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 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
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All I can say is... I really dont make a lot of sound, but i've only had the experience of masturbation. If sex is anymore intense than masturbation at all, I think when I finally do have sex, my head will explode...

It may explain why I've avoided women so much. Hmm
 steveemac
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 27
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 5/1/2008 9:43:32 AM
**If sex is anymore intense than masturbation at all, I think when I finally do have sex, my head will explode...**

From my own experience: if the first time you have sex is just a sexual encounter, you'll find that it isn't all that different from masturbation at all.
However, the first time you have sex with someone that you genuinely have feelings for, yes, your head -and your heart- will genuinely feel like it's going to explode! And believe me, you'll be more than happy to wire up the dynamite for another go!
 Gypsygirl29
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 28
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 5/1/2008 8:02:24 PM
meteor - you are asking the wrong person. I've only watched it being done a couple of times. Google bdsm and sounds, you might find something online. DO NOT attempt it without contacting someone experienced, otherwise you can do some permanent damage. It is considered one of the more extreme and dangerous types of play in bdsm. So seriously, if you're interested, do a lot of research and learn from someone who has done it before.
 john.duke12
Joined: 4/25/2008
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Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 5/1/2008 8:11:12 PM
Meteor don't do it. Seriously it sounds stupid and unlike prostate massage which actually decreases the risk of prostate cancer that will do nothing except maybe increase the risk of penile cancer.
 Mystral13
Joined: 12/29/2007
Msg: 30
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 5/1/2008 8:19:28 PM

Its not unheard of for men to have orgasms that last 2-5 min with proper prostate stiumulation.

Ahhhhhhhhh...... and so can women... AND... more than once or twice in a night...
 tronvillain
Joined: 8/19/2006
Msg: 31
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 5/1/2008 8:37:27 PM
And yes, prostate stimulation is great, but it doesn't seem to produce anything like the kind of orgasms I have seen many women have. *chuckle*
 Blargal
Joined: 11/4/2006
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Posted: 5/1/2008 11:03:55 PM
I wasn't going to post on this thread till I saw a comment on sticking a metal rod up a mans penis. All I can say is...No..no..no..nonono NO way in heaven or hell am I ever gonna go that far to experiance a mind blowing orgasm lol. I mean the prostate thing i've experianced a few times with myself in that area but with no success i'm fully content letting a woman play around there if i'm comftorbal enough with her, then again lets just say I lack a lot of experiance with the other sex thus far *shrugs* mabey one day lol.
 Gypsygirl29
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 33
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 5/2/2008 12:11:03 AM
It amazes me how people are afraid of things that they don't know about. If you work with some one who knows what they are doing, these things are safe. Don't diss something you've never tried. I understand if it's not your thing, but a lot of other people are into it. With caution and care, it IS safe.
 lady_bugg65
Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 34
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 5/2/2008 1:35:45 AM

believe that men are turly more blessed in the orgasms


I believe that you are bonkers....

so is it a competition then...?...shall we race...?....okay, ready...set...go..........

whose got the egg timer, I'm takin' this guy out in less than 2 minutes............!

oh wait...unless its an endurance thing....?...just let me grab my leather....
 resurrection shuffle
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 5/2/2008 1:50:56 AM
^^^^^^

i believe that you are a hoot.... i nearly peed myself reading that.....i also believe the op is "turly"off his trolley...








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 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
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Posted: 5/2/2008 11:38:31 AM
Ok Gyp! Thanks.
Actually, I wondered why it was supposed
To be such a rush since being cathetered is such
a pain in the ....ahem

Anyway, I would never resort to chancing my
'jewels' to risky business.
 smhrgs3000
Joined: 7/7/2008
Msg: 37
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 7/31/2008 10:55:25 AM
All I know is that yuo ladies can just keep cumming, cumming, and then cum some more.You know, like trains in grand central station...choo choo choo...WOO..WOO. But for us guys, especially the ones on the downhill side of 30, it's just a one, maybe two ring circus at best. However, there's still some really good stuff happening under that "big top"
I'm telling ya, it just ain't fair, LMAO.
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 54online
Joined: 1/27/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2008 1:53:06 PM
"Why does it have to be a competition?"
^^^^^^^^^
what he said.....

and if we believe it has to be a competition, who gets to judge ? the men or the women ?

one possible explanation for the thought of women having better orgasms is some have the ability to have multiple orgasms on a fairly routine basis (although, not in my house - she gets too sensitive after one)...
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
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Posted: 7/31/2008 2:01:40 PM

Its not a competition. But I hear women citing their orgasms as an example of their superiority over men.

