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 cailin beag

Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 276
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Posted: 8/25/2008 2:34:44 AM

Those who do generally squirt - do you practice your KEGELS regularly ??

No i have only practiced them after i give birth to my children, but you got me doin it now Dave
It just came naturally to me, and it happens everytime, no training needed!

Do you think it enhances the ability to orgasm or the ability to squirt or ... both.

I'll tell you what! I'll start practising them as of now, and i'll let you know if it improves.....but its pretty hot as it is.....i'll be your little guinea pig
 Insurance_guy

Joined: 5/12/2007
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Posted: 8/25/2008 1:47:48 PM
That might be your 40th bday present but gosh....that would make one heck of a present for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Send all videos, please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 DAVE632

Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 8/26/2008 7:43:12 AM

Those who do generally squirt - do you practice your KEGELS regularly ??



One of the reasons I asked is because the true squirters like Cytheria (sp?) are obviously ejaculating using mostly the pressure of a massive build-up of fluid and not so much a squeezing action. If it was squeezing action I think you'd get more of a pulsing. She just HOSES until the fluid is gone. So it is clear that there are TWO distinct ways of squirting - one a huge build up of fluids in the Skeene glands and the other would be a small build-up of fluids ejected mostly by muscle spasms or squeezing the muscles down there. Hence the question. Do Kegels improve that ability as well as all the other pluses they have overall during sex ... firmer "grip" , tighter feel, more intense muscle contractions (longer duration too) during orgasm(s) etc etc. If Kegels significantly improve the ability to squirt then one could expect to see women EVERYWHERE bobbing up and down while they're sitting as they do their little internal push-ups!!!


Squeeeeeze. Release. Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release.Squeeeeeze. Release!!!!
 groyeah

Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 279
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Posted: 9/9/2008 8:19:44 PM
Yes it can be learned. Your man/ woman must insert his fingers and then hook them up ward as your g spot is in and up in the vagina. Then they must move their fingers (two of them ) in a come hither motion, not too light and not too hard. Your part and key to all of this is you must let it go, you are going to feel like you have to pee, but its not pee, just let it go and enjoy. A man with an upward curve to his penis can accomplish this also!
 beau37

Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 280
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Posted: 9/9/2008 8:32:56 PM
you go girl, hey our viginas speaks voulume do let them tell you
 LLandGirl

Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 281
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Posted: 10/27/2008 5:40:01 AM
Yes I believe it can be learned. Just from reading this forum a bit ago I learned some things. The main one was simply to allow myself to relax and just let go. Happy to report I just had my first experience finally the other evening. Hope there are more to come...lol.
 ttylater

Joined: 10/28/2008
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Posted: 10/31/2008 4:31:18 PM
I've been getting handled with care recently when it comes to squirting. Having never heard anything about it until a few months ago until I met a man at a party in The City. I found it really hard to believe that I had never heard anything about it before. He gave me some sites to check out and I even went to wiki to real about this rarely talked about orgasm.

The first time he simply brought over his pleasure kit to practice on me. After about 15 or so minutes I had a different sensation rippling through me that I hadn't felt before. Suddenly I told him to slow down because I had to pee. He then reassured me that it was just my cum pressing on my bladder making me "think" that I had to pee. Sure enough after another 10 minutes went by I felt the moist intense rush pulsating through my pusssy. I felt like a puddle from what his fingers were doing to me on only two parts of my body. Shortly thereafter as I was starting to cum he purringly said to push out and OMG! I looked like a sprinkler going off on my bed. Maybe shooting about 6 inches followed by feeling my juices run down my thighs. I never had to go pee. I was so blown away that I was hardly talking afterwards.

Squirting and cumming are 2 different sexperiences. I know what it now feels like. The difference going on within my body is like comparing cumming to a wading pool and squirting to a hurricane.
 ttylater

Joined: 10/28/2008
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Posted: 10/31/2008 4:33:36 PM
I've been getting handled with care recently when it comes to squirting. Having never heard anything about it until a few months ago until I met a man at a party in The City. I found it really hard to believe that I had never heard anything about it before. He gave me some sites to check out and I even went to wiki to read about this rarely talked about orgasm.

