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Posted: 4/28/2008 12:47:06 PM | | I AM happy being alone.....guess sarcasm isn't understood both ways.....the way that message was given was in such a way that inspired the fact that it's lonliness that is to be experienced and deal with it. That to me does not inspire hope or a future. I am very content to be me, and I have no problems being me. The world or any one man doesn't OWE me anything, so that was taken wayyyyy wrong and those who know me, know that too. And if 'plugging a man in' would solve the worlds problems....well, it'd have been done eons ago by many ppl but that isn't the case, I'm not THAT naive. As for not feeling loved by a man in my life....that is not my fault and it's just the way it is, and would rather not get into that discussion here on this forum for any reason, I'm just saying that it's the right of everyone to experience love.....from the inside out, and if that wasn't the case....then God would have intended for us to not feel love from him and not be allowed to give our love to others.....so criticize and put down all you want....you have missed my point. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 1:06:11 PM | i believe that thinking there is someone for everyone kind of sets you up for failure, why then if there was someone for you in this world, would you have to actually work at a relationship? if everyone had someone that fit them to the T then why do people break up?
i think its just an illusion created for failure.
you have to make yourself work in a relationship, or to get one. and vice versa.
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Posted: 4/28/2008 1:17:03 PM | post #2 or #3? is so Debbie Downing this thread. LOL
I would LOVE to find my soul mate, I'm with someone now for 9 years and 3 kids and it doesn't feel right. :( Unfortunately I will never find my soul mate, too late. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 1:21:09 PM | No, there isn't.
There are people all over the world who spend their lives alone. Who die alone.
There are people who spend their whole lives running from relationship to relationship, looking for perfection, looking for a "mythical" soul mate.
It's absolutely NOT true that there's someone for everyone. The trick to being happy is to be happy with YOU, not with the thought of you WITH someone who may or may not come into your life. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 1:30:35 PM | in communities that had 200 to 500 people... there was no problem for a guy to find a girl, get married and have a family. The marriage tended to last thier whole life...
Today in cities of 10,000 to ??????.... a guy can't get a serious date... and girls wonder why they never get asked out for more than a booty call.
Such is the advancement of society.
Its not that there isn't someone for everyone... its that everyone wants something that isn't real. And when they can't find the fantasy... they are dissapointed.
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY is no longer taught by parents... or by schools.
Commitment is a thing of the past.
loyalty is for dogs.
People now abandon thier "partner" at the first sign of disagreement or for any other reason they can think up.
Face it... the liberals are winning...and the result is going to be the downfall of civilization.
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Posted: 4/28/2008 3:09:44 PM | > is there really someone for everyone?
What Fred said reminded me to ask... don't booty calls (callees?) and FWB's count in the definition of "someone"?
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Posted: 4/28/2008 4:35:52 PM | To answer your question, in my opinion, yes.
However, that being said, you might not be in the same place at the same time and might not ever meet. ~grins~ You have to broaden your horizons for your search. Talk to people. You have to have a positive outlook.
And I agree with *man4u2xplor* this Prince Charming and Knight in Shining Armour has to go, unless you are a Damsel in Distress, looking for someone to rescue you?
You need not give up, you are only 23. Patience is the key.
Those are the people who do not have much to offer, or can't, and aren't willing to make lifestyle changes.
^^BINGO
*Blueeyedbaldman* I will keep my eyes peeled for you and if I see any women in your area who will run you down with their shopping carts I will notify you. ~eyes wide open~ | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 4:49:27 PM | Yes..I believe there is someone for everyone. Be a friend to yourself first, then show yourself friendly.
"Bingo"...involves random numbers and the right card....two people:
someone calling, someone listening, someone playing.....:)
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Posted: 4/28/2008 5:27:28 PM | I think it's time to join one of those religious cults, you never see them on here looking for a soul-mate.
My answer would be no.
I think jail brings a whole new meaning to this question lol!!!!!
