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Posted: 7/6/2008 10:36:04 PM | Sorry, herecomes. Our posts are generally aimed at people having trouble achieving this and with some it is obviously based on incomplete data
""the relationship problem is just that I become some kind of favorite toy....""
There's been some discussion in the LIT thread about working you like a toy. There IS some degree of power tripping when a guy first discovers this trigger on his woman. We spend so much time trying to satisfy you guys and then all of a sudden he has this "magic bullet" that WORKS ... AND he is in control of YOUR orgasms. It is an awesome feeling of power and he has to control the urge to just keep going. The neat thing is whether you're a stud or a loving partner it just makes a guy feel SO GOOD to be able to make your women feel THAT good - any time they want / need it. Two minutes and they are on final approach at NIRVANA launch control. I mean this puppy does NOT turn off until we stop. Women go for years in good relationships but faking orgasms. Here is a way to give her what she's always wanted. Even many women who have no trouble orgasming clitorally say that the G-Gasms just blow them away in intensity and WHOLE body orgasm vs clitoral being a "just" clitoral orgasm.
Much of the feedback on the LIT site describes the incredible (loving) feeling of seeing your woman just fragged and happy and horny the next day like she's a teenager again. It DOES improve entire relationships and although you ay feel a bit like a new toy, if there is love there he IS enjoying giving you all those orgasms in a way he never thought possible either. Talk to him about that aspect of it and I'm sure he'll back off and you won't feel like a rag doll but there is an indescribable feeling of love and happiness seeing YOU feeling THAT good. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2008 5:36:31 AM | Folks, I'm going to be away on vacation for 3 weeks, so I'm taking the liberty of bumping my message #96 up here to Page 11 so it's handy for all those who wish to read it. I will not have access to a computer til I return, and there was no sense in coming home to find my mailbox full and many people waiting for the requested info.
POST #96
Well, Folks....the inquiries are STILL coming in. This thread is getting lengthy now, so I thought I'd go over it from the start and cut and paste the links that have been mentioned so far.....
Here's hoping I got them....don't know if I'm better at "cut and paste" or "squirting"
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=708
he thread is "female G-spot....go to Page 6.
Two excellent, informational posts to look at are:
sexywoman4U...msg 128
Check out Gemfarmer's post Posted: 5/19/2008 4:07:39 PM Some excellent info
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
Dave632...msg 131
NOTE
For those of you who wish to take the crash course, above are several links to sites that are very helpful. However, I would also suggest that you then peruse this thread from the beginning, because several people have given excellent suggestions that you won't want to miss.....
If I come across any further information, I'll be sure to let you know....right now I, myself, am still in the "Research and Development" stage.....if someone actually develops to that stage in MY life...You'll not be hearing a thing from me.....I don't kiss and tell....when it's personal, that is.....
Fondly,
KK
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Posted: 7/7/2008 5:43:50 AM | ok, I'm going to have to jump in and mention a crucial thing
if a man jumps right into making his partner squirt, she isn't going have the whole entire body affected
yes.. it is a great orgasm, I don' downplay squirting at all but a woman's body has so many pleasure points that if its all ingored for the sake of just playing her g-spot to get this orgasm
the man is allowing her to miss out on the WHOLE complete experience
yup.. it all goes back to the importance of foreplay...head to toe !
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Posted: 7/7/2008 7:34:07 AM | Hon, there's a lot of information about that on the 11 pages of comments...I know it takes time to read, but the information is there...A gentle reminder is always good, but if you've read the past pages, you'll see that it has been mentioned, because what you mentioned is recognized as a VERY important part of the lovemaking process.
The past pages are well worth the time it takes to read....many people have learned a lot..Dave, as well as I, have mentioned that our mailboxes are full of testimony to the fact.
Sincerely,
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:04:54 AM |
if a man jumps right into making his partner squirt, she isn't going have the whole entire body affected
yes.. it is a great orgasm, I don' downplay squirting at all but a woman's body has so many pleasure points that if its all ingored for the sake of just playing her g-spot to get this orgasm the man is allowing her to miss out on the WHOLE complete experience yup.. it all goes back to the importance of foreplay...head to toe ! any women out there agree?
Absolutely agree. In fact for noobies the first attempts to give her a G-Gasm(s) / squirting may very well fail if the Technique is used immediately with not much or no build-up.