The first time he simply brought over his pleasure kit to practice on me. After about 15 or so minutes I had a different sensation rippling through me that I hadn't felt before. Suddenly I told him to slow down because I had to pee. He then reassured me that it was just my cum pressing on my bladder making me "think" that I had to pee. Sure enough after another 10 minutes went by I felt the moist intense rush pulsating through my pusssy. I felt like a puddle from what his fingers were doing to me on only two parts of my body. Shortly thereafter as I was starting to cum he purringly said to push out and OMG! I looked like a sprinkler going off on my bed. Maybe shooting about 6 inches followed by feeling my juices run down my thighs. I never had to go pee. I was so blown away that I was hardly talking afterwards.

Squirting and cumming are 2 different sexperiences. I know what it now feels like. The difference going on within my body is like comparing cumming to a wading pool and squirting to a hurricane.
 Blondecharmthe3rd

Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 284
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Posted: 10/31/2008 8:30:44 PM
I practise kegals all the time. Regardless for the squirting, they are really imperative to keep all the muscles working to support all the structures we women carry around. No one wants a sagging bladder!!

The bonus for some is a strong squirt.... more like a hose gushing!! Not really learned, it just happened when I had been fighting the urge to pee, and let go. Learned first hand from my doctor it wasn't pee and he gave me a great deal of information on how it happens, where it comes from, what the liquid consists of. Very special doctor to be that knowledgeable and understanding.
 Knittin Kitten

Joined: 1/15/2007
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Posted: 11/1/2008 8:57:51 AM
Are we permitted to refer to the other thread on the G Spot? I have just posted a long description in regard to learning this and thought you folks reading this might be interested in reading that article. I saw no sense in repeating that lengthy article. I am not that well versed in providing the diagrams, they did not transfer. However, I know for a fact that squirting CAN be learned.....Take my word for it.....

KK
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 11/1/2008 10:12:57 AM
Lol yes I just learned it this week! Guys told me I could learn it so I googled it and it worked for me. 2x this week. I was so excited. It made me more horny. Too bad I didn't have a man here but u have to learn it.
 Diana229

Joined: 7/7/2008
Msg: 287
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Posted: 11/2/2008 5:39:56 PM
I was married for 15 years before I knew that I had the ability to squirt as an orgasmic release. My husband would perform oral on me but I was a control freak back then. If I felt like I was losing control, light-headed or was unsure what was going on, I would move away so we could have intercourse. There was one night when he was going down on me and I started to move away from him. He looked up at me, pulled my legs and brought me closer where I could not leave his tongue and lips. My legs began to tremble uncontrollably as I felt like I was going to pass out under his repeated tongue lashings. Then, it was like saying "uncle" and I gave the power over to him. Once I did that and let my mind and body go with the repeated waves of physical stimulation, I began to let out moans and screams. When I hit a plateau that I had never reached or acheived, my husband moved his head back and then dove back in at the "y" and ate like there was no tomorrow. Afterward, my husband shared that I had squirted from my clitoris which he never remembered me doing during our entire marriage.

So one thing that I would highly recommend is that you walk your lover through the oral act, communicate where your "g" spot is and have him focus his attention. He will need to keep the steady pace, increasing the flicking of his/her tongue and not stopping until they claim their prize. But you must remember, you must give control to your lover, clear your mind of the daily grind and let it "flow". Please tell me if you achieve this new plateau of ecstasy.
 totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007
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Posted: 11/2/2008 7:05:20 PM
Yes this CAN BE LEARNED. That is the truth. Some of these posters disagree well they just don't know how or are not WILLING to learn. All women can squirt, all women have the same body parts. The most important thing that is required is being able to trust the man you are with. Being able to let go and know that you can trust him and know that he is giving you the respect a woman needs to know and feel. So many of you women have thoughts that you think are bad or disgraceful to ever think those things...the truth is it is normal for those thoughts and desires. There is nothing wrong with you women the problem is too many guys don't understand their own sexuality much less a females. May all you females find someone that is able to be your GEASTEST lover and that will help you achieve these acts of pleasure.
 zrythm8

Joined: 9/21/2008
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Posted: 11/2/2008 8:15:10 PM
Yes it can be leaned. It took me until a year ago before this happened. Yes it does feel like the need to urinate - however you do not. The key is to have complete trust in your lover and the ability to let go. A word of caution though - it can feel a little scary if you are not used to losing control so completely - and the afterchocks and trembing are pretty other wordly also. To make it complete - being held during the aftershocks - makes it better and gives the women a sense of stability after losing such control.

