| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/17/2008 8:05:38 PM | WOW! *very deep bow* Thank you. I would have been humble and thanked you via a PM but I'm 10 YEARS PAST your cut off for " waaay tooo damn OLD to talk to me " (sigh) so I'll have to say thank you for that vote here. I very much appreciate your mention. I hope the Technique works for you. Best of luck.  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/17/2008 8:32:35 PM | | i found it on my x she had never squirted before an just tryin diff things while i was down on her i found that stimulating both the clit an g spot got her off the fastest an made her gush she said she always felt like she was gonna pee but never did though she did say it felt amazing after this i found diff ways to make her get to the point the biggest thing i found is just try new things girls u know when something feels good guys u can tell when she likes it i didnt find it to hard | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:47:01 AM |
I will have to check out this website and compare the two. The one thing I found really good about the book I mentioned is it explains how women actually hold emotions in their G-spot - it goes into a lot more detail....almost like the womens brain...lol.
I haveheard this also. It happens to men also from what I've read which is why it is not uncommon to start crying when the prostate or g spot is being stimulated.
As for men.. well there are ejaculation orgasms, prostate orgasms, dry orgasms, multiples of these...etc.... no point closing one's mind to the possibilities. The capacity of human sexuality is unlimited.
I think you forgot anal orgams. I still think women have us beat in the orgasm department. WHat do you think?
So whichone is stronger? Clitorial or g spot orgasm? | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:06:19 AM |
DO NOT BE GENTLE !!
^^ That is absolutely correct! You might think you are hurting her but you're not....it feels ABSOLUTELY FANTASTIC!
Btw,,,for myself personally, i LOVE the way it feels 'getting there', but i cannot stand squirting itself! Dont like the mess it makes. As much as i love how the building up feels, id rather stick to clitorus orgasms.  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:27:39 AM | "" So which one is stronger? Clitorial or G spot orgasm? ""
The feedback on LIT seems to indicate BOTH are fabulous O's however the clitoral is more localized whereas the G-Gasm is whole body and whether one or a series of them they tend to include whole body spasms and are described later as "like being hit by a train - but in a GOOD way" (WTF? ... but I think I understand).
Again the squirting part is NOT necessarily part of the orgasm. Ican feel good and add to the orgasmic buildup in sensations but from the feedback, again, it doesn't appear to ADD to the degree of pleasure a G-Gasm or G-Gasms produce. As Ripley said above, overall compared to the degree of pleasure the SQUIRTING part is a bit of a negative so she prefers clitoral O's.
It's a pity there is such a silly misconception about what squirting accomplishes. Most guys seem to love it. Fine but if the sensation for the woman doesn't get better if / when she squirts WHY would a couple strive for this and even consider their success in producing dozens of G-Gasms a failure if she doesn't squirt.
A post from the LIT / FORUMS / HOW TO / TRY THIS sums up what many others have posted and IM'd. Kinda neat. Something to strive for if you've never achieved this. Great info to share too.
(BTW 19Jun08 and the LIT site seems to be down - hope it's only temporary)
"" Oh MY Good God!
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i'm just gonna let it all out...
i've never ever cum before without having anything stimulating my clit. I just want to say ... what a ****ing winner. never ever ever felt anything like that before in my life! the man loved it too... i opened up a whole new can of worms with him tho... he now wants to know where i got this from and wants me to get more 'ideas' for him to try. I completely lost control of myself and thats the first time it's EVER happened. he now says he feels closer to me now that I let him take control of my body... and he loved the fact that he did this to me too! I got the biggest smile on my face! i just want to say to end it all... I was really really cynical about this to start with but oh my god i'm now 100% a believer! couldn't get past two tho... he said he's going to tie me up next time...*yay!* "" | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/19/2008 8:03:05 AM | Here's another bump up of all the sites.
Wow, gang...ya can't get a better rave review than the one above me, now, can ya?
Knittin Kitten
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Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11 42 AM
Well, Folks....the inquiries are STILL coming in. This thread is getting lengthy now, so I thought I'd go over it from the start and cut and paste the links that have been mentioned so far.....
Here's hoping I got them....don't know if I'm better at "cut and paste" or "squirting"
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
For now, it's "squirting"....I'll have to go back over them and get the rest....here's an example of where I have not been successful at "multiples"
I'll be back.
KK
he thread is "female G-spot....go to Page 6.
Two excellent, informational posts to look at are:
sexywoman4U...msg 128
Check out Gemfarmer's post Posted: 5/19/2008 4:07:39 PM Some excellent info
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
Dave632...msg 131
For those of you who wish to take the crash course, above are several links to sites that are very helpful. However, I would also suggest that you then peruse this thread from the beginning, because several people have given excellent suggestions that you won't want to miss.....
