technique does that.
""spends his days telling women how they feel.""
Nope. I tell show them how they CAN feel. Again, sadly you're not able to conceptualize the difference but for the women who have tried this and KNOW it works, your words are just nasty and silly.
Also I'm single because my wife DIED. NOT my choice but reality sucks sometimes. Kinda like your whole attitude. I'm single now because I simply haven't met anybody I could love as much as I loved Sue. I won't settle for anything less and if that means I'm single for the rest of my days then so be it. That's MY choice not because of your analysis based on or your obvious and tainted perception of men.
Now let's not hijack a good thread any more. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 1:46:41 PM | ROFL!
Dude. Just because you "like to think it"....does not make it true.
You are a pedantic pedagogue to the nth degree.
And you are wrong about the gspot being a medically accepted phenom. It is only POPULARLY accepted. From Wikidpedia:
The term "G-spot" was coined by Addiego et al. in 1981.[1] It is named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg who is claimed to have first hypothesized the existence of such an area in 1950. The G-spot didn't enter public consciousness until a year later with the publication of the book “The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality.”[1] Shortly after the publication of Ladas' book many professional gynaecologists publicly criticized its scholarship and accuracy.[2] Search for the G-SpotThe purported location of the G-spot has changed over time. Two primary methods have been used to attempt to locate it. The first is based on self-reported levels of arousal during stimulation and the second based on the claim that stimulation of the G-spot leads to female ejaculation.[1] One of the studies using self-reported levels of arousal was a case study with a single woman who claimed the experience of a “deeper” orgasm when her G-spot was stimulated. In the published study it was reported that stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall made the area grow by fifty percent.[1] Another study examined eleven women in an attempt to locate the spot under laboratory conditions. Researchers attempted to find the G-spot by “palpating the entire vagina in a clockwise fashion.” Using this technique the researchers reported discovering that four of the women had highly sensitive areas on the anterior vaginal wall.[4]
Immediately after publication of Ladas et. al's book professional gynaecologists were skeptical of the reality of the G-spot. In a 1983 Time Magazine article about the G-spot and recent book, Dr. J. Jones Stewart, a gynaecologist was quoted as saying all evidence pointed to the fact that there was no G-spot. Specifically he pointed out that women that had the area (that supposedly contained the G-spot) surgically removed, reported no loss of sensation.
Despite professional and scientific criticism and skepticism the concept of a G-spot was met with wide-spread acceptance in the public. One study reports that 84 percent of women believe that there is a “highly sensitive area” in the vagina. Most popular books on sexuality discuss the G-spot as a reality.[5]
However, to date, all attempts of scientific or empirical investigation into the reality of the G-spot have turned up nothing or highly questionable results.[1] Tests that examined the innervation of the vaginal wall show that there is no area that has an increased number of nerve endings. A recent study investigating 110 biopsy specimens from 21 women concluded the absence of vaginal location with increased nerve density.[6] Proponents are also criticized for putting too much reliance on anecdotal evidence.[1] The few studies that have tried to locate it using more precise means have mostly turned up no results. The few that have returned positive evidence are criticized for using small sample sizes and questionable methods.[1]
So, little man. Kiss my lily white rear end. You probably believe in werewolves, demons, leprechauns, dragons, vampires , the Easter Bunny and the Loch Ness monster, too. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:22:30 PM |
Dude. Just because you "like to think it"....does not make it true.
and just because you like to think it does not exist, makes that true? Darn, a whole mess of us women must be off our rockers, if we go by your theory. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:30:00 PM | | I've seen this in a few adult films I have see.I think it is totally hot.These women are amazing.A big turn on for me. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 2:39:39 PM | Hey there KK and Dave you guys are amazing!!!  That's awesome advise......I didn't know I could do all that until I met the right guy who we were able to experiment and learn......And man that sex to it to a whole other level !!! To the point one time I literally blacked out face down from the orgasm I could hear but I couldn't move.......it was absolutely amazing!!! Unfortunately that relationship didn't work and I haven't experienced that since......there are a lot of men that I've dated that are not as open to that or maybe inexperianced..... I really don't know what it is.......but I want it all good man & amazing sex....why settle for less!!! I'm not that kinda girl that doesn't enjoy sex..... !!!
So do you think you can send me those sites KK....I would really appreciate it........I'm always up for learning new things!!!!
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:42:16 PM | ^^^
Hippiechick, the links are posted all through this thread.
Re more from Jabber:
Truly a shame and a testament to their own negativism that those who have never experienced it know so much about how mis doesn't exit .
Quoting WIK? Gimmie a break. WIK is so flawed Universities and even High Schools are refusing to accept ANY research where WIK is quoted. Don't you know anything?
ALL through my TRY THIS thread I quote world reknown sex researchers and their stumbling attempts to determine if / where GSpots exist or not. My favorite is the one where they carved up 13 CADAVERS and not even ONE of those women reported any increase in sensation. YOU, I believe would have fit into that study well. Your mind is closed and despite what MANY women have posted on this thread and the THOUSANDS who have posted on the TRY THIS thread you still don't believe. Your loss.
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One of my fav's and POSTED on my thread:
What BUNK!!
I just found this on another site. Some poor schlep asking about female ejaculation...real? Delusional? Wishful thinking or catagorize it with Loch Nessie, Yetis and the Kraken. It's pretty damn sad when some of these doctors are still standing around scratchin their butts and wondering where in tarnation they went and hid that damn G thingie....