Once the woman knows the feeling and can G-Gasm quickly (usually under 2 minutes) it is GREAT for a quickie but NOTHING beats a nice slow build-up ... lots and lots of foreplay, verbal, digital, oral, toys, teasing. If she is finding it hard to breath, is experiencing chattering teeeth and muscle spasms it just MAY be time to move from foreplay to the main even.   | |
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Posted: 7/8/2008 1:02:21 PM | Forgive me if someone, in the last 11 pages, posted this:
OP, you might get a deeper understanding of this issue if you also check out another thread that was started about a month before yours. Here's the link:
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts9688551.aspx
You'll find about 12 pages (last I looked) discussing this issue from another angle, as it were (no pun intended). | |
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Posted: 7/8/2008 3:34:56 PM | | well done Dave, I couldn't of put it better. I'm 35 and I have just found my G spot, I didn't think it did anything for me, I knew where it was and played around but nothing ever happened until recently. I can now squirt without being touched, just by bearing down. Can't wait to find a partner to share my new found skills with! | |
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Posted: 7/8/2008 6:01:24 PM | Yup, We know about that one...if you read it, you'll find that many of us have been posting on both of them......and, over there, I believe both DAVE and I have cross-referenced this thread. There are two going, and as long as there is interest, no reason why we can't continue with both of them. There's a lot of information in both of them and it appears that many people are grateful for the learning experience.
Thanks for bumping it up. I doubt if there's any competition between the threads . As a matter of fact, it's been so long that I will have to look up the OPs, I can't even remember.
I just remember that I posted some information that I found and I thought it was excellent so I posted it. The subject took off from there, and seems to still be going strong. Dave has also contributed some excellent info, along with several others. It's all appreciated....according to my incoming mail.
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 7/8/2008 8:02:09 PM | | Definitely, this can be learned; but you do need the right information, and usually the right lover to achieve it. It takes a combination of allowing yourself you "let go", and correct stimulation of your G-spot. I'm not just guessing here; I learned about it quite by accident some years back, and have introduced it to most of my lovers...not all, but just about all. It takes more information than I can give you here, but feel free to write to my link, and I'll explain it to you. Good luck in your endeavors! | |
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Posted: 7/14/2008 7:36:30 AM | FireDude, I posted a Technique for those who have never found the trigger for this phenomena. This is a place for SHARING - NOT "na na na I have a secret." or wiggling it like bait. "I have a secret ladies" sound too much like "Wanna jelly-bean little girl...?"
There are three and a half BILLION women on this rock so chances are if you SHARE your "secret" there will still be a few left over that you can introduce this to. Don't worry about all those black souls who may accuse you of bragging either. I've got a ton of that here and on LIT. That's all crap. I've never bragged about this. I've shared the info so others can do their own "research" and enjoy, hopefully, a whole new level of love and sexual intensity in their love lives. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2008 8:34:30 PM | I knew it! One of my male friends told me this was nothing more than a woman urinating...it is odd that it is realtively new in the area of pornography....I couldn't imagine how all these women suddenly learned how to do this. He acted like I was stupid...he said, "they are peeing."
I would like to know how this is done as well. Get that website out there....break it up, we read code! | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 12:25:39 AM | One of the best spots on the internet to learn about G-Gasms is here at http://welcomed.com
You can purchase "How To dvd's" from them. They're located here in the Bay Area.
Also, http://www.orgasmanic.com/index.php?topic=424.0
This woman achieved nirvana by being rubbed with 2 fingers on her G-spot.
Additional videos of squirting women can be found on youporn.com Where the woman known as Cyntheria is showing off her prowess of squirting incredible distances and multiple times with ease. She more than likely has been training her pubococcygeus (PC) muscle to shoot that far. It's the same muscle that we all use to pinch out a few more drops of urine.
There's another type known as a Uterine orgasm too. This is attained by a toy/c()ck long enough to rub against her cervix. Ejaculation is possible and it's happened to a few of the women I've practiced on. The major distinction between this O and the others is that it's felt along the pelvic nerve route ~ which is deeper into the body. Yet, sometimes you don't need to be deeper into her literally with an item. Through Tantric/energy practices along with the soulful connection to one another her whole body gets turned on and when the buildup of energy gets into her uterus....then watch out!!! Those O's are off the chart when it comes to the emotions. They are either mind numbing or earth shattering.
It's wonderful to be able to give pleasure as unique as this is. So much of the general public has no idea about it. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 10:13:57 AM | ""It's wonderful to be able to give pleasure as unique as this is. So much of the general public has no idea about it.""
I couldn't agree more, Sun. I'm constantly baffled by not only how many don't know but don't WANT to know. Even worse - the ones who don't know and readily admit they've never found it or had it stimulated by a partner - EVER - are the most vocal when posting negative comments. They profess to KNOW. All that all that we have discussed and shared and despite the positive testimonials they STILL refuse to believe, experiment or stop their silly comments about it being "unproven" or "nonsense." Good for them. I hope they wear their ""Proud to be a LOSER"" T-shirts well
The knowledge IS out there. There are a few video clips that make it look easy. I've heard an interview with Cyntheria (SP?) and she says that she teases herself for 8 to 10 HOURS before one of her squirting scene takes. She also sez she can barely think, walk or talk afterwards - which IS normal but couples should NOT think that a 10 or 15 minute G-ing is going to produce the kind of fluidic discharge that a PRO can only produce after a 10 hour build-up. If it really was that easy we'd all be ankle deep in goo .....
