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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/8/2009 2:15:24 AM | This is why threads like these are so important. People, the few who actually READ and LEARN will expect this or something like this. They will not completely freak if / when it happens. There are horrible stories on this and other squirting threads about reactions to female ejaculations. Women have been murdered, undergone surgery for incontinence and divorced because the guy had no clue this is a natural reaction to being turned on and letting loose.
Now imagine a woman who feels the man can be trusted and he has said all the right words about being open and accepting and then WHAM she lets herself go and what does she hear? Comments that are not accepting, loving. But more like disgusted....
Hopefully SOME men will read these threads and NOT react negatively if / when their woman relaxes and lets fly during a session of intercourse or G-Spotting.
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/8/2009 6:18:36 AM | I agree with you, Dave.....you can see that many folks, (both men and women) HAVE learned from these threads.
I'm sure, for some, their love life is just fine without this phenomenon. However, there are many who enjoy learning and have found this to be very exhilarating.
I just wanted to remind those who have expressed disappointment in not attaining a "squirt", although it is often possible to achieve this yourself, I fully believe that the "talent" of your special man goes a long way in making it not only possible, but even more enjoyable. So, don't be discouraged. Just be patient, and if he REALLY cares, he'll be around for quite awhile....just imagine how much "practicing" the two of you can do, and if you practice enough, maybe you'll become perfect!.
Just my thoughts...
KK
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/9/2009 11:20:25 AM | | I agree, squirting CAN be learned. I am a squirter who learned at an advanced age (42), so I do know of what I speak. Try searching the internet for female ejaculation, there are some wonderful informational sites available. You will need to relax and yes trust is an issue when a partner is involved. I suggest you possibly try to attain your goal alone first and then with a partner when you have enough information available about yourself and what you need to squirt to help him or her get you to that point. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/9/2009 1:44:31 PM | Most definitely a woman can learn how to squirt..I have done some research as well, years ago,, Like anything communication with your partner is the most important,, secondly, in my opinion, if your teaching or helping.. it's a shared experiance, As a man, he must understand the woman he is with,, have patience, the willingness and desire to please her, assure her that no matter what happens she will not be laughed at made fun at.. basically a woman needs to feel comfortable with her partner, success in not always guaranteed, but in time,, squirting will happen..
One woman that I have known never squirted to the best of my knowledge,,we attempted many times with out results,, then we did it on the bathroom sick,, she squired within two min.. and that was never our intent,, then many times later in bed,, and again nothing,, but went to the bathroom sink again, within 2 min squirting,, this happened time and time again..
After her and I discussed this,, trying to figure out why she only squirts in the bathroom, I soon found out that she felt the fluid was easier to clean up off the tile floor,, I soon assured her,,(again) sheets can be washed and it's no big deal,, well the following weekend end,, lets just say,, the sheets got wet,, all is good... | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/9/2009 2:47:50 PM | from what I am reading here, most information provided by Dave632 is correct, informative, and interesting, and so are those provided by KK. Google and search to your heart' content. It is worth it. As for the mess that the wet leaves, I had the marvelous surprise one day for my boyfriend to just catch it all in his mouth! Talk about having reason to come again ahahah We never had any messes to clean since. Taste is different according to month time and probably what you eat. Just as with guys... His drinking frenzy is amazing!
One problem I had when not squirting on a regular basis, was the smell or the taste of the liquid. My doctor suggested to empty periodically those Skeene glands on a regular basis, with masturbation if necessary, in order to keep the smell and taste somewhat less acrid and acidic. Something to think about. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/11/2009 1:44:42 AM | Yes it can be learned.
My previous girlfriend was not a squirter at first.
But once she got into it and I was hitting the right spot the right way, kinda pulling up and out at the same time, fingers curled up, really putting pressure on her G spot ...
We had to start bringing towels - yes that is plural - to the bedroom.
She was having mind blowing orgasms ... almost to the point of passing out | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/11/2009 7:53:06 PM | This has been discussed in the TRY THIS thread on Lit too. It ALSO applies to the reverse application of women causing protracted male prostate orgasm.
