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Posted: 6/7/2008 10:44:51 PM | knittin kitten and dave lol i do believe it has become a epidemic.. i think it is great!!it helps people do more resurch oh how to please their mate and in many ways!!there for more spontinayity between couples!!never can have enuff info haha so please keep up the great work!!this is a but good thread  let this puppy roar 10-4.. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 12:54:32 AM | From Pg #6 LIT FORUMS-HOW TO-TRY THIS :
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892&page=6
For anybody who has tried the GSpot technique and found that it works AND likes a spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO.
A good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her two to five rapid G-Gasms and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission AND the GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!"
It is awesome.
Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Give her a few more (slower - softer) G-Gasms while you're doing the bum rub followed by lotsa cuddlin.
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Again people, this is for the adventurers amongst us, those who want to explore their limits or over-stimulate their partners in an AGREED UPON scene. For those twits who think this is advocating spousal abuse - get a life!! | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 5:41:23 AM | Dave:
I hear ya, but I can't agree with you on this one. Yup, maybe it's o.k. for the "adventurers", but, may I caution EVERY man who reads your suggestion to NEVER, NEVER do something like this UNLESS it has been totally discussed and agreed upon ahead of time.
Truthfully, this is not something I consider part of MY lovemaking, and, if any man whom I cared for and was in bed with, did this to me, I would be up, dressed, and GONE in a flash.
Please, men, don't hold a lady down longer than she wants....you may lose more than you gain....Lovemaking is a MUTUAL thing and, if THAT is agreed upon ahead of time...then...GO FOR IT! What ever happened to COMMUNICATION? If you're in bed with each other, you should CERTAINLY be able to TALK to each other, too.!!!
Just MY thoughts. I'd LOVE to hear the opinions of other..... 
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:47:11 AM | Hi there
There is a way you can squirt, ive made all of my partners squirt, if you want to konw how drop me a line x | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 9:58:58 AM | KK ... I think you missed my last piece of advice ... """ AGREED UPON """
Yup, this is probably NOT a good idea for a first date or with a very staid " "ONLY intercourse ONLY on Sat night at 11, ONLY in the dark and ONLY in one position"" kind of lady.
I post in here and on LIT in the completely mistaken assumption that people reading it will use common sense and good judgment. I say MISTAKEN because likely the reason MOST are here is because sometime in the past - they didn't. I just find it somewhat less than titillating to write a short erotic piece as a suggestion to some couples (SOME couples) for cranking their excitement level up a bit and then, like some tort wary pharmaceutical ad, listing warnings and side effects, dangers and probable legal implications of doing this in the REAL world with a partner.
I probably shouldn't concern myself as it's obvious that 99% of posts indicate they are ONLY reading the first one and don't bother reading any of the other posts. Understandable if there are 15 pages but reading the last page might get them with the program and reading all of a post will also prevent hostile reactions based on reading only part of a person's post. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:05:04 AM | Dave:
It's possible I may have missed a key word or so, but I HAVE read every posting in here.
Sorry, I'll read your over again....they are certainly worth it!
But, again I found 5 more messages in my mailbox, so I guess it's time, once again, for me to remind all those folks to look at my Post..#96, which will list all the places where you can find info on squirting... | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/8/2008 11:05:44 AM | Hey,
I think I have the answer to this question. Not to long ago I seen a specail on T.V. in reference to sex. The question came up about squiting. The doctor stated that only about 3 to 5 % of females can do this. I have been lucky in my life to have dated two women that could do this. ( great sex ) I hope I answered alittle bit of your question. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:17:24 AM | | "The doctor stated that only about 3 to 5 % of females can do this"...... I would bet that the doctor has his statistics way off. If I were to go by any REAL statistics, I would go by the Hite report. Shere Hite sends out annonymous surveys to thousands of women and couples to compile her books..... it is very "real world" statistics, etc. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 12:43:14 PM | Don't forget that some of the most modern "research" into the POSSIBLE existence of the GSpot used 13 CADAVERS to look for same. I am NOT kidding here. For some strange reason the responses were less than stellar and the researchers came to such an abysmal conclusion that other researchers like Dr. HINES stated that the GSpot was a certified MYTH along the likes of the Loch Ness munster and the YETI.
Fools.
Other research used University students. They were strapped (euew kinky!) down on gurnies and had probes and electrodes stuck to them and in them and up them and then white coated lab techs (female) ""DIGITIZED"" them. Again there was little to no response from the majority of the test subjects. This is where some doctors come up with the "around 5%" figure. What I wonder is how many horny guys would even get hard if they were strapped down on gurnies with electrodes all over and all IN them and had some MALE lab tech doing stuff to them. No doubt their conclusions would suggest that University males were not nearly as horny as they claimed and they have PROOF.
