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Posted: 5/21/2008 8:52:17 AM | Funguy.......Don't forget, it's just as easy to fall in love with a gal who can't squirt....YET, Just think of all the fun you two will have while you teach her  
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Posted: 5/21/2008 9:01:02 AM | I realized I had this particular talent while masturbating one day and my sex life hasn't been the same since . I have gotten to the point where I have dehydrated myself because I can squirt over and over again .
The trick isn't as much in being able to squirt, as in finding someone who actually likes being with a squirter . I have ran into the problem with 2 men in the past ,and had to kick them to the curb . They asked me not to do it ,and I told them where they could go . It is hard for me NOT to do it , because if a certain spot is hit just right , I am a gushing mess . | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 9:09:25 AM | HoneyBuns4u......I've had the same problem but only with the ex. I don't understand why its ok for them to cum and make a mess but its not for us. This time, I'm making damn sure he'll accept all of me - squirting included.
GemFarmer...That's one I'll definitely try as its only happened once during intercourse-usually its his fingers. Perhaps we were always in the 'wrong' position.
DevilishTexan...You're absolutely right that it has a lot to do with a woman's state of arousal. For me, it also depends on the sexual chemistry.
We're never too old to learn and it seems as though a lot of us didn't learn until we were older....so its never too late.
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Posted: 5/21/2008 9:42:13 AM | | just stretch those muscles deep inside baby and you will squirt i would of thought a woman of your ssexua stature would not have needed help in that department lol enjoy your time and the big 40 | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 11:12:02 AM | GEM has some good advice except that it is HARD (no pun intended) to get just the right angle, depth, rhythm and maintain the required wood (if you're a little older) and not cramp up when you're attempting this with intercourse. The other obvious stumbling block here is that an erection can not put sufficient downward pressure on the GSpot area during intercourse. Many GSpots are "over the ridge" too in other words slightly recessed above and behind the top of the pubic bone. The erection not only needs a bend to it but it needs to be able to exert a downward (or upward depending on position obviously) on the GSpot. This a much desired goal of making love but for MOST of us it is physically IMPOSSIBLE. IIt has NOTHING to do with the SIZE either. Just the angle and the amount of pressure needed for it to work "around the corner" so to speak. It's a BLASST to be able to do it for / with her if you can using just that one piece of equipment however do NOT expect too much success there. Fingers, Thumbs, toys ... MUCH better chance of having to scrape her off the ceiling.
For most of us especially ones who know the feel (hard to find the "ridge" by feel using an erection) of the GSpot, how it is reacting to various directions, speeds and pressures it is FAR more efficient and productive to use fingers or in the case of the Technique described in the TRY THIS thread (link earlier on this thread) - THUMBS. You can feel where everything is. You can concentrate on HER reactions.
When we are enjoying ourselves we DO tend to pay more attention to that than how she is reacting so if your partner is concentrating completely on YOUR arousal then, IMHO, things will work out much better. Once you and your partner have managed to do this many many times then switching to intercourse and trying to become proficient at GStim with that method is certainly a fun and rewarding line of "research."
Ladies who are trying to get there by themselves will discover one unfortunate fact. The G-Gasms are usually SO DAMN GOOD and so exhausting that you simply run out of steam. You can NOT continue if you can barely breath so once you know the feeling it is best to have a partner (I know - easier said than done - why are we all here anyway?) do this for you because they will be able to take you much much MUCH further than you could ever get by yourself. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 12:20:11 PM | You bet it can be learned!!!!! Never knew I could do it, til I learned I could. Lots of communication and a partner that knows thier way around anatomy will be a requirement. That and trust. When you let go, you have no choice in it and you are completely vulnerable and spent when its done.
I spasm for about 2 minutes after the main show. Can't touch me for another day or so after that (everything is super sensitive)......*blush*
I met a girl that had her privates pierced. There is NO WAY IN HECK I could stand MORE sensitivity. I'd need to be hospitalized.
I have 3 spots that result in this for me. But I don't want to do it everytime.....too exhausting if I did.
Hard to believe our bodies can make all this stuff......*whew* I gotta go read my bible or sumfin now. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 4:34:04 PM | | I've been reading the thread. Very interesting. Learn something new everyday. I've never "squirted" that I know of but there has been a few times in which I have gushed while climaxing and made a definate wet spot and if I was on my back at the time felt the liquid run down between my cheeks felt almost as if I pee'd myself but knew I did'nt. So who know? | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 3:44:30 PM | I love cumming extremely hard, but OMG I am tired of the wet spot. I really wish I could control the whole squirting thing. Towels have helped, but I always get wet spot somewhere. Maybe I should put a tarp down on my bed. lol.
I will also never forget the look of surprise on my boyfriends face the first time he made me gush... lol | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 7:39:28 PM | Msg. 86 - Problem solved very easily...just purchase a regular inexpensive shower curtain and cover the bed. Between the shower curtain layer and some strategically placed towels, you'll be fine.
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Posted: 6/2/2008 8:21:40 PM | KK you really are everyone's hero! Always a solution for everything...and shower curtain...much cheaper than the plastic sheets!!
btw...update...houston we have found the gusher here...still working on the actually squirting fountain!! Wooo hooo, happy to be 40 life is good!!  | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 8:41:44 PM | I dont know if it can be learned. Ive known a few, it came with their orgasm, no matter how we reached it, and it was very effortless and natural for them, wasn't me, it was just how they orgasmed and it was accompanied by a whole lot of vaginal spasms, really powerful ones.
