| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/15/2008 2:48:37 AM | | why would you want to do that squirtn is for men and frankly any guy that wants to see a squirt is a bit gay if ya ask me. ive always thought is was unatural .squirtin is for spearm . | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/15/2008 2:59:28 AM |
why would you want to do that squirtn is for men and frankly any guy that wants to see a squirt is a bit gay if ya ask me. ive always thought is was unatural .squirtin is for spearm .
What a really stupid thing to say!
I would lay my weeks wages on you being really selfish in bed, the type of guy who if had company would change the channel on the tv if a sex scene came on....i might be wrong, but thats how you come across in your idiotic post!
You obviously havent experienced a woman who is comfortable with it!
Squirting IS a natural thing...if it werent im not sure we'd be having so many women on this forum posting about this wonderful experience.
I think you should crawl back into your little cave, failing that, get some education on this subject! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/15/2008 4:01:21 AM | | no squirting happens when a woman has passed the point of no return once you have orgasamed and you carryon for more its the foreplay after thats causes squirting also it does depend on your partner to carry on after he has ejaculated itstead of rolling over. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/15/2008 1:50:47 PM | diesel....No one said you had to do it. It's not supposed to be punishment, you know...
If it is of no interest to you, that's fine, but, I suggest, before you get intimate with a woman, you might want to ask her what SHE wants....and, if that's what she wants, maybe you ought to just look elsewhere?
Truly, it's o.k. for you to make whatever sexual decisions you want in life....but, try not to be judgmental regarding the decisions of others. It should be obvious to you, if you've read this entire thread, that, you are clearly in the minority....and, that's O.K.
Just my thoughts,
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/15/2008 6:03:27 PM | What pearlj wrote happens to many many couples but for, what seems like MOST of thewm it is a hit or miss. They achieve it once and it is incredible but they never quite manage to repeat it. They know "something" worked but what exACTly it was they're not sure so it may never happen again or it may happen once or twice more - by accident and then they are old and DIE and .... from my understanding it is even MORE difficult to do dead so ... The initial "research" should be done where you know exactly where the GSpot IS and how much pressure and at what angle it takes to trigger it. This should be done with fingers or my suggestion is using your thumb(s) so you have the stamina to keep going.
This thread will help you do this.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
Whether you ejaculate or not is another issue but if you're going to try, THIS is THE best way to get there. Once your bod KNOWS the feeling you can achieve G-Gasms in under TWO minutes and even better you can then "go for a ride" as pearlj suggests. You'll KNOW what feels right, what angle is best, how deep and how fast. You're only "problem" then is to have the stamina to cum over and over and over again. Most women collapse after only a few G-Gasms because they are THAT intense. That's fine. That's when you throw her over the pillows, face down and go to town with those thumbs again. She will feel like she's caught in a friggin F5. Enjoy!!
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Ignore deezul. He knows not of watt he speaks. I tend to get p/off too when people with NO knowledge of what they're discussing want to post anyway. It's also the height of silliness IMHO to let a lot of potential dates know beyond a shadow of a doubt a) how ignorant you are on a subject and b) how closed minded you are too. And they NEVER read other posts so their comments on the subject appear even more out of time and off the subject considering the POSITIVE posts since the OP's .Definitely truth in advertising but I don't reeaally think that's what he's trying to achieve here. I could be wrong.
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I find it interesting the number of women who say they squirt just from oral. The muscle tone in those women is likely (wish I knew fershure) the determining factor. Prodding the GSpot seems to work on almost everybody else. Would some ladies please post here OR ON LIT - what the difference in feeling and especially the build up to that kind of orgasm between JUST oral and GSpot pokin'. Have you experienced BOTH?
As I've stated before though. If you want to blow her toenails clean off then learn to give her BOTH and AT THE SAME TIME.  
In this case the "thumbs down" is THE best ever!!! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/15/2008 6:37:06 PM | JUST A REMINDER THAT YOU WILL FIND THE VARIOUS INFO SITES LISTED IN MESSAGE 96......
KNITTIN KITTEN
Yeh, and someone already said it....Go get yourself a Shower Curtain to place on the bed...along with some fluffy bath towels, too  | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 6:53:08 PM | and as soon as she's "done" GET OFF the shower curtain. I know it sounds silly but considering you'll BOTH be completely exhausted you MIGHT just fall asleep on it.
DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN.
Nuffin wurst ( ) than waking up in a few hours STUCK together like bugs on some fly-paper !!!
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Posted: 6/15/2008 6:55:21 PM | I don't have time to read every entry in this thread but here is the information I can offer you, but first my creditenials. I do have a degree in biology and I also run my own in-home party business sex toys etc. Part of my job is discussing with women all the different types of orgasms they can have and the best way to "active" them.