If I come across any further information, I'll be sure to let you know....right now I, myself, am still in the "Research and Development" stage.....if someone actually develops to that stage in MY life...You'll not be hearing a thing from me.....I don't kiss and tell....when it's personal, that is.....
Fondly,
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/19/2008 8:35:02 AM | Just one thing ... MY msg #131 has nuffin to do with the G/squirt thingie / topic. It is my observation that many read the OP initial post and without reading any of the posts afterwards - even if there are 8 or 2,000 pages - they post something that has either been said a dozen times already or post some nonsense that goes against what dozens of other posts have already confirmed hence making them look particularly ignorant .... NOT a characteristic, one would guess needs to be advertised in a dating forum.
The only ref: that I've made that is relevant is :
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892 | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/19/2008 8:38:32 AM | Its worth taking the time to view the above links-they're so informative. I'd suggest every single man out there that doesn't already know this to read them and also every woman out there that has yet to experience it as it is definitely something that can be learned. If not, why are so many of us 'older' women finding 'it' so late in life? We're never too old to learn either! Just wish I'd been taught sooner 
Just remember, a pleased partner is a happy partner. A happy partner is more likely to make sure you're pleased as well. What goes around cums around...he-he
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| G-GASMS ?
Posted: 6/20/2008 8:43:41 AM | FROM ANOTHER THREAD ...
The poster asked about a little blood at the end of their session ...
""Man, when you get it right it's fu¢king great (well for her ) and the rewards for me were great but I had to wait as she was shattered by the time I finished.
But bleeding? that can't be right unless she having a period!! ""
Yup. Fu¢king GREAT for her, fershure but also for you! There is NUFFIN that makes a guy happier or feeling like the worlds greatest STUD than knowing what he's done to/for his lover has left her a breathless, sweaty, twitching blob and that satisfied loving smile in her sleepy eyes won't fade even when she's asleep and it'll be there when she wakes up too.
Bleeding:
Eliminate all possibles. Do you trim your fingernails and file the edges smoooth so there are no jaggies to poke or tear? The chances of an infection are probably slim if it's just a bit. Wild sex often results in small tears and a bit of bleeding. It rarely result in anything serious. Don't forget that area is designed to accommodate a 13lb baby sliding through. Next time just tone it down a bit. Not quite so rough and see if you can get her to THAT place with no side effects. I'm NOT a doctor so it's impossible to answer without a pro doing an internal. If bleeding persists then she should be checked out by a Doctor. Also if she complains of bad cramping the next day ... you probably poked a little too high on the IN stroke and bashed her uterus once too often. This can result in some cramping the next day and will tell you that you need to change the angle a bit (poke forward towards her tummy way and NOT IN towards her guts) and just generally tone it down some. Great pleasure DURING but you don't want her suffering the next day because of how hard you did it.
Are you using common sense? When I say "Beat it up" - " DO NOT BE GENTLE " that is or at least should be taken in the context of what you are doing and where. It was more of a comparative between dealing with clits - hypersensitive and even more so after they've exploded AND the fact that GSpots NEEEED the pressure.
The faster pace of a rub can sometimes replace a stronger pressure. She may be in the mood one day/night to have frenzied high pressure G-Gasms until she's ready to pass out and on another night a slower pace, a longer buildup with maybe only one or two MASSIVE G-Gasm(s) and a good tongue lashing to add that level of intimacy that is somewhat lacking sometimes if you have her face down, bum up and you're poking her nether parts like you beat on that punk who flattened your bike tires when your were 8!!
A nice slow build up of oral at the same time there is a MASSIVE one building in her G is a nice way to end any session (never make it routine though - never make ANYTHING routine) as she will be completely fragged if both O's hit at the same time and you keep them both going for a few minutes. It'll put her in the kind of mood for the next few days that we all love .... that mellow super affectionate and stress-free attitude they get when they are completely and I mean COMPLETELY satiated.
AND it is a wonderful place for the partner to be too - knowing that WE have the knowledge and the desire to take her to THAT place. A mindset that increases ALL the positives you have in a good loving relationship - on SO many levels.
In case some of you haven't clued in yet ... this is NOT just about great sex. It's about the two of you growing closer (sometimes even "saving" a relationship), more trusting, more self-confident (especially her), more excited - more often (see posts re: OXYTOCIN production), a desire to further this "research" and to increase YOUR pleasure too.