HA ... fools.
To be accurate I should mention the latest research was using a CATSCAN and there IS now evidence that there is some degree of neurological concentrations in the GSpot area in MOST women studied. The concentrations VARY in size (no kidding? Ya mean women are DIFFERENT?) and they hypothesize that reactions MAY differ based on GSpot SIZE.
Ok. Well that's a start ... better than the other crap at least.
What it comes down to is everybody reading these threads should keep an open mind and go read this thread:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
and / or some of the other threads on this subject. Do your own research. MANY of you will be very pleasantly surprised that HINES the so called global expert of the NON existence of the GSpot is ... WRONG!!
It's THERE and it ROCKS. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 2:36:44 PM | It's amazing how much we still dont know about human sexuality. Mis-information, myths, propaganda, agenda laden truths and non-truths. I spent a lot of time researching out as much information as possible about everything and anything regarding human sexuality because like everyone else I had unanswered questions. Im going to try to be brief but informative. You can believe this or not.
The tricks to be able to develope this ability can be learned by any female. Unfortunately not all women will be able to. I do not know the exact percentage of women that can do this. When you read some site that says all women can do this, that is a lie! The female G-spot is also more accurately known as the skenes gland. It's a collection of vessels and nerve endings that exists in the wall of tissue between the urethra and the vagina. The skenes gland is also homologous to the prostate gland in males. Meaning they are the same organ and develope from the same embryonic tissue during fetal developement. Only the presence of the human sex hormone will dictate which sex organ this will turn into. In the presence of testosterone it will develope into the prostate gland, in the presence of estrogen, the skenes gland. This gets determined somewhere around week 10. Btw, there are a list of homologous sex organs that the male and female share.
Every sexually aroused females skenes gland will begin to fill with fluid. (Thats the hard spot you feel inside the vagina when your feeling for the g-spot) This is the ejaculatory fluid you see when you squirt. It comes from the hydrated cells in the nearby tissue. This fluid when anaylized has shown to have some of the same properties as semen. From the documentation I've researched, the reason the skenes gland fills with fluid is to act as a buffer or shock absorber. Since I never specifically found what it's shock absorbering against, I can only assume it's protecting the urethra. Since sex is a very aggressive activity, a constant thrusting penis could damage the tissues of the urethra. Which could in turn lead to a bladder infection and then, if left untreated, possibly worse. Since we've been on this planet for longer then there have been doctors and antibiotics, we would have had to develope some protective back up systems to be able to survive.
The fluid itself ejacualtes from two pinhole sized openings on either side of the urethral opening called the skenes gland openings. These openings lead directly to the skenes gland. Now that led me to a very important question...since the female orgasm is not nessasary to a sucessful conception, and since orgasm is nessasary for ejaculation, what the hell are these two openings there for?
(I think it's good idea to insert at this point that I am an Athiest and I dont believe in god, and so therefor our sex organs and everything about them is first and formost for reproductive purposes. Anything else that we can discover about our bodies is certainly welcome, but nothing more then just a byproduct of the reproductive process)
Back to the question. After a little bit of research I found the answer. Since the Skenes gland and Prostate gland are essencially the same organ it stands to reason that any ailment that could adversely affect the prostate gland could also affect the skenes gland. Men suffer a condition called Prostatitis. It's a swelling and inflamation of the prostate gland. Usualy taken care of with a sitz bath. Females also suffer from a similar altho rare condition. (I wish I could put my hands on the text to give you the exact name and source. I have it on a disc somewhere)So lets just call it female prostatitis. You develope an infection in the skenes gland. The skenes gland openings are there so the infection has a means of draining away naturally.
Thats the reason why the skenes gland openings exist. But how does ejaculating fit into all this? And why will some women not be able to? Well since we now live in a world thats filled with doctors and drugs and clinics on every street corner, if a female came down with a case of female prostatitis, all her Dr is going to prescibe is an antibiotic. The skenes gland openings arent being used anymore and females are actually E-V-O-L-V-I-N-G beyond the need for them. So they are not fully developed any longer in a lot of women.
As far as ejaculating? Orgasm is a muscle spasm. With so much aggressive muscular activity going on in one area, a female with fully developed skenes glands could easily and involuntarily ejaculate this fluid. So for those that have never done this, go to some of those web sites and follow the advise and try for yourself. Some women have partially developed skenes gland openings which means you might have to work a bit harder to achieve the desired result.
