| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 7:47:41 AM |
It's a medical fact that only 10% of all women can do this.
cecilia...I'm confused. When you state its a medical fact, does that mean that only 10% of women are physically/anatomically able to squirt or that only 10% have learned how to do it? I thought all of us women were born with the same physical attributes and that it was a learned experience.
I feel you can study it and learn how it's done but you don't necessarily acheive it.
Yes, you can study and learn it. And yes, some may never achieve it but physically, they are capable of it. What may hamper their learning experience is the mental connection with a partner or the inabilitiy to totally let go. It certainly helped me when I met a man who knew exactly what he was doing.
The man might try so vigorously with you that you
end up not being able to walk from a sore clitoris and you're both disappointed
The one time I experienced over 30 orgasms in under 3 hrs, the sore clitoris was not even a factor because oral sex was not done. It was basically the two fingers, the touching & the kissing that got me off. Not everyone requires oral sex to reach this form of orgasm. Not to say I wasn't sore.....but it sure was fun 
That's why I always say "Show me the hand". 
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 8:01:42 AM | | One person I know said that she could when she keggles a guy. It builds up pressure she said and when the guy removes himself the squirt happens. That could just be her opinion. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 11:09:42 AM |
No u can't learn it. It's just how some women's bodies are.
I beg to differ with you.[\quote]
Ok... I know it would be a great sacrifice and a tremendous burden... but I'm willing to step up and take one for the team in order to settle this once and for all....
Bring me 1 woman who can squirt, as a control subject... 3 women who can't, but would like to... and 3 woman who have tried but can't and are convinced it's impossible to learn... or if you think that's not a large enough sampling.... bring more.... and a queen size rubber sheet... and a wet/dry shop vac... oh... and replace the carpet afterwards....
I know it might take a while... but I'm off work another 4 to 6 weeks for carpal tunnel surgery on my left hand... I'm willing to sacrifice what's left of the nerves in my right hand... for the cause... and to keep the peace...
That's just the kind of friend I am.... | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 11:32:11 AM |
Von Erik...Count me in!
OK!
I just got a phone call... RIGHT after I posted that... we have 2 control subjects....
Can't have too many of those...
If there's a dispute over controls.... then we should all wrestle for it.... and if I pin both of you then we have 2 controls.... I'll bring the baby oil...
... all for science... | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 11:43:07 AM |
Thanks again to everyone!!! I LOVE learning new things!! ***No, Annudder, don't say it...don't...***
Hey, don't forget to let us know how it all comes out...
***Gawd, you are so-o-o-o bad...***
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Posted: 5/17/2008 12:14:54 PM | Von Erik....no...no...no....not baby oil......Astroglide......you'll all be much happier....  
I won't be joining the control panel...I'll just wait patiently by for my own "special" man. It will be worth the wait! Of that, I'm certain....
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Posted: 5/17/2008 12:19:49 PM | honestly i think it more about having the right state of mind and being in tune with your sexuality and your partner....
I can squirt when giving blow jobs or just from a good long kiss without any stimulation down there.  | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 12:30:25 PM | Ya know, all of these comments just reinforce my long-standing feeling that "unemotional", "recreational" , "fun" sex is not really what it's cracked up to be (who knows, maybe a "pun" WAS intended).
There are some things that are much more delightful when they are deeply felt...which is often enhanced by love, caring, respect and comfort with one's partner....
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 12:31:56 PM |
Von Erik....no...no...no....not baby oil......Astroglide
yeeeeesss..... I can get that at cost too.... I'll see if I can get it by the drum...
I can squirt when giving blow jobs or just from a good long kiss without any stimulation down there.
....wow..... you want to be control # 3?? | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 1:42:30 PM | eh hmmm....given i started this thread I presume I am automatically included in this effort of yours right VonErik? LOL
Here's the update: Still haven't mastered it on my own, and I am now 10 post op from a total hysterectomy. However, some VERY VERY good progress was made on trying to achieve this with my partner. I know it'll come soon enough.
....can't believe this thread is still alive. LOL Nice to know on my first thread posting i was able to stimulate such conversation.
Keep up the good work everyone and VonErik let me know when you'll be in MN.
as always...just my sassy opinions and comments
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Posted: 5/17/2008 2:25:41 PM | Von Erik...I love the oil wrestling idea so long as we don' t have to wear cloths. I'm not spoiling my fav. jeans with oil.
Depending on the age of your 'caller', you might use both of us and Miss Kitty too to give you a good variance of ages. We can definitely add the OP on here as one that hasn't but if we wait too long, it sounds like we'll have to make room for her in the first control group (squirters). But what happens if those that never have squirted are not able to? Might we need some more men with different techniques?
OP....Sounds like things are moving along great! Good things come to those that wait-promise!
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/17/2008 5:37:17 PM |
Keep up the good work everyone and VonErik let me know when you'll be in MN.
D*mn... I knew there'd be a hitch in the plan...
I was going to suggest that since north TX is centrally located....
LOL.... We'll get a government research grant to cover travel expenses....