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/21/2008 7:01:45 AM |
I would have to say that i met this guy Steve(one of my best friends) He told me from day one that he could make me love him and i wouldnt have to sleep with him nor be his gf just give him one night and we would be friends forever ;)
SO true! I barley remember the guy I lost my virginity to. but I will NEVER forget the first guy to make me squirt! I never even knew I could do that! But he was so confident at doing what he was doing, and the look of "OMG! Shock that came over my face must have been incredible for him to watch. And the best thing about it, and I have been hard pressed to find since is a guy who's hand never cramps and jaw never locks lol. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2008 8:15:45 AM | im 34 and only experienced it recently ........ several vodka red bulls helped ....trouble is i forgot how to do it lol .... think the theory of being relaxed and totally at ease with someone is true though .. being with some one who doesnt mind being drownded and drenched is also a bonus... luckily my arm bands were at hand x | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/21/2008 8:42:46 AM | If you learned to do it would that then count as faking? surely the art of squirting is a pleasurable spontaneous experience not one to be learned and replicated?
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/21/2008 10:13:54 PM | Well, that's an interesting thought. Don't we learn to do most things we do? If you don't know it exists, the odds are that it might not happen. You can learn why, by reading the posts and find out why many did not achieve it, because they were inexperienced as to what they were feeling, and, unknowingly, stopped short of achieving it.
Faking it? No, I don't think so....Learning it? If anyone is fortunate enough to have a lover who is already familiar with it and can present that experience to his lover, I would think it would, in effect, once achieved, then also be considered learned.
I guess it depends upon what one considers a "pleasurable spontaneous experience"?
However, it would probably be much more pleasurable, if you at least "learned" to put a sheet down on the bed first...
Sorry, the made me say that.....
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/22/2008 12:10:32 AM | [However, it would probably be much more pleasurable, if you at least "learned" to put a sheet down on the bed first... ]
KK - this is a great post and very informative to those that are just learning the wonderful experience of a G-spot orgasm and squirting and you have done a wonderful job keeping the information and links going btw. also kudos to Dave for all of his wonderful information also.
I would like to add that one of the tricks that I have found for the wet bed situation is instead of using a shower curtain, I use a extra long plastic coated tablecloth that is usually around 60 x 108 inches long. (usually around $4.00 each at your local big box shopping center). I use the long part of the tablecloth across the bed and tuck the tablecloth under the sides of the bed then layer with large bath sheet towels or a piece of fleece like you can get at the fabric store and tuck it in over the top of the towels. I have found that this works wonderful as you don't have to worry about things moving around on the bed or slipping on the shower curtain. Then when done just untuck and you have a clean dry bed to sleep and cuddle in. Works great LOL.
As for Dave's question about having a clitoral orgasm while having a g-spot orgasm it truly is the most mind blowing experience and yes the orgasms are different as you have described them but both are wonderful either seperately or together. I would have to say personally that the G-spot orgasm along with the squirting is more intense and a whole body experience even with having a hysterectomy. And I also do not believe that you have to have stimulation for an orgasm and the squirting that can accompany it for I can do it with kissing, nipple stimulation, or just a light touch from my lover. But KK is right when she mentioned that having feelings and caring for the lover involved and "making love" and not just having sex does indeed make a difference in the intensity of the orgasms, at least for me. And yes, it does bring a couple closer but any type of orgasm will do that, and squirting does not have to be involved, although it is the icing on the cake to those of us women that are able to experience it, I do not always do it but still enjoy the love making just as much.
Just my two cents worth.
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/22/2008 4:34:28 AM | Miss Kitten, I would be very grateful if you could send me the links you are talking about as well...you are an inspiration, I tried to message you but it said I couldnt for some reason, ahh well...
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/22/2008 10:46:54 AM | | Yes, this sexual female response can be learned if a woman is willing to keep an open and relaxed mindset and is comfortable enough with her body, but to address 4realgurl's post where she said ** if you are doing it alone, you need two hands ** ... ?? .. WITH ALL DUE RESPECT, I don't know what you are doing 4realgurl, but all I can say to that statement is .. #1. No, #2. Why two hands??? ... and ... last but not least #3... Ouch. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/22/2008 10:59:35 AM | | Liana.....I'm guessing that 4realgurl mentioned 2 hands because one would be working the clitoris and the other the gspot...that would be my guess anyways . | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/22/2008 11:45:00 AM | | ^^ True, happyrebel, I agree and wondered the same thing .. but additional stimulation isn't at all necessary for a G Spot orgasm ... and someone who might be trying to educate themselves might think it was necessary if they read that. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/22/2008 12:48:43 PM | You're right...that's why I keep encouraging those who inquire to read the medical links and look at the diagrams...They may not be as exciting as porn, but it will be, when ya practice what you've learned from them.