It really bugs the crap out of me when certain special interest groups lie in order to advance their own agenda. The field of human sexuality research has been lying to women for years. Only telling you what they want you to hear. Im not quite sure what the motive is. I mean I sure as hell didnt discover all this on my own. It was all found in books, online web sites, and some practical experience. Which means someone had to know this before I did. Im only relaying it. I do know that some of these research groups, magazines, web sites, go thru a lot of trouble to convince women that they have some inalienable right to an orgasm. And when they arent able to do the things all the other girls are doing they all come down on themselves, or they blame us, which ever is handy. The only things we're designed to do is reproduce. Anything else we can discover about ourselves is just gravy. How many women reading this have never had an orgasm in their life, but have 3 or 4 perfect children? Just because some people can do something dosent mean we're all supposed to. Can we all wiggle our ears? Some people can light their farts on fire, does that mean we're all supposed to blow flames out our azz? For every woman out there who can have multiple orgasms, there are 100 home crying that cant have any! We're setting precidents for ourselves that are impossible to meet. Female ejaculation is just the new kid on the block and all it's going to do is cause women who cant, to feel even more inadequate about themselves then they already do.
And to all you spelling bee champions...POF dosent have a spell check, so lay off about the typo's
To all the women...your all beautiful exactly the way you are | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 4:06:02 PM | I'm sorry I didn't read every post.
When I was in my early 20's I squirted every time I had an orgasm...
I did discover that it can be a mental block... women too often don't squirt because they are ashamed. I believe every female can squirt and would, if they didn't think that their partner (or themselves) thought they were peeing... there is definitely a difference between the two, but the build up and pressure can feel like a bladder release....
Unfortunately I have lost the 'knack' or perhaps it is my partners....
BTW, while I have squirted a couple of times by G-Spot manipulation, usually it was through oral...
I do hope this may help.... I do believe it is natural and probably a mental 'block' that causes women to not 'let go'... just need to relax at the right time... | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 8:01:06 PM | Well, it looks like we've got another learned poster among us....thanks...it's been heavy on Dave and me and a couple of others, fielding all these questions. We look forward to hearing what else you might have to say on this subject....You obviously do homework before you make statements. Thanks.
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Posted: 6/8/2008 9:55:13 PM |
Men suffer a condition called Prostatitis. It's a swelling and inflamation of the prostate gland. Usualy taken care of with a sitz bath. Females also suffer from a similar altho rare condition. (I wish I could put my hands on the text to give you the exact name and source. I have it on a disc somewhere)So lets just call it female prostatitis.
ok I found the information. This comes directly from the internet source that I found this at.
West Journal of Medicine ,
May 1996 - Vol 164, No. 5, p. 435 - 438
Females suffer two syndromes that have symptoms that are very much like prostatitis in men, these syndromes are called Female Urethral Syndrome and Interstitial Cystitis (IC) . Females do not have a fully developed prostate gland, although they have some glandular tissue around their urethras which comes from the same embryonic tissue.
Females with these disorders suffer the same symptoms of urinary frequency, pain with urination, and pelvic pain, that men with prostatitis have. What this means is that they come from the same embryonic tissue that the prostate gland comes from. So while in men this tissue develops into the prostate, in women it develops into the Skenes and paraurethral glands.
The authors show that these glands in women stain for prostate-specific antigen just like the prostate gland does in men. The authors present the idea that female urethral syndrome is caused by obstruction and infection of the glands surrounding the urethra, and suggest antibiotic therapy. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:20:11 PM | ""The field of human sexuality research has been lying to women for years. Only telling you what they want you to hear. Im not quite sure what the motive is. I mean I sure as hell didnt discover all this on my own. It was all found in books, online web sites, and some practical experience. Which means someone had to know this before I did. Im only relaying it. ""
Exactly. I read and read for years. My DD didn't like finger pokin so for years I didn't. It wasn't until circumstances changed temporarily but drastically that I did a little experimenting and discovered that my interpretation of much of this research that I'd read could be applied in a new and wonderful way. When it worked on several ummm acquaintances and then asked several close friends about it did I realize that amongst some of my closest and even wildest friends NONE of them knew about this technique. When I first posted on LIT there was a lot of rude people telling me I was full of it but after 112 pages, 387,000 some odd reads and tons of very very positive feedback it is obvious despite the information being out there, MOST couples do NOT know how to apply it. The Technique has helped lots of couples achieve this and in so doing many report that they have grown much closer and are even more in love than they were before. THAT is waaaay cool. The others who have discovered this, have done their own research and come and post various ideas and testimonials here and on the LIT - HOT TO - TRY THIS pages are GREATLY appreciated. It vindicates our attempts to pass this off as legitimate and often mind-bogglingly great sex. For those who caqn't achieve G-Gasms, I'm sorry. I wish I could type something so EVERYBODY gets there but the variety of humans simply dictates that some will never get there. Life's a bit¢h I guess. For all those others WE are glad to help in any way we can - to explain, to share and to encourage because if / when it does work for you MOST women will tell you nothing comes close to the intensity and the ability to repeat it all 15 seconds later and again and again and ..... | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 7:05:58 AM | One of the little problems on this site is that if you don't do a QUOTE from the post you're commenting on then when you post your contribution in the middle of a thread several pages into the discussion you just look like you're completely OUT of it.
