| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 10/17/2008 5:08:01 AM | I think we need to define showing skin and raunchy. One man's art is another man's porn. For the sake of this discussion I took on the task of checking profiles from my city. 3 rows of 9= 27 on a page...27 pages= 729 profiles. not all had photo's.....I also checked the profiles of thoes females who have responed to this thread...My findings were as follows. 1/ Of the main photo's only 17 " showed some skin" swimsuits and down the clevage shots. 2/ I found 300 in profile photo's that "showed some skin " again most were the web camera pointed down showing the tata's....nothing raunchy...Damn 3/ Of the ladies who have responded to the OP the only one who showed "some skin " was the OP herself. I have done my duty ...... I'm out | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 10/17/2008 4:08:27 PM | | no i find that wrong and should be saved for if you date hit it off and become bf/gf then you can get into all of that stuff if you wanna. like go for the real thing when the time is right not over the phone or computer lol | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 10/25/2008 6:08:57 PM |
do u think posing sideways in front of a mirror with a low cut neglige' on or laying down with one on so everyone gets the full view is raunchy?...depends on whose viewing the pics i guess.. You know- I read your question and then I did something I very rarely do- I looked at your profile.
I dont know- where do you draw the line and what is acceptable to you may not be acceptable to someone else.
I dont really care what kind of pics people have but these pics are a way of "selling" ourselves around here . You come across as a very confident, sexy woman- I can see why he kept you hooked for so long.
Now as far as posing for a skin pic- if Hugh Hefner asked me I would - If JoePOF did- no. I want to be paid and get all the publicity I can for this skin. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 10/26/2008 6:59:21 PM | The way i look at it, if you have it flaunt it. Some women have come a long way in their lives ( kids, medical conditions, ect.. ) to feel good about themselves, and by having someone ( male or female ) compliment them or drool over their physical accomplishments then good for them. In some cases it can be teasing or flirty which can be stimulating to both sexes. Im sure male or female has not at one time or another fantisized about someone with a severely attractive body. Heck in my early 20's when i was chisled like Bruce Lee, i liked to show off a bit just for the attention. What gets me over this whole ordeal is the women that have provocative profile pics and then write about guys that are players or just want sex not to bother. Thats like giving a kid 20 dollars in a toy store and asking him not to spend it.
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 10/31/2008 9:59:32 AM | | It's all a matter of perception. What one considers raunch may be art to someone else and vice versa. Personally, I think it's much harder to stimulate someone mentally than physically. And if you can stimulate someone mentally, you're better off. So if someone wants to post pics, it's their choice. It's ike the t.v. and radio, if you don't like what's on.. either change the channel or turn it off | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 11/4/2008 1:11:51 PM | One of my biggest pet peeves on this site. The woman who posts pictures of herself in skimpy outfits, in a thong by the mirror, in her nightie, or other posts showing too much. Than proceeds to write a profile indicating she does not want a player, cheater, good moral values, and not to ask for sex.
It is pretty bad when someone feels they have to show off their body to get attention. The worst thing is most of the women doing this should really keep their clothes on. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 11/4/2008 1:24:00 PM | You really need to check your own profile. You advertised yourself by posing with your chest hanging out, what do you expect. If you advertise sex you are going to get customers seeking sex.
Just because you are on a website does not mean that social behavior does not apply. Would you go out on the street like that?
Dave Chappelle did a great skit on this. He was in a club and approached a women dressed very slutty and she got offended because he was looking her as one. She said just because I am dressed like this does not mean I am a slut. His retort was to dress like a policeman and when approached by people seeking help he said just because I am dressed like one does not mean I am one.
The fact of the matter is you took that picture and posted it knowing that you were half nude. You chose to post it and you got exactly what you wanted. You got a guy who said, she is advertising herself as easy, let me try. You actually have the nerve to be offended?
If you feel it is ok to post pictures like that with no negative response than go ahead. One questions though, do you have a niece or daughter that you would let go out on the streets dressed like that? Maybe you can help them with a profile and some pictures.
Your way of thinking is so trailer trash. Do us all a favor and take them down. The truth is that no one wants to see breasts that act as foot warmers. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 12/28/2008 2:25:55 PM | One of my biggest pet peeves on this site. The woman who posts pictures of herself in skimpy outfits, in a thong by the mirror, in her nightie, or other posts showing too much. Than proceeds to write a profile indicating she does not want a player, cheater, good moral values, and not to ask for sex.
It is pretty bad when someone feels they have to show off their body to get attention. The worst thing is most of the women doing this should really keep their clothes on.
I wasn't going to respond to this thread, but I have to.... I feel this way, too. A friend of mine (who I met on POF) has those kind of pics on her profile... and even racier ones on another site. I keep telling her that she is giving the wrong impression to some of the guys on both sites... and she gets mad when she meets guys that just want to sleep with her. She's a sweet woman and there is SO much more to her than comes across in her pics.
It has also come to my attention that her adult son knows that she has these kinds of pics on the internet, and that it really upsets him. I told her that, and she just kind of blew it off. On top of that.. she HAS had men contact her and tell her that her photos make them nauseous... that, in itself, would make ME take them down.
I agree with the poster that I've quoted. It IS sad when a woman feels that she has to show off her body to get attention. Some of my friends told me that I need sexier shots on here and that I need to dress sexier... well, I know that I have boobs, it's quite obvious.. I have no reason to advertise that!! And, unfortunately (?) or not.. I am one of the women that should NOT pose without clothes.  | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 1/8/2009 7:17:56 PM | | I agree with Country Girl.....anybody that wants nudie photos definately without a doubt wants them to show somebody for crying out loud. Nobody just wants a photo to look at by themselves....I would seriously question my mate if he even asked. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 8/18/2009 12:07:49 PM | | Why would you call the police??????? He may have said something that offends your - obviously - above standard morals, but he did nothing illegal by asking. The police would tell you the same thing. I've personally had women ask ME for pictures of the 'goods'. Do I oblige? Sure - why not. Even if they DO sell them or do whatever they want with them, how does it ever really effect me??? Would I know? Would I care? No. First off - if you are sexually liberated enough to share your most intimate images of yourself - have enough common f-ing sense to NOT show your face!! It isnt rocket science. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 8/18/2009 12:14:24 PM | | karenelizabeth68 - that is BS. How can you possibly begin to know why a man would want this type of picture. Maybe he wants to see if she has the physical attributes that match what he is looking for. I have received literally hundreds of nude pictures from various women. I kept them all to myself and eventually deleted them all. I didnt sell them. I didnt masturbate to them and I DEFINITLY never showed them to anyone. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ? Posted: 8/19/2009 12:57:47 PM | wornsole6ya...if you read my posts i'm not just talking about looking at a man or woman's pic and thinking that you know someone just by that. what i'm talking about is how men and women do things like pose nude on the net for pics or even sexual activities online, on the cam. to me, it's degrading them self of who they are and what they actually have to offer not so say at the least is there are some real strange people out there that would save the nude pics to either sell or masturbate with them. regardless of if a man or woman wants to see the physical attributes there's a time and a place for that and it certainly isn't the web.
hmmm, there's this guy, he's a friend of mine that i met here in the development. actually he and i are like companions but i'm not looking for sex and he knows it. anyway, he keeps trying to look down my top, grab my boobs and even tries to grab my butt. i've asked him numerous times to please stop but he still insists on trying his luck. he asked me why, don't i like having my body touch? i told him that outside of the home it's degrading to the person since others might get the wrong impression. i also told him that he and i are only friends, not lovers (not sexual) and my body is off limits to him unless a friendly hug...without the passion. | |
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