One problem I had when not squirting on a regular basis, was the smell or the taste of the liquid. My doctor suggested to empty periodically those Skeene glands on a regular basis, with masturbation if necessary, in order to keep the smell and taste somewhat less acrid and acidic. Something to think about.
It is not unexpected that a gland that has not been "flushed" for an extended period of time will get a tad rank. Fact is, closed up prostates are the cause of eventual prostate cancer so ALL women who enjoy their (male) partner GSpotting them with or without squirting should (to be fair) engage in routine prostate massage. Keeping those pipes squeaky clean is fun and healthy. 
From much feedback I am fairly safe to say that almost ALL women if stimulated for long enough and then G-Gasm repeatedly will ejaculate. If G-gasms are initiated very quickly and continue the Skeenes may not fill and hence ejaculation may not happen. There may be the muscle contractions but if the reservoirs are empty ... nada. Start giving her multiple G-Gasms right away and avoid squirting. Build her up, tease her in every way and chances are when she is stimulated properly she will ejaculate.
There are two relevant threads on LIT.
GSPOT THREAD
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
Milking Thread (prostate)
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657 | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/13/2009 7:35:32 AM | My mailbox is filling again -with questions on squirting. So, I guess it's time to update, once again, my posting listing some of the links to excellent information on learning to squirt.
The thread is "female G-spot....go to Page 6. (right here on POF)
Two excellent, informational posts to look at are:
sexywoman4U...msg 128
Check out Gemfarmer's post Posted: 5/19/2008 4:07:39 PM Some excellent info
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
Dave632...msg 131
The site I found the most instructional and informative, together with diagrams (no, it's NOT porno) is "Female Ejaculation, the Female Prostrate, & the G Spot.
For those of you who wish to take the crash course, above are several links to sites that are very helpful. However, I would also suggest that you then peruse this thread from the beginning, because several people have given excellent suggestions that you won't want to miss.....
If I come across any further information, I'll be sure to let you know....right now I, myself, am still in the "Research and Development" stage.....if someone actually develops to that stage in MY life...You'll not be hearing a thing from me.....I don't kiss and tell....when it's personal, that is....
Fondly,
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/13/2009 7:45:28 AM | http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
have referred to that site many times,, lots of good information,,
I would recommend it to both men and woman,,
we can never know to much about our partners,,, | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/13/2009 6:50:36 PM | I am glad to see so much positive info and open minds talking about this. As men we are the ones that need to KNOW how to pleasure a woman. As a woman you deserve the right to feel these things that your body is able to achieve for you. You have the right and you deserve to learn of these things and never ever be ashamed of the pleasure you can and should be able to feel.
Yes there is a lot of info on the web for all of us to learn from. The one thing that everyone has to understand is that a woman must be able to TRUST her male friend to be willing to let go completely to him. For the men, that read this, you need to be able to love and appreciate a woman for being the sensual and sexual creature she is. Men have to let go of the idea that anything about sex is a "sin"..."something dirty"..."something taboo".
Sex is a wonderful gift for both parties involved. The problem is too many are just after self-gratification and no thought of the woman having pleasure also. Our gift is to each other to share our self with another person...to open up and feel the enjoyment, love, pleasure the bond of male/female...Ying/Yang...postive /negative.
A woman's mind is the most important thing in learning this technique. She must trust the man, she must give herself openly and completely, she must love herself and know it is all right to do this thing and it is natural. The last most important thing is to know she is RESPECTED for being a woman, for being a sexual and sensual creature and most importantly that she is respected for what her body is about to do. If a man brings a woman to this state of pleasure and then makes a negative comment, an act of dis-respect, or to voice that it was nasty or dirty in any way he will do great damage to her mentally, emotionally and even spiritually. That is damage to a person's Karma and that is the true "sin" to harm another from ignorance. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/15/2009 6:50:42 AM | Can it be learned? That is a complicated question.
It is with great hesitation I write this since I do not want my mailbox flooded as Knitten Kitten has experienced. After considerable thought I am putting these references here for couples with the hopes that it helps them reach the ultimate in lovemaking.