We can definitely add the OP on here as one that hasn't but if we wait too long, it sounds like we'll have to make room for her in the first control group (squirters). But what happens if those that never have squirted are not able to? Might we need some more men with different techniques?
Sounds like the results might end up getting skewed a little.... gonna end up being a dozen control subjects... none from the other two groups... not to mention extra "researchers"...
I think we could just call that one h*ll of a party!
Don't worry about ruining your jeans.... I was waaaay ahead of you on that... | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 4:52:18 PM | Would you believe.....I just got two more inquiries again today....
Heavens, you'd think I was giving lessons. ......sorry.....I just know where I read all the great material on this fascinating phenomenon
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/18/2008 5:50:22 PM | I'm with vonEric on this one. The "expert" who claimed it can't be learned mentioned the clit. That to me simply proves she has no idea really what she's giving "expert" advice about. Sorry.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
This TECHNIQUE has been performed by yours truly on a few select women who have never had GSpot orgasms before. Each and every one of them were in their mid - 40's or older. Each one not only had their first G-Gasm using this but enjoyed massive multiples as well. The feedback suggests that the Technique has worked suck-cessfully on thousands of other women who have never experienced it before. This is a good thing.
Obviously stimulating the GSPOT to produce G-Gasms has NOTHING to do with the clit or how delicate and OVERsensitive it can become during stimulation. Even a very soft tongue movement on clit right after an orgasm can be waaay too much for many women. The G SPot can be pounded again and again and the resulting orgasms can all be massive, bone crunchers ... combine some with a good tongue lashing at the same time and, from feedback, women will testify that NOTHING comes close to being as good.
As far as squirting goes .... it depends mostly on a woman's physiology and ability to relax and "let go" during some of these massive orgasms. CAN it happen just through oral stimulation? Of course it can. Just like some women can cum just from a good KISS. They are all wonderfully different. It does NOT mean however that just because they haven't achieved it, found it or been with a lover who knows the techniques that they can't LEARN. That's plain silly. We learn all our lives - if we're paying attention. If we are in here reading and learning presumably we - some of us at least - are paying attention. Besides a bunch of really really good orgasms should be the prize - not an ability to flood the basement. Be careful what you wish for!!
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I'll ALSO vote with Knitten on the emotional plusses to great sex. Crazy monkey sex with a stranger can be fun especially if you're young and too dumb to know there's anything BETTER. I loved the fact that I could tell the mood of my woman (and act accordingly) just by her taste. You just don't get that unless you're in a long term committed relationship and communication and paying attention. Everything else can and IS fun. That can be GREAT!!! | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 5:54:56 PM | AMEN Dave!! Well said!!
As long as i'm getting the prize of fabulous, intense orgasms i'm happy....if/when i need the wet vac because we/i've flooded the basement well, that will just be a bonus!!
And lord knows i LOVE to learn!!! | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 1:07:39 PM | My Dear KK,
I discovered this about two years ago.. Most men are hard & all fired up to go into the vagina, deep & hard. That's all well & good for a starter, but after about 1-2 hours of love-making like this ,go to the "scissor" position, allow a half erect penis to back out to approximately 11:00 am above the famous"G" spot. Stop there & slowly start rubbing the ridge fo the penis head back & forth in a regular rhythym, not fast-not slow..you &your partner will start to "gel" on her ridge.. as you start to feel like cumming, speed up slightly, so as to cause her ridge and your ridge (back edge of the head of your penis) start to rough each other up (the ridges). She will start having orgasms, grabbing & gripping whatever she can- the headboard, mostly). After about 15-20 minutes of this and many orgasms,, move out even more to about 8-9:00 am to the left side of the "G" spot. slowly moving around & in & out, you will discover another ridge-hers. Start running your ridge back & forth the same way as before, same rhythym, speeding up slightly thats when she starts grabbing for something & begins to stiffen & starts squirting more than before. None of this can be accomplished unless you both are in the "scissor position". That way, both of you can be in a restful porition, which allows for great stamina & staying power..  | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 10:16:05 PM | Gemfarmer:
Thanks muchly for the info....hey...a lady can only do so much by herself. I'll save this info and read it to my fella....when he finds me..... | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 10:29:51 PM | | I hope you all get to experience such a great sensation...I believe the key is to thoroughly allow yourself to let go and enjoy the feelings of sexual stimulation. Good luck ladies :) | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/19/2008 11:18:28 PM | I think it just takes a patient guy that knows what he's doing. Or a woman with the right toy. Why do you think I shaved my head? Ha just kidding. But seriously folks...I think most women are capable but have to be in the right state of arousal.
Least thats what I've found in my travels. Some women I believe are just more orgasmic than others. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 5/20/2008 3:58:44 AM | Ah, the wonderful things one can learn on the internet in the middle of the night. :)
If this can be a learned skill, I intend to direct any future girlfriends to this thread, because man thats hot!!! | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 6:06:20 AM | | IMO - I believe that helping a woman to achieve a g-spot orgasm is the best likely path for her learning to squirt. I believe that the more vigorous nature of this type of orgasm is your best shot at it (sorry for the pun). | |
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