It's not?



Crap, no wonder they keep running away!
 Dr. Gazebo
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 40
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 7/31/2008 4:07:54 PM
SIMPLE;

They have mULtiple OrGasmssss....

Tell me guys, wouldnt you give your left arm for that???

Multiple
Orgasms
O
M
G

I want, I need, I have to have...

Multiple Orgasms...

Just THINK of the possiblities....3 way anyone?
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 8/1/2008 9:30:28 PM
Is there such a thing as a lousy orgasm???? The worst I can remember was wonderful.
 sireel
Joined: 4/13/2007
Msg: 42
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 8/2/2008 9:22:44 PM
Lets face it. Women ARE sex, while men just HAVE sex
 rebel777
Joined: 3/22/2007
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Posted: 8/2/2008 9:52:03 PM
woman have orgasms???WTF
kegals,kegals,kegals..sorry cannot go to work today my girlfriend will not release my XXXX...
 grapevine
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 8/3/2008 6:38:06 AM
Well, OP, to sum in up in an analogous manner:

Have you ever had an itch.... wayyyy far down in your ear canal?

And it was a maddening, horrible, terribly bothersome itch?

And so you took your finger and started gently scratching it,

Then probed your finger in deeper and deeper,

And, after a time, of intense probing and pushing your finger in and out, finally removed your finger?

Well, which felt better afterward? Your finger, or your ear?




Don't touch this! Na na na na na...na na ...na na! Banana time!
 ketch
Joined: 8/24/2006
Msg: 45
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 8/3/2008 7:35:27 AM
Having had not one but two women lovers who could experience a 15 minute orgasm, I think the women have the advantage

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 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 8/3/2008 7:41:51 AM

Seriously it sounds stupid and unlike prostate massage which actually decreases the risk of prostate cancer that will do nothing except maybe increase the risk of penile cancer.


And your statistical backup on this is where??? Fear mongering at it's finest until you can back up what you say. I've done a lot of research into this and not once have I come across anything like that.

Sounds, unlike catheters, are only inserted into the penis and not into the bladder. Well, in most cases not into the bladder. They are also not left in for extended periods of time like a catheter. There is lots and lots and lots of lube used, like for anal play. The sounds are sterilized prior to play so as to reduce the risk of infection. There are many styles of sounds used, but they are primarily made from surgical grade stainless steel.

Some men find that stimulating the urethra to be very pleasurable. Ever had a gf stick her pointed tongue into you during a blow job?? If yes, did you like it? If no, should try it.
 john.duke12
Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2008 4:27:23 PM

Having had not one but two women lovers who could experience a 15 minute orgasm, I think the women have the advantage


And the aneros is known to allow men to have orgasms for hours at a time. A few guys claim they get them just by contracting their muscles with their pants on. Imagine a full bodied orgasm at will. I need to look into that. We're equal or men have the advantage.
 grapevine
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 8/3/2008 6:09:30 PM
"And the aneros is known to allow men to have orgasms for hours at a time. "

Fine with me, so long as you can still take out the trash and mow the lawn.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 8/3/2008 6:14:57 PM
RE: First post.

lol Self delusion takes a new turn... >_>
 billinmi
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:41:31 PM
Robert Schimmel said it best. As it is building it feels like you can fire like an anti aircraft gun, but most average guys (not in porno films) could not hit the floor if they aimed straight down.

In all honesty, I have had some good ones, but not once has my feet and head been the only things touching bed while rest of body pulsating while screaming phrases calling to our Maker. And I have seen THAT many times.

Ladies that think I'm full of it. Consider a technique where a guy can massage g spot and clit at same time with same hand and then after several minutes produce a 10-15 second spasm in that arm as many times as needed.
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