The websites stated are good ones, but for those of you that prefer actual books try “The Complete Manual of Sexual Positions” by Jessica Stewart. Chapter 4 is devoted to the Grafenberg Orgasm. This chapter is three pages long including illustrations! It provides over a dozen great positions (further into the book) to enable female ejaculations.
In my opinion, it is more than technique. That is why I am including this next reference, “The Erotic Massage: The Touch of Love” by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, Ph.D. and Louise-Andree Saulnier. A KEY element to the G spot orgasm is the woman must be aroused. Ladies, do whatever works for you to “get there” including pleasuring yourself first. Gentlemen, realize foreplay for women starts way before you get into the bedroom. (I heard that! Those sighs and moans were audible. Yes, it means taking out the trash or all those other little things she wishes you would do.)
The last reference has to do with the greatest arousal organ in the female body: the brain. Guys, if you really want to understand women, read “The Female Brain” by Louann Brizendine. Although the author over generalizes she brings so much information to the table that can only enhance your knowledge of the females you share this planet with. If you have daughters, especially prepuberty ones, it is a must read.
As with anything, take what works for you and disregard the rest. I disagree with some of the information on the websites but a KEY element is the woman’s bladder must be empty. Another KEY element is the woman must be with someone she totally trusts. Someone she can be vulnerable with, letting go of all those inhibitions. In my opinion, that means someone she loves.
So, can it be learned? It’s complicated. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/15/2009 7:46:54 AM | knittin kitten, please post them on here. I was with a guy once who was astonished by my ability to squirt and lets just say he had been around a bit (this was a while ago by the way). Well he said he had only seen such activity in educational films.
Im not sure if it can be learnt or if its just a talent some of us have and some of us dont but i know if i am performing for a man they do often remark on my squirting ability. I just thought everyone did it. Comes natural to me i guess. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/15/2009 11:55:57 AM | | Everyone knows who Dr. Drew is right? Well he has said on radio talk that it can not be learned either you do or don't it's up to your body make up | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/15/2009 12:31:03 PM |
Everyone knows who Dr. Drew is right? Well he has said on radio talk that it can not be learned either you do or don't it's up to your body make up
The only logic in that statement, is this,, a woman who has never squirted never will..
BUT,,, those who have not,,, and if they were to believe what you just wrote,, never would have experianced squirting for the first time,, unless they have learned to understand her body,, as well as having a partner willing to experiment with her..
therefore it may be a natural ability,, that has not yet been discovered,, So why not try.. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/15/2009 7:43:26 PM | Personally, I wish the negative folks/naysayers would not bother posting here as this is an educational topic meant to INFORM.
The first time I had encountered anyone who squirted on a regular basis was shortly after getting separated from my ex-wife and she squirted with me 99% of the time when we were together (69 was fun with her on top because of this!!!)
I miss those days... we went our separate ways due to other issues.
These days, yes I do prefer squirters. And now that I've read the material on the subject, I'll have to see if I can get someone who hasn't before to do so. I'll let you know what I find (whenever that happens.) | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/15/2009 8:51:46 PM | | hey yes it can if you got the right guy to do the job and im 19 male tasmania with a nine inch****img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_210.gif border=0> | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/16/2009 3:14:16 AM | Well, everyones different....Some can, some cant...As a guy that LOVES making a girl squirt when she cums, I've learned how to make ANY girl do it..but it invloves stimulating the clit, AND the G Spot at the same time..Which most men have neither the attention span, nor the appreciation for his woman to do that...
If ya can, try stimulating both your clit, and your G Spot if and when you masterbate...When you feel yourself start to coum, let it build, then let it go at its peak...and bam, you should be getting **** juice all over your things..lol
MM, sexy thought tho! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/16/2009 8:18:58 AM | Amen to that sir.
Personally, I wish the negative folks/naysayers would not bother posting here as this is an educational topic meant to INFORM.
It has always baffled / frustrated me WHY so many who either have no idea what they're talking about or are just jealous they've never had the knowledge / opportunity to try this, would constantly post negative, derisive and insulting comments. It's not just that they exhibit their own nastiness and ignorance but they completely misinform others reading these INFORMATIVE and sharing posts.