Ladies, you shouldn't feel TOO bad if your man is a tad DUMB when it comes to your bodies. Number one, there are no universal "owner's" manuals and #2 it seems that some of the best sex researchers in the world wouldn't know your front from your back if it weren't for your titties being where they are!!
ON THE SPOT_ (www.straightdope.com/columns/011130.html)
A recent article in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology by Pace University psychologist Terence Hines affirms what many (including your columnist) have long suspected about that legendary locus of female sexual pleasure, the Grafenberg spot, also known as the G-spot. The G-spot supposedly is a small, highly sensitive area on the anterior (front) wall of the vagina that swells and produces pleasurable sensations when manually stimulated. Few today doubt there is such a thing. In one survey of 1,300 professional women, 84 percent agreed that "a highly sensitive area exists in the vagina."_
Hines doesn't come right out and say they're all deluded--I mean, define "highly sensitive area." But he does suggest there's little evidence for the G-spot as usually understood._
Apart from anecdotal claims, Hines says, only two published studies have purported to find the G-spot. The first told of a woman who claimed to have more intense orgasms when her G-spot was stimulated. "During one session with the subject during which digital stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall was administered"--you have to admire the clinical language in these descriptions--"it was reported that the area 'grew approximately 50%.'"_
In the second study two gynecologists trained in how to find the G-spot examined 11 women using "a special type of bimanual exam as well as a sexological exam where they palpated the entire vagina in a clockwise fashion." One presumes, although the study does not explicitly say, that a goal of the exam was to sexually arouse the subject, since the G-spot is said to swell at such times. One also notes the two gynecologists were female. Whether this skewed the results, and if so in what direction, I decline to speculate, but you can see the difficulties inherent in this type of research. At any rate, the gynecologists agreed that 4 of the 11 subjects had G-spots._
In summary, then, we've got two studies, 12 subjects, five detectable G-spots. This constitutes the sum total of experimental investigation into the matter. No anatomical study has ever demonstrated that the G-spot exists. Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, whose 1950 paper introduced the subject, provided no evidence for the G-spot, just anecdotes. The mere fact that some women under some circumstances can feel something in the anterior vaginal wall proves little._
On the related subject of female ejaculation, there's an emerging consensus that the fluid emitted by some women during orgasm isn't just urine, as was widely thought, but rather the discharge of a female prostate gland. But no one suggests that female prostate = G-spot._
"Until a thorough and careful [microscopic] investigation of the relevant tissue is undertaken," Hines concludes, "the G-spot will remain a sort of gynecologic UFO: much searched for, much discussed, but unverified by objective means."_
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Tell 'em, Terence. Let me know if I can be of any help.?
If I were some pitiful schlep of a woman who had never experienced anything even remotely close to this I would start listening / reading to ALL the women who say it DOES WORK rather than quoting the most factually dishonest site on the net quoting researchers who also don't have a clue.
To quote (or nearly) another resident moron:
""Just because you don't think it exits doesn't make it go away.""
You lady are a troll. And a rude one at that. Ignorance is forgivable. Insulting thousands of women, calling them delusional and me for trying share one of the greatest sexual techniques known (or UNknown in your case) to man. Just nasty and silly. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:50:19 PM | | Some people around here like to argue. Hmmmm last time I checked it was a free country and we could do and say anything we want.....what's with the angry chick.....if it bugs you so much don't read his messages. But obviously your getting something out of it and meeting a need.....whatever it is!!!! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:52:13 PM | Who want's to help me learn ???? 
There is lots of info about so one would assume you can learn........
People educate themselves in how to acheive an orgasm so why not squirting too ???? | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 4:32:45 PM | You must use the bathroom first.
If you are practicing by yourself, simply find your g-spot and have at it. I suppose there might be aiming issues with the clitoris and the folds and such, but my experience has not needed such.
When you feel the orgasm building, simply contract your abdominal muscles. It might take some practice. But a weekend got me fairly adept. And don't forget keigels either, they will help.
And for those that like to see it you might need to practice some, but if your partner perfers to feel it, that is even better practice.  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:13:31 PM | Thanks for the additional testimonies....There are so many believers that it doesn't pay to even discuss it with the naysayers. May I suggest that, although anyone is free to negatively post whatever they wish, if you don't find it necessary to reply to them, perhaps they will turn tail and go away. Why ALLOW someone to come into a thread and spoil it for others when by ignoring them, it will only be spoiling it for them?
Think about it.
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| SHAME? Hardly the right venue ....
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:16:34 PM | What I meant was, I'm not seeing this particular phenomena:
The only problem is most women, when they achieve this alone, can NOT continue G-Gasms for very long. The orgasms themselves are SO intense and draining that you can get there a few times but then you collapse. If you have a partner you can collapse and s/he can keep going until you are in a place you never even knew existed !!
yeah i was with a lady who was multiorgasmic and after a while i pretty much just kept stimulating her manually to keep her cumming. the last three orgasms she squirted twice back to back but the third time she claimed to be having an out of body experience. must be a hell of a feeling.
I tend to stop on my own because I'm *fine* at that point and goal has been achieved and I curl up for a good day's sleep. I'm like the energizer bunny when a man is working me and the relationship problem is just that I become some kind of favorite toy.... but if he learns to keep going right through the O, he'll get me waaaaay over the line into that "outer body experience" "Multi" is an understatement when it comes to me, so y'all just stop worrying about me needing to learn my bod or make it happen on my own.... | |
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