1.Before a women can tell a guy how to please her, she has to know how to please herself.
2.Squirting only occurs through g-spot orgasm
3. Best way to find you g-spot stand in heals to help correct your posture, curl you middle, pointer, or both fingers in a come hither motion, lean over the bathroom counter or your dresser and insert your fingers to the are facing you abs. The g-spot is located 1-3 inches up the front of the pelvic wall and feels like a piece of spongy tissue. If you have had an orgasm before looking for your g-spot that orgasm will cause the tissue that makes up the g-spot to engorge making it easier to find that hot spot.
4. If you have ever had the sensation that you have to pee during intercourse, that is a g-spot orgasm. The reproductive system takes over during sex and prevents you urinating during intercourse. Think about it have you ever been in the car and really had to pee and then thrusted you hips doing a little pee dance and that sensation has diminished.
5.Someone women can squirt as little as a teaspoon or as much as a cup. If you don't have a gspot ograsm, but came close any fluid you have produced will be released when you urinate.
6. Best way to have an orgasm is to be totally relaxed and deep breathing. Everyone experiences the g-spot orgams differently so one friend might say it's out of this world and another might just say it was great. Discover for yourself how great it is, just don't let the hype interfer with a great experience that you can have on your own or with your partner | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:16:59 PM | Hon, it won't take you long to go back about 2 pages where I have posted all the sites available to these folks...What you have explained, is, of course, true, but Dave and I have been sharing the work of this post for many weeks and have listed various sites where people can get excellent medical information....complete descriptions, excellent diagrams, along with step by step detailed instructions, along with testimonials from those who have tried it and succeeded.
Many people have already read them and have reported back on here, and to me, privately, that they found this info helpful. This is not to admonish you for posting...no problem, but, you just might find it helpful when you join a site, to take the time to read up on what has been said, prior to posting. I think you'll find it very self-explanatory.
Be careful of any information regarding a personal business....it is against the rules here to advertise any private businesses and I wouldn't want you to have your account deleted for something you did not realize you had done.
Thank you for contributing, and, if, after reading all the material already supplied, you wish to add more, please do.
Sincerely,
Knittin kitten | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 9:37:10 PM |
It's a medical fact that only 10% of all women can do this.
LMAO. That is ridiculous. All women are equipped with the same 'parts'. Contrary to some critics, the existence of the paraurethral glands has been well known for centuries, even in western medicine. De Graaf 's research dates back to the 1670's for gawd's sakes! No, the 'Skenes Glands' are not located on the clitoris, and thus clitoral stimulation does not result in a G-Spot or U-Spot ejaculation. If you believe so, you are fumbling around so much you don't know what you have done. A G-Spot squirting orgasm can be accomplished in as few as 10 seconds with the right technique and can indeed re-occur many many times in sequence. An experienced lover is all that is required. Find a good mentor. It is a routine part of every (yes every) evening of lovemaking for some of us and until fairly recently I'd have to say that few of my partners had ever experienced it prior.
The single largest impediment to it happening is generally the woman's fear of urinating. Men know that you can't pee and cum at the same time. Women don't seem to. Let it go. A soaking wet bed is a badge of honor. If the bed doesn't splash when you whack it put some energy into it! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/16/2008 7:26:17 AM |
2.Squirting only occurs through g-spot orgasm
Nope!
Once it becomes something that occurs with you it can happen with different sorts of stimulation! | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 7:31:00 AM | | I agree with the above.... its not just gspot manipulation. I have squirted fully clothed without any of my genitals being touched!!! I think as time goes on you can learn to control it, or not as the case may be. Mind you the fully clothed orgasm caught me and him by surprise! | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 3:30:47 PM | ""3. Best way to find you g-spot stand in heals to help correct your posture, curl you middle, pointer, or both fingers in a come hither motion, lean over the bathroom counter or your dresser and insert your fingers to the are facing you abs.""
Best way is to find a guy who KNOWS where it is already and can teach YOU. It is almost impossible to provide the degree and intensity of a good G-ing by yourself. You simply run out of steam. If you are with a partner he/she can take you places you never dreamed existed.
and why if you're exploring this G-Thang by yourself would you be wearing heels? Or is that what you meant?
""4. If you have ever had the sensation that you have to pee during intercourse, that is a g-spot orgasm. ""
Uh .... NO! It CAN be a sensation that some women feel as the G stimulation begins to take effect but the sensation of needing to urinate is NOT a GSpot orgasm. Don't feel bad though. There are dozens of PhD's who still don't know if women have a GSpot or not and most of them don't have a clue how to stimulate it properly.
