| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/29/2008 2:06:22 PM | happyrebel, i'm with you on this one.... 42 years. seems to go hand in hand with the high sex drive for me :) no wonder i'm smiling my face off nowadays | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:39:54 AM | For the Man:::
Well its really simple...It is just TONS of Clitoral Stimulation....licking, sucking, rubbing, massaging it....You could use a vibrator and hold it directly on the clit..and go from going down licking and sucking the clit for awhile then alternating to the vibrator and if you dont have that just keep stimulating it as best as possible...Then alternate fingering her..the g spot is located just inside the vagina when you place 2 fingers inside and you use the "come here motion" with your fingers but you just press upwards until you feel a tougher spot than the rest of the vagina that is the g spot..you will press down slightly on that and slowly move your fingers back and forth while going down on her.
For the Female:::
Tons of Clitoral Stimulation...All you have to do is get a vibrator...or if your that good with your hands which i feel is uncomfortable as hell..i use a vibrator..You locate your g spot (the g spot is located just inside the vagina when you place 2 fingers inside and you use the "come here motion" with your fingers but you just press upwards until you feel a tougher spot than the rest of the vagina that is the g spot)then while stimulating your clit..well lubed i may add..just rub and massage and touch the hell out of it till its so sensitive you feel like you cant touch your clit anymore...then you will be ready to squirt!! Using your vibrator you just do that simultaneously sp? with you rubbing your clit..and if you have a vibrator you can use that on your clit as well..what every you prefer...and whatever feels the best...and go from there...just make sure you make your clit as sensitive as possible and let your vibrator or fingers focus on your g spot!!! Happy Squirting!! :)
It worked for me that way when my friend first showed me how to do it...and he was damn good at it....Now i am trying to share with others so they can feel as good as I did :)
need anything else just ask :)
ashley | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:03:23 AM | I would have to say that i met this guy Steve(one of my best friends) He told me from day one that he could make me love him and i wouldnt have to sleep with him nor be his gf just give him one night and we would be friends forever ;) haha funny thing about that he showed me how to squirt!!! He is amazing!! He will go down on me for about 45-1 hr of just straight licking, suckin, on my clit! THats it...then he would bend me over his bed and finger me wildly until i squirted all over..he has a way of doing it HE KNEW WHAT THE HELL HE WAS DOING!!! Then he would lay me down on the floor and use a hand held massager that he got at linens and things....it was a must have looks like a back massager works as a sex toy!! Awesome and easy to hide...just dont let your kiddies or guests find it :) and he would use just that on my clit and that was it...i would squirt so much from just that...then i would get to a point where i felt like i was right there and i couldnt get off...and he would stop the massager and go down on me again and finger my g spot...then go back to the massager directly on my clit and it worked wonders!!! He would get me off 30-40 times i kid you not in about a 2-3hr span!!! He Is A God Send!!!
But personally i started to recently get into playin with myself and taught myself from steve's teachings how to squirt on my own...and i was so shocked the first time i did it...i remember texting him and sending him pics. I was so Proud!!
I have only squirted by myself....i only did it once and had the balls to do it when an ex....i thought it would freak him out if i did it....I told him i wanted to show him something and when i did it he flipped out....was so shocked and turned on at the same time i think he came right there :) I was so excited that a guy could get so turned on by this!!! But i have only done this for him....No other guy has gotten lucky enough to experience it with me :) Except Steve that is :) and we dont even have sex! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:49:44 AM | FBfan.....That's how I learned too....by a good teacher...and yep...30-40 times in a 2-3 hr span is not unusual. Though I didn't need all of the clitoral stimulation to do this-I guess his kissing did pretty much the same thing for me. But like you, once I was shown, I wanted to learn to do it with myself and with my favorite toy, I can -thank God! I'm glad your man liked it because mine was grossed out it by it 
Except Steve that is :) and we dont even have sex!
Hate to tell ya - but oral sex is sex....
It certainly does give one something to smile about, doesn't it?
HR | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 11:11:25 AM | I think you can be open to learning it but only a few women have the capacity to do it. I started squirting at 28 and have never looked back. I have an intense amount of control which took a few years to figure out.
The idea is to relax, enjoy... and don't fight the feeling of pushing (similar to that of urination)... trust me, its not urine!!!
Oh... each squirter is different. Many have posted it has to be clitoral stimulation. No way for me!! Fingers, a certain toy is what brings it on. If I do it once then everything will set it off. My clit is so super sensitive I don't ever use toys on it. So you have to figure out what works best for you. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 11:25:11 AM |
I think you can be open to learning it but only a few women have the capacity to do it.
I think the capacity is there, to some degree, in most women. But like you said, it's being relaxed and open enough to do it.
Since I've learned how to invoke this response, almost every woman I've been intimate with has squirted to some degree. Some a little, some could soak the wall across the room. But all have still had the big Gspot O's...
There have been a couple who couldn't, but at least one of those also had definate control issues and just wouln't allow it... her loss... | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 11:38:10 AM | Yes, it can be learned. As has been stated several times.
I just wanted to say, if at first you don't succeed then try, try again.
This was something I was incredibly curious about so I found a bunch of info on line and forwarded it to my then boyfriend. Which sparked his curiosity. Boy did we try. And try. And try.