(I know this is a serious subject, gang, but, we all deserve a laugh once in awhile.... , just as long as it's not at anyone's expense.....) And, hell, we've found all this advice for FREE and, on a FREE site! What more can anyone want?
Nope, we do NOT furnish practice partners, that ya gotta do on your own. It should be interesting to the naysayers, to read of your success. I am receiving many, many messages of success, and can post them over here, (anonymously, of course, but it would be great if you wish to post them yourself!
KK
We may be creating a whole new market for towels, shower curtains and flannel table cloths.... | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/22/2008 3:49:03 PM | actually allllll women can learn to squirt the one issue is that fear sets in , allow me to explain.....first!!!... im only going by my experinces and by the convo ive had with the partners ive had the pleasure of sex with or love making.......first what i was told by the women .. her mind has to be stimulated, just cause your body is on red alert , your mind could be at luke warm or even cold....another thing i was told , is u have to be able or have had a few orgasms before u even try to hit the squirt button..try riding ontop, reason from what i was told is , goes deeper and also hits the certain spot , most women do like to grind on the pelvic bone , and to know your getting close to a g spot or squirting is when all of a sudden u have the urge to pee.....u cant pee and climax at the sametime.........happy squirting .......  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/22/2008 5:10:26 PM | "" As for Dave's question about having a clitoral orgasm while having a g-spot orgasm it truly is the most mind blowing experience and yes the orgasms are different as you have described them but both are wonderful either separately or together. I would have to say personally that the G-spot orgasm along with the squirting is more intense and a whole body experience even with having a hysterectomy. ""
T'wasn't a question but thanks for the post.
My "research" has indicated that next to dropping a 100kV cerebral-probe directly into a woman's orgasm center in her brain nothing - NOTHING - comes close to the intensity of being able to trigger BOTH types of orgasms - clitoral AND G-Gasms AT THE SAME TIME !!! The feedback I've received on this confirms my findings as well as the other posts !!!
It is so nice to see others posting corroborative testimonials so the folk who think some of these posts and suggestions are pure BS will know that just because they have never discovered it doesn't mean it can't be true.
One other thing .... I've received dozens of emails from ladies who have had hysterectomies and thought their sex life would be pretty much over. I even had one email from a girl whose friend had cancer of the labia and ended up losing her clit in the operation to remove the cancer. Her friend gave them the TRY THIS thread link and after resigning herself to NEVER having another orgasm ... discovered that G-Gasms were not only possible but even better (for her) than clitoral orgasms. She said she actually felt "lucky" to have had the cancer JUST so she could discover the wonders of G-Gasms!!! .. and no idea if she could squirt or not. That info seems SO unimportnat considering what she went through and what she discovered about her own bod. | |
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| A LI'LL SQUIRT
Posted: 6/23/2008 6:03:53 PM | This is from a porn shoot. You can tell by the reactions of the crew/camera-dude that this is NOT a normally observed reaction. What it does NOT show is the lead up to her li'll squirt ...
http://www.yourfilehost.com/media.php?cat=video&file=squirting_****_destroys_camera.wmv
What IS apparent is her physical reaction after she spews. She is completely convulsive with legs and torso flapping about like she has lost all control. She gets up and then collapses again by the window. Even with the camera on her a few minutes later you can see she barely has control of her face let alone her legs.
This " research " is PRICELESS.
The $5,000 camera is but a small price to pay for this revelation !!! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:36:10 PM | I learned this great new way to sensually please women back in '01 from More University.
One hand's index finger is specifically on the upper Right quadrant of her clitoris underneath the clitoral hood. Right as if you were looking straight in between her legs like you are about to go down on her. Your other hand's index finger is on her G-spot.
When you start rubbing her clit and g-spot be sure you've got some sort of KY or astroglide. Spit or natural secretions are not good enough.
At the start of rubbing her g-spot it will feel like tiny grapes on the tip of your finger. When she is nearing her ejaculation it will feel like juicy grapes ready to be plucked. It as also at this point that she'll feel like she has to go pee. The truth is that her ejaculation fluid is pressing down on her urinary tract. When she is literally on the verge of cumming tell her to push out as though she is going to pee....and watch in wonder to her river. What a sight!!!
In advance you should have a few bath or pool towels on the bed or floor under her crotch before giving this incredible gift to her.
The best site so far to reference is http://welcomed.com/ | |
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