As KK said, it really doesn't take a lot of effort to read quickly through a few of the MOST RECENT PAGES to see if what you're about to post makes sense, is consistent with the thread, sounds really really dumb considering many other posts from people who DO know what they're talking about and / or actually adds to the info being discussed or completely hijacks it. People who post ONLY to the original post often (always?) sound like a DEAF grandmother who adds stuff to a conversation thinking she has heard what the others are talking about and it doesn't come close. Quiet comical if it wasn't so frustrating. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 3:39:10 PM | Yes, it can indeed be learned.
This isn't spam, just one example of educational materials that helped: "The Amazing G Spot & Female Ejaculation" DVD.
Put simply, my wife watched the video and was able (for the first time ever) to squirt. Some of her GFs have since tried the video--and had total success both solo and with their partners. The video is more than just a "how to." You'll learn an extensive overview of how squirting works. Truly fascinating! | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 12:11:42 AM | JUST, did your wife experience G-Gasms with you PRIOR to reading "The Amazing ... " (book or video??) ? Did she learn to do it herself or did you show her based on what you learned? Can she have multiples?
If she did have G-Gasms prior to ejaculating, how did she describe the diff between the two? Was one better or was the combination just complimentary to each other? I've had several different descriptions and am curious what seems to be the most common. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 9:01:36 AM | Read this book and it will go through everything step by step....there is even chapters for the men and what they should do.
Female Ejaculation & The G Spot by Deborah Sundahl.
Now that I have learned how to squirt, I find it can be hard to bring it up to a new partner. You would be surprised how many men love it, dislike it or have no idea about it or where the woman's G spot is. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 9:37:02 AM | You are so right Sinfull,
What is the least bit gay about having a woman squirt for you? Is he crazy!!??
I am so intrigued by this that I can't wait to witness it. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 9:51:33 AM | "" .... or have no idea about it or where the woman's G spot is. ""
Which is why sites like these pay such a crucial role in educating those (apparently FEW) who honestly want to learn new and wondrous ways of making our partners feel like a billion bucks (adjusted for inflation). It's sad though, how few resources point to all the GSpot pleasures for women and how much fun it can be for a partner to discover these Techniques. Because of this and the abysmal state of true research many think all this talk of GSpots and squirting is bunk. Those who have never experienced the sensation or discovered how to make their woman G-Gasm over and over and over again seem to be the most vehement too in kyboshing the possibility that there IS this spot not too far away that can drive your woman clean out of her skull if applied correctly.
One good resource (named numerous times here and on other G threads) is :
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
Long and full of idle chat in places but it also has many great posts and ideas from those who have tried it and found that it does work. the Technique is SIMPLE. The theory is common sense. The outcum is awesome and in many cases it actually improves your overall relationship because of the increase in sexuality of your partner, the self-confidence and the added intimacy of being able to MAKE her G-Gasm until the cows come home. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 10:07:29 AM | I will have to check out this website and compare the two. The one thing I found really good about the book I mentioned is it explains how women actually hold emotions in their G-spot - it goes into a lot more detail....almost like the womens brain...lol. When someone touches their G-spot for the first time it can actually hurt, feel weird (not pleasurable at all), it describes a variety of issues and how you learn to overcome them. I feel that 99% of women can learn how to squirt with patience and knowledge.
I am now running into the problem now, where, I can squirt but not always have a g-spot orgasm at the same time. It can be tricky to put the two together. Kinda like a guy can ejaculate without an orgasm......I'll just have to keep practicing...lol. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 12:33:58 PM | | I didn't know it could be learned but with the right partner it can! I can't wait to find the next guy to date, we are going to learn together! Sounds Hott! | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 3:49:22 PM | ""Kinda like a guy can ejaculate without an orgasm......""
DAMN, an doncha just HATE when that happens?
Have you ever been with a partner who could trigger BOTH at the same time? Clitoral AND G-Gasm (s) TOGETHER??
Personally I could care less if a lady makes a bigOl'mess in fact prefer not ... makes for cuddling and drifting off to sleep instead of swimming to shore and spending hours changing sheets, burying drowned pets, squeegieeing out carpets like the Katrina aftermath. Whatever. Multiple G's AND co-ordinating those with one massive clitoral should put her in a GOOD mood. 
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Posted: 6/17/2008 3:57:17 PM | For anyone perusing this thread.. Mr G's (Dave632) thread over at literotica is ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. Really, best sex thread ever...well worth the 2000+ pages (I haven't finished it yet). Go check it out. (Thanks Mr. G) A satisfied woman is a very happy woman... and the PMS fades away to nothing.
As for men.. well there are ejaculation orgasms, prostate orgasms, dry orgasms, multiples of these...etc.... no point closing one's mind to the possibilities. The capacity of human sexuality is unlimited. | |
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