Probably, women who are built to go like that but never did, that might pass for "learning" but it's really a potential they had all along, just took a certain hammer to ring the bell and it was a first time.
Others....and Ive known a lot of women ...there just ain't no way it is going to happen.
I have to wonder, though, how come this is all so new? Did women do this 20-30 years ago, too? With women's bodies being pretty much unchanged for so many years, how come this is all so recent.....or is it? Are there any older gals here who were doing this 20-30 years ago?
Also, funny thing, I talked to a black woman once who asked me how and why all of a sudden the white women were getting such big booties? She said when she grew up, all of them had flat asses, not all these big-assed white women.....what's up with that, too?
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Posted: 6/2/2008 9:20:32 PM | Yes,you can learn. I'm 50 and I just met someone on here who knows what to do. I never thought I could squirt but he proved me wrong. WOW!!! I can't tell you how it feels. He takes the time for passion to build by starting with kisses, Then kisses and nips on my body...till he goes down with his fingers and hits the g spot... never thought I could scream that loud or cum that much!
All I know is I think all men should take the time and read up on it. And yes it's addictive... | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 7:14:21 AM | I only heard of this about 2 weeks ago and I can't wait to learn! WOO HOO fun times ahead
I've been so enlightened by these posts, I wish i have found them all years ago.
To the ladies that think only some women can do this, I think you need to recheck your sources. All women are built anatomically the same, as are all men. I fully believe that trusting and letting go is the real reason most do not. I can not wait to test this theory.
Many times I have fought the urge to urinate..... if only someone had told me not to, that is wasn't pee!! javascript:smilie('')
Dave632... your posts were awesome.... OMG Thank you so much 
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Posted: 6/3/2008 8:26:42 AM | Well, Folks....the inquiries are STILL coming in. This thread is getting lengthy now, so I thought I'd go over it from the start and cut and paste the links that have been mentioned so far.....
Here's hoping I got them....don't know if I'm better at "cut and paste" or "squirting"
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
For now, it's "squirting"....I'll have to go back over them and get the rest....here's an example of where I have not been successful at "multiples"
I'll be back.
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he thread is "female G-spot....go to Page 6.
Two excellent, informational posts to look at are:
sexywoman4U...msg 128
Check out Gemfarmer's post Posted: 5/19/2008 4:07:39 PM Some excellent info
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
Dave632...msg 131
For those of you who wish to take the crash course, above are several links to sites that are very helpful. However, I would also suggest that you then peruse this thread from the beginning, because several people have given excellent suggestions that you won't want to miss.....
If I come across any further information, I'll be sure to let you know....right now I, myself, am still in the "Research and Development" stage.....if someone actually develops to that stage in MY life...You'll not be hearing a thing from me.....I don't kiss and tell....when it's personal, that is.....
Fondly,
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:13:37 PM | ABSOLUTELY........I have to admit....I did NOT read all of the responses to this thread but it can be taugh very easily if your partner is willing to endure the sensation of "having to pee" just before she explodes.
Alot of women are so afraid that they WILL pee that they put the kaibosh on it the moment they feel this sensation.
Thjere is alot of sensationalism out there about "squirting" and if you have ever watched clips of women doing this you will spot pissing right away.
When a woman climaxes from g-spot stimulation it is very explosive most of the time and it is NOT AT ALL like a girl who is faking it and peeing.
I have experienced this many times in person and to say it is explosive is an understatement.
If a woman can get past the thought that she is going to pee and just let it happen......towels......and I mean the good kind(egyptian cotton are very absorbant) are necessary.
The ejaculate in question has a whole different taste and texture than pee.....YES I have been pissed on and not thru any kind of kink but usually by a drunk girl who is too lazy to say "hey...I gotta pee" and YES they have tried to pass it off as squirting.
I know the difference and didn't appreciate being pissed on!!!!
Not nearly as hot as a squirting.
You find yourself a squirter and you will know it.
The last experience I had with a lady who had never experienced it was this.....she just kept saying......"what are you doing?"...over and over in a slow,low,gutteral voice and then she went off.
I was fellating her and slowly fingering her gspot.
Try this guys...you will LOVE the response.
So will she.
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:45:38 PM | Usually very rare, but yes, I have experienced this!!!!
Wow, what a mind blower..........................
Up until it happened to me, I seriously thought it was an Urban Myth. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:50:08 PM | | Samra, It is possible to teach yourself how to squirt. I've had the pleasure of being with a few women that were able to achieve it. It's a amazing thing to watch a woman when she is having this intense orgasm over and over again. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:55:31 PM | Knitten Kitten-thanks for taking the time to go through and put everything on one page for us. I know it can be learned and its never too late to try. I think we need to have more studies done on this and more female awareness. If Clinton finds some way to the white house, I wonder if she'd fund a gov't study 
I found it sad when I asked my young 30ish female obgyn about what I was experiencing and she said she had no clue-that was only 2 yrs ago. If the ob's don't know about it, seems to me as though we're in trouble. I had to resort to the net. There's lots of info out there and lots of diagrams to help find it.
OP-Congrats! Welcome to the 40's!
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