The other thing I find completely misleading is the assumption by many that the female ejaculation represent THE ultimate orgasm for a woman. From everything you can read and personal testimonials, it isn't. It can feel good during a G-Gasm(s) but it doesn't actually add any intensity to an already mind blowing orgasms (or 50 of them). Couples who can achieve multiple MASSIVE orgasms using these techniques should concentrate on that and not feel like losers because hse hasn't attained the squirt thingie - yet.
Bottom line is it CAN be learned but it also can't be UN-learned so once you get there spontaneous sex in places where you simply can NOT leave a huge mess / puddle becomes a thing of the past.
The ULTIMATE O , BTW is timing the 5th or 10th or 40th massive G-Gasm with a slow build-up clitoral one. Watch out she doesn't break your nose but from feedback in the thousands on the TRY THIS thread on LIT the combination being timed to hit at the same second is THE ultimate !! | |
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Posted: 7/23/2008 11:35:18 PM | what everybody needs to know and understand is that every woman is slightly different.. from my experience, women have achieved what THEY termed a g spot orgasm from me hitting a certain spot during intercourse.... usually what is called the g spot .. usually when the woman is on top, but sometimes from behind as well.. other women have no response to the same spot being stimulated.. again every woman is different.. if you pay attention to the vagina on women you will see that the clitoris is in different areas on women in regards to its position to the vaginal opening.. which is why i think some women can only achieve orgasm when they are on top.. they get more stimulation that way.. the vagina itself is even sometimes slightly higher or lower just in its position on a womans anatomy.. so just because you havent achieved an orgasm in a certain way, its foolish to think other women respond to stimuli the same way you do.. just from a logical point of view, obviously the nerve endings in womans vagina will be different from one woman to the next.. women don't come off an assembly line.. i've know women that gush ( my term ) from clitoral stimulation, not just from penetration.. and it is a females equivalent of ejaculate.. just because you've read something on the internet in favor or against something doesnt mean you know something.. it may have been written by a man or woman with a boring or unfulfilling sex life.. real world experiences are what i tend to base my reality on.. personally i'm not a big fan of the gusher.. some women gush just a little.. some are like niagra falls.. it soaks the sheets and in general makes a mess.. not a big turn on for me.. so in closing i would just like to reinterate.... just because something hasnt happened to you doesnt mean it hasnt happened to others.. to think your life experiences translate into universal fact is just foolish.. especially if you havent had that much life experience.. hell i could show you a video of one of my exe's masturbating with her hand in her pants and after a particularly good orgasm she is shocked to find out she had soaked through her levi's.... the pants came off after that.. that's another story.. and no you can't really see it.. don't think she'd like that..  | |
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Posted: 7/23/2008 11:37:30 PM | | and btw i forgot to add... in my experience it is very rare for a woman to be able to gush.. prob 1 in 100 does.. just one mans opinion.. maybe it can be learned.. i dont know.. any woman i've know that can says she was always that way.. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2008 2:42:03 AM | Who knows? Who cares? Not I. This is something I have absolutely NO desire to experience. I have intense, very pleasurable orgasms, and get very wet, so no need to "learn" how to "squirt." Not to mention, I have no desire to deal with the mess it makes. LOL.
Here's yet another thing used against women to make them feel sexually inadequate or be labeled as "underachievers." Why is this experience touted as some kind of mystery, as though only women who can do it hold the key to every other woman's secret, unfulfilled desire.
Hey, I'm not knocking someone who wants to try it but, to me, it's no big deal; in fact, I find it rather weird. And since it doesn't originate from the vagina, I'm not entirely convinced it's a sexual orgasm anyway. Not in the same sense men's are, at least. There are articles to support this view.
Most of the scenes depicting "squirting" on porn flicks are staged anyway.. Hey, I'll all about women's lib and equality and all that, but I'll happily leave the process of ejaculation to the men. I don't feel like I'm missing a thing by not being able to shoot streams of fluid across the room. What's next? Vaginally projectile vomiting pea green soup? ;-) | |
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Posted: 7/24/2008 8:56:51 AM | The feedback I've received from the TRY THIS thread on LIT (link below) indicates almost unanimously that squirting / gushing / ejaculating does NOTHING to actually enhance the orgasm IF it happens with an orgasm. Most do. Some don't. It is described as similar to a need to urinate and then as a result of specific stimulation a "floodgate" opens and out it all comes. Again this is NOT urine.