It's one in a million and who has time to date that many people. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 5:30:51 PM | no there is not, but you can improve your chances by doing the right things!
a few examples of things do to IMHO,
be attractive
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get out of the house and socialize as much as possible, make that a priority, not baby shoers and tupperware parties, I'm talking social events where eligible males go, even if it's a bar, drink soft drinks and avoid the boozers and meet someone who can have a drink and keep his face on.
change jobs to meet more men
move to a bigger city where the demographics and better
take charge of your wants, realize that relationships are not an entitlement and you have to go out and reel in your own fish.
ask other chicks for advice
stay away from religion, fairy tales, and marijuana.. they'll make you feel fine but not really accomplish anything
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Posted: 4/28/2008 6:42:32 PM | I do believe that there is someone for everybody ... but I don't think that it's about finding / meeting that right person so much as finding / meeting that right person at the right time in your life and under the right circumstances ... a tough call as it is really contrary to the fairy tale life we are led to believe in as impressionable children.
Who would have ever believed it would be so tough?
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Posted: 4/28/2008 7:34:50 PM | | I think there is one but with one huge caveat. People have to be willing to either settle or lower there expectations. Many people, myself included, aren't willing to settle and to quote a friend have beer money with wine taste. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 7:39:40 PM | nope.
women choose unwisely.
they hate the men they go out with, always whining about them and most often will break up somehow perhaps she cheated on him or he cheated on her or between the two they couldn't figure out how to spend within their means
they do not even consider the men they refuse to go out with but in many circumstances would be more compatible with them if they cut out the million requirements that they eventually found out the guys they dated didn't even satisfy upon finding out about the lies
most guys get their day in the sun, but for how long is the question. women keep cycling among the crud of society and they fool themselves in thinking it's what best for them. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 7:49:31 PM |
most guys get their day in the sun, but for how long is the question. women keep cycling among the crud of society and they fool themselves in thinking it's what best for them.
And I nearly said yes. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 7:57:20 PM | | bitter perhaps, but in recognizing the problem, the solution cannot be far off. i have hope for this world to improve but if everyone wants to be ignorant, my hope will remain only a hope | |
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Posted: 4/28/2008 8:01:47 PM | javascript:smilie(' ')
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My last girlfriend got pissed I accidentally got tea on her when I meant to grab my keys
IT WAS AN ACCIDENT!
Her famous last words :" I fell out of love with you"
Last week "I love you ""
I wont EVER leave you !
Her mother hates me,I KNOW IT HAD TO DO WITH HER!
She even posted a personal THE SAME NIGHT as the mishap!
7 years down the bowl !
I myself apologized,even though I was being constantly "B-----" at ......that week!
And Im STILL an A------E !
You tell me if this guys on the money .
How can ANYONE with a heart or even really cared in the first place post a personal that same night?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 4/29/2008 12:38:53 AM | Knights in shining armor is out now? Guess I better go put my suit of shiny platemail and +5 holy avenger back in storage...
Seriously though there is someone for everyone. Many people don't realize that there truly are going to be some things that, no matter how much you love one another, you just won't agree on. And often if they don't bolt out the door the first disagreement and blaming the other person for the relaitonship turning out "bad", then they will stick around trying adamantly to force their views on you because they are "right" and you are "wrong". Very few actually agree to disagree, and even fewer actually are willing to underand that they were only looking at one side of the coin and are willing to change their beliefs a little. Yet it seems to be a common theme on the forums of how people are trying to do the impossible by expecting more love, trust, respect, etc. from the other person than they are willing to give. They say "Oh that person doesn't trust me, I'm so crushed" Usually the majority of responses are a continuous bashing of the person that is not there to give their side of the story, thus reinforcing the posters belief that they are the "victim" in relationships. Then you as the poster if they trust the other person and it goes something like "Well.... uhh... no because..." and they trail off on a whole list of reasons to justify their belief that they somehow "deserve" and "should" be able to expect more than they are willing to give which is just insane... | |
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Posted: 4/29/2008 12:42:48 AM | | No there isn't someone for everyone, this isn't a fairytale baby. Relationships are about who has the power. It's all political. If you want to control some dude, then get your life game up, get in shape, and get the money. If not, prepared to get trampled because the competition is fierce. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2008 1:09:08 AM | | A true best friend/old girlfriend, told me that when she was looking she only found head aches, but when she stopped looking she found me. And yes we are still best friends. So don't give up just don't spend all your time looking, and maybe the right person is right before your eyes. One thing to remember is to love thy self first and foremost. May love find its way to your door. This is funblklover saying : Love is a two way street and you control the stop lights so have fun. :) Good luck and let me know how things work out. | |
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