So don't get frustrated if it doesn't happen right away or when you want it to. Don't let the quest to make it happen overshadow the experience as a whole. Mostly you learn what doesn't work first, if you aren't naturally inclined.
Funny enough, when least expected, it happened. Haha, we both totally high fived each other. Once it did happen and I realized the muscles involved, the right amount of stimulation for me and the optimal 'lead up to' experience then it was ON. It has been several years but it is something I have control over now and can do solo if desired.
Now I just need someone to practice it all with again. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 11:52:31 AM | Squirting definitely can be learned. Some learn on their own, some learn with the aid of a SO or partner.
If at first you do not succeed, try again and again, remember patience is the key.... and be sure to have LOTS of towels down to catch the "mess".
Here's a few tips to prevent from drenching your bed::
1. Buy a waterproof mattress cover to protect the mattress.
2. Buy a cheap shower curtain and get some safety pins and pin those down to the bed on top of everything else then cover with a big blanket, that way you can just roll it off when the wonderous event is over with and no one has to sleep in the wet spot.
3. Play on a non carpeted floor -- easy clean up via mop. *winks*
4. Play in the shower.
Now some things I did learn though is that once you start squirting it might make you have to refrain from having spontanteous sexual adventures because of the mess factor.
Good luck and happy squirties! lol | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 5:47:50 PM | Sorry, sweetie...I beg to differ with you. There have been many postings on this subject and, if you google Female Ejaculation, The G- Spot and Squirting, you, too, will learn that it a function available to every woman who wishes to learn it. It doesn't happen overnight, and it is even suggested that a woman use the instructions and teach herself so that she is familiar with her own body and able to guide her lover when the right time comes.
Sincerely,
Knittin kitten | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 5:48:49 PM | | This can be learned......I am in no doubt! there are several key factors both physical and mental for both the man and the women, if you pay attention to all of these, it is in fact impossible to prevent! If you are really interested drop me a line and i will do my best to explain! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 6:36:09 PM |
No u can't learn it. It's just how some women's bodies are.
ummm...huh?...methinks you don't understand the question....but I could be wrong....so please explain the "just how some women's bodies are" in terms of anatomy?
wtf? | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:05:48 PM |
(Scratching head) is this an important ability to have?
LOL... It's hell on the furniture... But once you've been soaked and watch her almost pass out from a couple dozen orgasms in a row....
... you'll scratch you're head no more | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:22:22 PM | Personally, this is a HUGE turn on for me!! Better believe that I am researching the subject so that I can give this gift.  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:31:11 PM |
No u can't learn it. It's just how some women's bodies are.
MelloDLyn.....All women are built the same, the only difference might be in the actual size or location of the g-spot and there might be a difference in the thickness of the vaginal wall.
As to not being able to learn it? .......There's plenty of us that have learned it - maybe in our later years but at least we weren't too old to learn new tricks. In case you haven't learned it yet, try checking out some of the web links - they really are quite helpful. Better yet, find a man that knows exactly where it is & can show you. That seems to be how a lot of us have learned.
HR | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:02:21 PM | | I remember when I first started gushing for the first time......It was a wowzers kinda feeling....Made a wet mess....but felt amazing....and then I was determined to master the squirt with all that fluid I gushed out...And 1 night, BOOM it happened.....Now I love love love it! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:38:38 PM | But once you've been soaked and watch her almost pass out from a couple dozen orgasms in a row....
... you'll scratch you're head no more"
I dated a gal who did that, but I have also dated plenty of gals who had dozens of orgasms and passed out without soaking the bed. Hmmm,,, | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/14/2008 12:42:25 AM | Not really sure how I wandered into this one ... Thanks OP for your bravery in posing the question!
I will never forget when I first heard the reference to "female squirting" (within the last year) when a man asked me if I had ever cum so hard I squirted. My humble, niave, simple yet very honest reply was ... "I'm not so sure I have!"  He promptly informed me I would know if I had! Embarrased ... I responded with ... "well maybe not so much then! I guess I have a thing or two to learn!" Of course he wanted to be my teacher ... but that never happened!
My exhusband was a good lover though ... and if I were still talking to the guy today, I could happily ... informatively and intelligently reply ... a resounding "why yes ... as a matter of fact I have." 
But it is true ... it takes a special man to bring that kind of pleasure about with his woman! If both partners are really into pleasing one another over themselves ... it can be achieved almost without fail! So, yes ... I believe it can be learned ... practice makes perfect! 
Have fun practicing!!!
~ keepin it real! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/14/2008 1:33:19 AM | | I think the thing to remember is to relax and enjoy and if the strong urge to urinate comes just let it go. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:12:40 AM | Aaahh.... ahem...
I'm a fool. Never again letting a woman straddle over you while you are doing the deed, unless you are prepared form tons of liquid to gush down your face. Wear a wet head gear! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 3:54:59 AM | aka
Vaginal Ejaculation
It's a medical fact that only 10% of all women can do this.
I thought it was normal but learned later in life is was not.
I feel you can study it and learn how it's done but you don't necessarily acheive it.
You're talking about 15 to 20 orgasms doing this. This isn't something you can
acheive in 15 minutes fellas. This is a good reason why the lady needs to get closer
with herself in practicing this. The man might try so vigorously with you that you
end up not being able to walk from a sore clitoris and you're both disappointed.
Read, study, practice alone at first, enjoy, then surprise him. He'll feel like he did
it all by himself to you. | |
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