| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/15/2008 4:39:38 AM | | Happy: Um...before going off on an anti-man tirade, you should pay attention to my whole post and not just one part. If it happens naturally, then it happens naturally. If it doesn't then why would you want to force it? You're trying to compare a tablespoon of liquid to upwards of 4 litres of liquid. I think the latter is a little messier. Just for the record the tablespoon is messy enough and having an orgasm without it would suit me just fine, so we don't need to rant about the "rights of ejaculation". | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/15/2008 8:30:39 PM | It is a selfish lover that does not want to please their partner. ANY ONE that thinks anything about sex is disgusting well you need some profession help to dig deep inside your mind and find what hurt you so bad as a child.
You know I am 51 and I never knew about this until 3 years ago. The minute I found out it was true ...I was looking the best of the best to teach me how to help a woman to achieve that. Now that i understand it and it works why should I keep that info to myself? This should be shared with every woman that is curious enough to want to feel more pleasure.
So many of you guys that put this act of giving "more of yourself" is the key to a woman feeling pleasure that she has never felt before. 2 and I repeat 2 things have to happen for her to achieve this(maybe 3 ...guys getting their head out of their own ass and learning some things about females) 1 would be RESPECT for her and what she can achieve by being with you. If a woman's body starts squirting or, massive amount of lubricating fluid from her own body, well a man should enjoy it all. Me let me lay down and she can cover me talk about some monkey sex then.... ...! That is why so many women are so unhappy...their partner does not respect her for being a female...a lady..a slut...a ho..a animal...all of these things are inside every female.
2 Trust!!! If a female can trust you to be her lover...to be her guide to pleasure...to be open minded...to know that you respect her and love her as the sensual and sexual creature she is...there are things of pleasure no one will teach you about until they let go of the ego. Me I don't care what people think of me...fu*k'em they are missing out on a great friend...but I am not here to worry with guys. I am on this planet to be happy with who I am and to please any female that I allow in to my space, my circle, my life they are a guest.
So if you really want to be a HAPPY male walking around learn how to please a female to limits she has never known. She feels...Wonderful and Sexy and Fulfilled...you feel great because you GAVE of yourself to please them first then yourself.
I know 90% all i wrote goes right over their heads....standing there like a deer caught in the head lights with that blank look in their eyes. But guys every one of you can become much better than you are now...by just thinking "wow maybe I do need to learn some NEW things about sex and women".
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/15/2008 9:45:51 PM | I'm gonna go with those that say... I have no clue if this is somethin that can be learned or not. I haven't been one of the lucky ones to make myself do this on my own. In fact, the only way I've ever been able to squirt so far is while ridin. It's more than just a feelin of havin to urinate for me though... my entire body goes feverish hot, I begin to shake, and I couldn't scream nor make a sound if you paid me to... this generally lasts only for a few seconds (dependin on how steady the g-spot is bein tapped, it may last longer), after which the fluids begin to pour/squirt uncontrollably... anything beyond that is completely out of my hands... to orgasm like that to me is like bein outside of your own body, you hand complete control over to the man and submit to the desire your body won't allow you to refuse... if you just let yourself go =)
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/16/2008 5:38:25 AM | | I don't think all women are capable, due to physical or emotional hangups but those of us who do thank our lucky stars every time it happens. I will say my squirting has NOTHING to do with some guy saying he can make me squirt. Please. It happens because I want it to. All the morons on here who profess to know the secret... good for you. Stay away from me you egomaniacs. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/16/2008 6:54:54 AM | | I find it funny that Totem, the king of all sex, who's advanced knowledge of women we lowly males could never understand didn't know about squirting until his late forties. Seriously, what the hell are you smoking? Some people in here are so delusional. I guess someone has to provide the laughs. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/16/2008 9:00:37 AM | cw, I think you should be a bit more positive. The dude didn't discover all this until recently but NOW he's a fan and recommending it to the board. There have been just as many posts from WOMEN who still don't know aboput the possibilities of their own GSpots and what it can do for them. Is that "funny"? The ones who come on, read one or two posts and then kybosh the whole concept are morons but those who post positive stuff should get a bit of slack.