It appears to be primarily a MALE myth associated with OUR ejaculation that a woman who is spewing during sex MUST be having a great orgasm - much better than a regular one. This is clearly NOT the case based on many many testimonials. Get over it guys. Give her a GREAT series of G-Gasms but if she doesn't flood the basement you have NOT failed and in the long run it's probably a good thing.
Based on personal "research" and thousands of testimonials on the TRY THIS on LIT and various other threads, I believe that the G and A SPOT orgasms are MUCH faster to achieve (once you know what it feels like) more intense, longer lasting, more satiating than clitoral orgasms for MOST women ( like comeonin sez we are all different - I'm generally generalizing here) and - and this makes it the hands down WINNER, IMHO - they are almost infinitely REPEATABLE .... so I am a HUGE FAN of G-Gasms and have treid to SHARE the information on how to achieve these. Again, from feedback, they are SO GOOD they can actually change the entire relationship for the better.
Due to the atrocious LACK of any substantive research or positive findings there is a virtual info vacuum when it comes being able to simply look up GSpots and find definitively whether they are or not and how to properly find and stimulate them. Women who have never either found theirs or have never been with a partner who knew where or how to get their GSPot firing properly seem to be the most vocal in their dismissing it as another male PLOT to put women down. I am NOT a fan of squirting simply because of the mess and as a result of that spontaneous sex becomes a thing of the past for you unless you're in a place that doesn't matter if a cup or more of fluid is spewed on the floor, table, car seat etc. Sorry if I have kind of hijacked this thread as it IS a squirting thread but the way to get there is (usually) G-GASMS and those threads just disappear in the forums. Too many people don't know, don't want to know, out and out dismiss it or think that those who post are just bragging. I do NOT think sharing is bragging.
Being a big fan of the G & A Spot orgasms I can't help wonder WHAT a woman's sex life has been like when she posts a statement like: ""Here's yet another thing used against women to make them feel sexually inadequate or be labeled as "underachievers." " IT happens all the time. Most of them CLAIM to be ""all about women's LIB and gender equality" yet by their posts they have never experienced these orgasms. Instead of being curious and wanting to learn and discover they feel the need to kybosh the whole concept and insult the few who are trying to let others know how good these O's can be. It saddens (and frustrates) me that attempts to INFORM those who have never achieved these spectacular types of orgasms are taken by those same women as some kind of women bashing ... another "weapon" in the subjugation of the female species. You have to ask yourself what kind of crappy, manipulative sex lives they've endured to a) be here and b) to have such a shitty attitude. Quite sad.
Have a read. Learn and with a little effort all you disbelievers may one day lose your cruddy "attitude."
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892 | |
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Posted: 7/25/2008 10:53:50 AM | | Hey guys.. ever notice the women that come off really negative when it comes to the topic of sex, are mostly women that you wouldn't even consider having sex with? That might be why they are so negative on the subject... They really aren't getting any.. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2008 1:42:55 AM |  Idon't know about the learning but all the women that have squirted with me all said it was their first time and that it was an awesome feeling (orally) and it went bothe ways. It feels good when you hear a women from either 25 to 45 saying they never experienced that form of orgasm. I'm nobody special, i guess i take my time and my partner has to be totally comfortable maybe they is a learning part for the women but i think a lot of it has to be the level of comfort and the way the guy does is thing  | |
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Posted: 8/16/2008 2:56:59 PM | One technique I've enjoyed on occasion is using my CHIN while I blow the tune for the Star Spangled Banner in her belly button. Try it. The orgasm or the squirt can hit really fast sometimes with this. The CHIN is used to press on her abdomen just above the pubic bone so it is pressing DOWN on the OUTSIDE of her GSpot. I finger her, pressing GENTLY on the GSpot and not really giving her the pressure she normally needs to G-Gasm but ... just ... there. Between the giggling and the horrible rendition (sounds like a Tuba with a sponge stuck in the pipes) they've been known to catch a "spook" - an orgasm that hits them outta nowhere. They don't even know they're even close (maybe because the chin is keeping it in a ready to fire mode) and all of a sudden BOOM - like a sneeze - they're cuming.
This is best done during a break or a quiet time when you're letting her recharge her batteries. The Spook-Gasm comes because it doesn't feeel like you're doing very much other than fooling around playing tummy tunes and then BAM - she's there - again.
WHAAAHOOO - TOOT TOOT !!! | |
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Posted: 8/24/2008 8:10:56 PM | A question for the ladies.
Those who do generally squirt - do you practice your KEGELS regularly ?? Do you think it enhances the ability to orgasm or the ability to squirt or ... both. Have any women STARTED doing Kegels and noticed a difference in their sexual response? More powerful orgasms? Do you recommend these exercises for other woem who are trying to improve their sexual responsiveness?? | |
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