Zee
 ttylater

Joined: 10/28/2008
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Posted: 11/8/2008 4:14:55 PM
He was practicing on me the other day and OMG did he handle me with care. It's been very hard to learn how to ask anyone before him on how to touch me or where, when or how often. So far he's been incredible in getting me to open up to my desires. When I let go of my stream the other day my warm cream was squirting onto my feet. I've never felt so alive nor appreciated for just letting go and truly being myself in bed. Without him I wouldn't be squirting. Being able to squirt and shoot far like a man is a real f'ing turn on!
 DAVE632

Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 11/9/2008 12:05:12 AM
Many, many, many posts on the TRY THIS thread refer to the massive increase in self-confidence and self-awareness of their new-found sexuality after discovering or being introduced to the POWER of the G and/ or A Spot orgasms. Not sure if it OXYTOCIN levels peaking or the fact that a partner is literally so much more "into" you doing this. The partner has to concentrate on YOUR orgasms only (if they're doing it right!!) and allow you to just rocket on !!! Women who thought they could only cum once and suddenly are orgasming a dozen or two dozen times or more a night just have a whole different attitude. People can SEE it in / on them. They GLOW! They strut. THEY KNOW !!!!

TRY THIS for your woman. For yourself. For the RESEARCH!!!

http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892



 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 11/9/2008 10:22:02 AM
Sure it can be learned but why would you want to ?
It's awfully messy.
Do you enjoy sleeping on wet sheets ?
If anything, try to keep from doing it, instead of spraying the whole bed like a fire hose.
Stop competing with porno movies.
 PhoenixEMichelle

Joined: 8/23/2008
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Posted: 11/9/2008 11:36:14 AM
Yes indeed it can be learned. Lots of websites and DVD's available, some are porn some are not.
 Knittin Kitten

Joined: 1/15/2007
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Posted: 11/9/2008 3:30:34 PM
In response to all the messages I have been receiving, I have cut and pasted the information you have asked me about on the other thread - Female G Spot....It's message 210 on 11/1/08 - page 9....

I did not know how to carry over the diagrams, so you may have to find them under the applicable documents. Sorry it took me so long to get this posted. However, Dave's information is excellent also....I just thought you might prefer an encapsulated version to start with. When you read his, you will see how many folks have tried it, succeeded, and LOVED IT.

By the way, for those who have no interest in this, and feel that it's too messy (especially since placing a plastic shower curtain on the bed will avoid any mess), please understand that this is not supposed to be PUNISHMENT. It is an extremely erotic experience and, it might just be worth a try.....If you don't like it, you never have to do it again...BUT, if you DO LIKE IT, you may have a whole new world opened up to you......

Fondly,
KK
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 11/9/2008 3:59:39 PM
exercise your pc muscle and you will quirt.
 Knittin Kitten

Joined: 1/15/2007
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Posted: 11/9/2008 4:24:42 PM
It takes a bit more than that, I think, hun, but you've got the right idea....I posted the info for the newbies who do NOT know all the answers and would like to practice....I've learned that practice makes perfect....

KK
 qhetto_with_class

Joined: 10/26/2008
Msg: 297
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Posted: 11/9/2008 6:08:30 PM
kan i hava theese links.=]
 qhetto_with_class

Joined: 10/26/2008
Msg: 298
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Posted: 11/9/2008 6:09:02 PM
i need theese sites!
 ttylater

Joined: 10/28/2008
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Posted: 11/10/2008 11:47:22 AM
He practised on me last night for more than an hour. As I was about to go over my edge I started to mumble on my words that I wanted the ride to last longer. So he slowed down his stroking and I gradually let more of the storm take over me.
I managed to hold on for about another 20 or so minutes before I came so hard my whole body felt like it was floating on air. This time I wanted to feel the loss of control in my body so afterwards he did not spoon or cuddle with me. He just sat in the room and watched me come down from my rollercoaster ride.

One sidenote from the emails I've been receiving about this thread re: who this man is. He is on this site and he absolutely does not want his name announced. No he's not married or gay...it's just his request.
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 11/10/2008 11:57:58 AM
It takes a bit more than that, I think,

Actually it dont. I have never squirted until i spent a week exercising my pc muscle and boom I squirted. Blew me away.
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