I didn't discover / stumble on this until I was mid-40's. It transformed my relationship. Because of that not too long after she died I posted a Technique on Literotica so that men AND women who had never discovered this on their own could read, learn, try and discover. The feedback has been terrific and many have sounded like the posting from "new" fan, Totem. I've had testimonials from couples in their mid 80's!! I'm happy as hell they read my piece and found that it even worked for them but not finding it isn't "funny" in my books ... maybe sad / frustrating that they didn't discover such pleasure until later in life but not funny and that's why these boards are great. Young'ins can read and learn so they aren't 86 when they find this out the first time!!
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/16/2008 10:52:55 AM | CW dude you have a lot of anger inside of you. I can guess your glass is always half empty. You live in fear...you need to find yourself. Do I know what to do to a woman...yes.. but I also know not to use my knowledge to hurt any of them either.
I think if you really read what the women and men have said here to your posts you will find the area of what you are doing wrong and why you are single with anger.
I am not posting to bust on you but to help you change your line of thought! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/16/2008 12:31:53 PM | | Hey Totem, if you think I come across as angry you're obviously too sensitive. I'm calling you out on the fact that you think you know so much that it's "going over our heads" as you put it. At the same time you're so uninformed that you didn't even realize this existed until a few years ago. That was an extremely arrogant (and insulting) thing to say and the fact you knew nothing about it for so long proves it isn't true. I find that type of attitude irritating. Obviously I'm not really doing anything "wrong" with regards to women because I'm not the one single in here and I'm pretty happy. Maybe I should share my expert opinions too. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/24/2008 11:34:12 PM | This answer is for Dave who has been thorough in his questions and thankfully without the ego of many other people who don't know a good thing even when their hands are on it.
"Back on topic .... does the amount you expel depend on the build-up as in foreplay or the number of times you orgasm? Or does it vary?"
When I squirt it does not take anything more than an hour before I shoot like a lawn sprinkler. I unload a serious amount that would probably fill up a couple of shot glasses. I've got no idea why it takes Cytheria so long to build up the amount that she does. But my man who's a Reiki Master knows how to build up the energy within me through foreplay and Tantric exercises before he gets down to it.
He does have to give my clit a rest because it is just far too sensitive to take any thing/finger/ or tongue on it for usually a few minutes before giving me another reason to hose him down. Either that or I've passed out from the intensity of it.
"So HOW FAR is lamorinda from this pavillion place? Would his hands be dry by the time he gets home?"
The drive time between our two places is about 20 minutes. It usually takes about 2 days for the aroma of my puussy to wear off of his fingers even with him washing his hands after I soak him. It's not too hard to figure out (if you live in the Bay Area) or my profile where I live and there's only one Chronicle Pavillion in the entire Bay Area.
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/25/2008 1:19:54 AM | GAWD, I wish we could run a thread on a subject like this without all the sniping. Personally I think G-Gasms - with OR without the squirt / ejaculation factored in - are THE most erotic, little known phenom of the female form. We need to explore the variations, share ideas, Techniques .... anything to improve what WE have already found and in so doing being able to teach those who haven't.
On mmy TRY THIS thread over on LIT there have been several naysayers, morons and no end of the "experts" who quote actual "Research" only to discover there is nothing there. OK, so we know differently. The scientists will discover all this one day. In the meantime it would be so nice to just SHARE. I agree. Whenever something this good is being discussed there are those who claim it as their own (nonsense people have stumbled on this for probably THOUSANDS of years - it's just never been shared) or that their way is the only way. My Technique, although I believe it superior for extended G-Gasms due mostly to the heavy duty muscles and joints being used, is a SUGGESTION, a VARIATION. The main thing is people who don't know about this can learn and incorporate it into their love lives every night. I could care less if couples use MY technique. I care that if they come here and are reading these threads they don't get discouraged and move on without learning this ART. The more we snipe the bigger the chance some people read a bit an move on in frustration. There are enough single reads and IM and Emails that I know the TRY THIS thread has affected tens if not hundreds of thousands of people. Discovering GSpots and what they do is THE greatest. Wouldn't it be great if we could concentrate on that.
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/25/2008 11:40:47 AM | Well, Folks....the inquiries are STILL coming in. This thread is getting lengthy now, so I thought I'd go over it from the start and cut and paste the links that have been mentioned so far.....
Here's hoping I got them....don't know if I'm better at "cut and paste" or "squirting"
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
For now, it's "squirting"....I'll have to go back over them and get the rest....here's an example of where I have not been successful at "multiples"
I'll be back.
KK
he thread is "female G-spot....go to Page 6.