I've been involved with several threads on the subject and have heard some horrible stories of what women have gone through because they do ejaculate. The ignorance out there is astounding. I'm sure MANY MANY women have been abused verbally, emotionally and physically because their partners thought they were being urinated on. Divorce and murder is not unheard of.
Please. If you have no idea what is being discussed here or you think that if it comes out "that hole" it MUST be urine, refrain from posting garbage. READ and learn instead.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
but it invloves stimulating the clit, AND the G Spot at the same time..Which most men have neither the attention span, nor the appreciation for his woman to do that...
I think the biggest problem out there is most men and many women even do NOT know about the GSPOT. Not so much never heard of it but don't know how to stimulate it properly. If it isn't stimulated properly generally NOTHING happens. If this happens more than once or twice they assume it isn't there or doesn't work and they never try again. The thread link (above) gives a simple instruction on how to do this EVERY TIME you're with your lover. It works for most women and is simply the basis for continued experimentation and variation. Once you know the feel it is easily achieved ALL THE TIME but she needs to learn that feeling first. After that anything is possible. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/16/2009 8:21:48 AM | | If your 40 and have never, you've been missing out. The people who say no it comes natural, thats total b/s. Only takes an ice cube, a shot of creme de mint and a guy who is brave enough to shove his tongue into your worm hole. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/16/2009 1:47:57 PM | (One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. )
Good advice but I'm laughing so much right now ,.did you actualy get your nose broke like that? | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/16/2009 5:05:55 PM | i think it can be learned and it seems from what i have read on here that it will be easier to learn as you age and get to know your body better. so that's good news for all women.
i recently tried my technique on a woman friend who wanted to learn. we tried for one time but without success. then she called a month later with the exciting news that she finally squirted. i was very happy for her. she is 49 yrs old. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/16/2009 6:31:50 PM | | It's a G-spot thing. It's not something you do, your guy has to know what he's doing to make it happen. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 2/16/2009 9:48:30 PM | I'm back again - I cannot believe the amount of interest this thread has generated. Again, my mailbox is loaded with inquiries...
You only have to look back on Pages 15 and 16 for my posts, Dave's posts, and a few others who have given excellent information.
For those who are interested, Google " Female Ejaculation, the Female Prostrate, & the G Spot." I think that article is excellent for the medical information, along with diagrams. It is NOT porn...and, many who are looking to porn to learn this experience may be sadly disappointed. I must repeat, for those women who have messaged me, disappointed that they were unable to achieve squirting in their first attempts, please know that if your partner has taken the time to learn how to assist you in achieving this, both of you will find it a very pleasing experience. The above link will provide all the information you will need ....and...if two caring partners are together, it will probably occur more easily.
I must thank all the folks who have added some excellent comments and advice.....This subject is obviously worth the 15 pages that have been posted. Don't let the sceptics or nay sayers discourage you....Find out for yourselves!.
Dave, keep up the good work....
Fondly,
Knittin kitten
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NOTE: SuzanneKat....Your settings won't allow me to message you, but I wanted to thank you for your very informative post above!. | |
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| Squirting...this can be learned!
Posted: 2/17/2009 4:55:56 PM | A year ago I would not have believed that it was possible to squirt or have an orgasm that went beyond 30 minutes. But, I met an incredible man at a party in SF last Spring and I've been learning more and more about my body that I'd never heard of.
It took several lengthy attempts ~ much to my happiness before I could really relax and start to trust what he was telling me. When I got to the point of releasing whatever expectations I had about this mythical thing called a never ending orgasm. On my first time of just breathing along with the increasing pleasure I passed out! Too much of my joy was stuck in my head like champagne. Shortly thereafter on another rubbing I started to get the sensation of tetny because I was breathing so fast in short succession.
Last week he handled me with care next to my hot tub with the rain coming down on the veranda. OMG! I came so hard I screamed with glee and instantly turned into a wet noodle. After I had turned the flooring into a creamy surprise he picked me up and returned me to the hot tub to continue glowing. He said that I was smiling like I was stoned. haha | |
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