What are you referring to as disgusting? The whole thread? The ability / desire to ejaculate? What? | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 8:01:26 AM | THAT..IS JUST..DISGUSTING...
So its only ok for Men to have ejaculatory orgasms ???
I will leave the rest of my comments out, as up until the above quoted post, this has been an awesome thread, and a very informative one! | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 9:43:48 AM | | I think the 3 to 5% in the real world of today is way to low is a post feminist/sex in the city world – I suspect it’s more like 50% and my gut tells me that most women can and should be taken there. I think from the guy’s perspective this should be our goal/target every time. I mean it might not always happen but just trying to get there shows your partner unselfishness and commitment to her and so I think it can only lead to good things. Plus when it does happen it’s as powerful/wonderful experience for the guy as it is for the woman. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 10:00:21 AM |
Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity.
Dude, unless you are with a lady that likes spanking or stuff like this, I think this goes too far, particularly the part about not knowing. Also from what I hear from people that are into S&M they have some a "safe" word that when the say stop, it means stop. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 3:38:55 PM | dud, dija miss the ""AGREED UPON"" part ?
Yes, huh?
Also the COMMON SENSE and GOOD JUDGMENT part ....
or my next post ....
""I think you missed my last piece of advice ... """ AGREED UPON """
Yup, this is probably NOT a good idea for a first date or with a very staid " "ONLY intercourse ONLY on Sat night at 11, ONLY in the dark and ONLY in one position"" kind of lady.""
So to sum this up: if you're on a first date with MZ Prim&proper then I agree. Likely TOO far. If you've AGREED UPON a little FIRE added to your love life and the "AGREED UPON " includes HER then much as I appreciate the comment wouldn't it be better left to her to decide. I think the massive repeating G-gasms AND a bit of a spanking is a BIG turn on for many more women than you'd probably dream of. But then there are women with your attitude so we go full circle here and return to the AGREED UPON part. If she expresses violent negativism to the suggestion it would be WISE NOT to go ahead with that particular scene. Just G her.
In PRACTICE I'm not too sure they can even tell the difference actually. There is a blending of the G-Gasms and the spanking. It has been described to me several times as just a series of massive and increasingly INTENSE orgasms with the fun / intensity of some stinging going on too but that's kinda lost in the whole experience.
NOT "too far" in my books but that's why we have the TALK bit first. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 4:23:08 PM | | Not sure if "learned" is the right word for it, but I have had a few women who do it with me and claim it has never happend before. Maybe it's just a matter of learning to let go and enjoy it. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 1:03:19 PM | I've got to bump this up again. It seems there are other "disbelievers" on the other squirting thread and I wanted them to be able to find this, that is, of course, if they really want to know the truth???
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Posted: 6/13/2008 7:44:46 PM | Another "bump" for the same reason. Not sure why one of the greatest Techniques known to man for pleasing a woman falls by the wayside so quickly in here.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
READ IT. TRY IT. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 11:56:03 PM |
OK, so I'll be 40 next month and have a healthy sex life. I've had many intense orgasms in my life, however I've never 'squirted'. Is this something that can be learned? Have I just not been with the right partners?
I CANT believe I am doing this lol, I am only saying this because when it happened to me it was the best surprise EVER! And I wish I would've known about it earlier instead of thinking "oh its all fake" But here's how it goes. You get on top, start doin' ya thang! And seriously this will sound weird, but when it feel as if you are about to pee (you are not going to, the fluid that comes out is completely diff from urine. The "fluid" will be coming from a few glands located beside the bladder, hence the urge to pee, but the inability to do so, your body basically shuts off your urine flow, and the fluid has been tested and isnt the same as urine, for all of those with the "ewwwww" response lol) keep on goin', relax but make sure you keep hittin' that "special spot" lol, no matter how much it feel like you are going to loose control keep going! my trick is hard and fast and voila! you have it....lay towels down first though....The first time it really feels like you need to go to the bathroom, but make sure you go to the bathroom before hand, and you will still flow when you squirt lol. Wow I cant believe I just got into specifics there lol, hope it helps...im gonna get sooo many messages now lol.  | |
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