Two excellent, informational posts to look at are:
sexywoman4U...msg 128
Check out Gemfarmer's post Posted: 5/19/2008 4:07:39 PM Some excellent info
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
Dave632...msg 131
Google "Female Ejaculation and the G Spot" by Deborah Sundahl... I think you'll find that article VERY helpful....
For those of you who wish to take the crash course, above are several links to sites that are very helpful. However, I would also suggest that you then peruse this thread from the beginning, because several people have given excellent suggestions that you won't want to miss.....
If I come across any further information, I'll be sure to let you know....right now I, myself, am still in the "Research and Development" stage.....if someone actually develops to that stage in MY life...You'll not be hearing a thing from me.....I don't kiss and tell....when it's personal, that is.....
Fondly,
KK
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/26/2008 12:01:12 AM | He's taking me to a pleasure based course in the upcoming weeks to have me learn more about myself. The course leaders were trained by Deborah Sundahl and I'm wet with excitement as to how much I'll learn.
Meeting him by chance at a party in San Francisco has been one of the bright spots of this year for me. From having never heard anything about it before to having the most intense hard clit gushing orgasms to the point of passing out is at times overwhelming. In the end I sleep better, feel more powerful within my body, and love how he loves to take care of me in such a yummy way.
I can see what you mean Dave by what your late wife must of seen in you. Thanks for being here too teaching everyone, not having a holier-than-thou attitude, and not resisting to the temptation to snipe.
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 12/31/2008 3:04:37 PM | My g-gasms are more than just orgasms. They have some magical quality that heals me to some deep core emotional level. I don't know how to put it into words the way I feel in my body after these deep earth shaking orgasms. Its along the lines of getting the most incredible body massage along with visiting a psychiatrist.
My bad feelings or negative emotions from perhaps years ago get cleared out of me when I receive his touch on my juicy little bits. At times I find myself giggling with child like glee and then following up thereafter with random crying from someplace within me that I didn't know was there or needed to be cried out of me. In those moments of crying I don't have any words to articulate what I'm crying about only that I know that I am.
May all your dreams come true in the New Year.
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| Reactions seem to be the same for many
Posted: 1/1/2009 12:24:10 AM | I posted this on another G-site the other day. It is based on a few hundred IMs and posts from your know where. Almost ALL women experience the same effects. Not just great orgasms - as many massive ones as she can take but deep, deep emotionally intense feelings that parallel the sexual gratification.
Women describe this event as anywhere from THE absolute BEST ... EVER ... to an almost religious experience where she feels "out of her body" or one with yours. It can be a VERY emotional time for her especially if she's never done this before so if right after she comes "down" from this she starts bawling like a baby, it is NOT because she's upset. This is just an emotional release. Try not to ruin the moment with macho dipsheet comments like "Whose yo Daddy?" or "We need to talk about your Mother." Just hold her tight (she'll be having post-orgasmic muscle twitches / convulsions for several minutes) and tell her she's beuteeeful and you are SOOOO turned on watching her cum like that.
O and DON'T let her get up and try and walk by herself after you've done this. Her legs will likely buckle and she could fall and hit her head, die and you'd be charged with her murder because who'd believe YOU gave her such a series of orgasms that she passed out? This would be a BAAAD ending to an other wise good evening of trying to make her feel ultra-special and the sexiest wench in the western wurld!!
So it is NOT simply sexual gratification. There is a feeling of closeness that sometimes has never been achieved in the relationship before. Definitely worth reading, trying and perfecting its many variations. | |
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| Reactions seem to be the same for many
Posted: 1/6/2009 4:04:24 PM | it is not like being trained like a seal= "squirt for me!"..god
THE G-spot orgasmn and the "squirting" that results is a technique used by surogate..
lovers/sex therapists as a therapy for release of negative emotions..abuse issues etc,,,if there is EYE contact it is totlally amazing....and guys please don't laugh when the amazing reaction is something you have not seen ....stay with HER..stay
G-spot squriting is a matter of LEARNING together as a couple..not something a woman can do after a training session..
also squirting distance depends on how FULL the vagina is..
as in coc ..dilly or fingers
so a guy with with a thin 4" may need fingers to train his seal
also prostate massge for men can result in the same release of emotions
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 1/8/2009 1:22:22 PM | | YES YES YES THIS CAN BE LEARNED!!! It's all about controling your muscles and finding your G-spot. It's AMAZING!! There are certain toys you can buy to help out with it, as well as books/manuals. Also, finding a guy that knows how to make you do it is awesome too! There is a book, online that I have a file for if you want shoot me an E-mail and I'll get it to ya! (I dont have the link, just the file) It ABSOLUTELY CAN be learned and I wish you the best of luck! Happy squirting!! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 1/8/2009 2:04:53 PM | I don't know how I made it to my age not knowing this stuff!
Dave, I want to say thanks for posting the information and not letting the negativity interfere with the sharing.
And, YES, it can be learned! And there ain't nothing like it...... Who says you can't teach an old dog new tricks? | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 1/8/2009 2:43:38 PM | | It is not something you can learn. it is simply exercise your pc muscle or not. if you exercise throuighout the day for a week or more you will squirt. if you dont exercise it then you will not squirt no matter how excited you are. The only possible learning needed if any is how to exercise your pc muscle and thats it. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 1/8/2009 4:17:18 PM | i wish it could be learned oh the fun i could have!
i only gush .. no squirting action going on for me  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 1/8/2009 5:38:13 PM | I have done "extensive" research in this area....and they "say" every woman is equipped to do this. However, I am obviously a freaking moron cuz I sure can't figure it out lol | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 1/8/2009 9:50:26 PM | RB, like you I have done some of my own research and have found that one does NOT need to be a moroon to NOT do this. SOme women do. Some do NOT. Some do sometimes and not others. There are some basics to learn and the amount of time spent in the pre-orgasmic phase ( five-play) can determine how full the Skeene glands become. However just like the size and shape of earlobes, nipples and butts ALL women ARE different. Some obviously have less developed Skeenes so lots of stimulation produces almost no fluid. Another factor (duh, really?) is how turned on she is at the start.
Actual scientific research on this topic is almost nonexistent so it comes down to educated guesses from a few people who have done their own research.
The one thing I do know is that for MOST women the squirting does NOT enhance the orgasm(s) at all. It does feel unique and their is an almost sense of relief but the "ultimate" orgasm being determined by the amount of fluid expelled is a myth for most - propagated by the make equivalence and dum porno clips showing one or two freeks spewing gallons of fluid in high pressure arcs hitting the 2nd and 3rd floor landings, drowning small animals and covering the film crew in slime.
I still don't understand the almost obsessive desire to do this especially if the G-Gasms are coming down the tracks like Japanese bullet trains. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 1/8/2009 11:44:02 PM | damn where were you when i needed you lol...I have never had the intense pleasure of a gspot ..orgasim...I dont htink so ....maybe...ummm yup nope I havent ...some good tips now if only I could find a guy who ...ummm you know knew WTF he was doing there...I have had an incredible sex life ...many many orgasims....lots and lots all in one night yessiry BOB but for some reason I have never had a partner try that with me...hmmm well that goes on my list of things to do in the year 2009 people.... I will keep you all posted lol | |
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| More than an Orgasm
Posted: 1/19/2009 10:24:07 PM | The other night I let loose with some deep purging cry just prior to cumming. It was like some incredible unleashing of emotions that I've never experienced ~ sort of like pure crying from joy buried down within my soul. I could feel this unexplainable 'thing' in my tummy swirling around within me until out of nowhere my body tightened up and I thunderously went over my edge. I cried for several minutes and it felt so good. He didn't seem surprised or put off by my sudden flowing of tears. He just smiled at me with a warm grin.
For his part he said that he wasn't manipulating the energy within in me to create the intense cry. Only that I've got control of my body and that what's meant to happen will. He said though that it was more or less all about who I trust. The deeper the trust the more I'll open. Right now the sky's the limit. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 1/19/2009 10:37:54 PM | Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving by Betty Dodson discusses the subject. And she and others note that if a woman has an open accepting partner and feels she can trust him 100% that she often finds she can squirt as well as gush.
Now imagine a woman who feels the man can be trusted and he has said all the right words about being open and accepting and then WHAM she lets herself go and what does she hear? Comments that are not accepting, loving. But more like disgusted....
And then the man wonders why she isnt so out going and fun the next time. | |
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| Squirting it is a god givin tallent
Posted: 1/19/2009 11:49:12 PM | I to have seen the rath of the all mighty squirt and let me tell you I think it is sexy.I am in vancouver I have not seen a good squirt in a long time so if your willing to show me I would love to see it wow. | |
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