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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 5/1/2008 9:17:18 AM |
like there exists very many men that haven't been with more than a dozen women in the 45+ category. Actually, if I add them all up, I'm still short of that "magic dozen."
I've never much cared for the "one night stand," maybe that's the "problem." I don't think sex gets really good without a good deal of practice; to me, good sex is much more satisfying than a lot of sex. | |
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:25:57 PM | At my age, I would worry about any person that has slept with just one person, unless they are still with that one and never strayed, and that I would compliment them on......
OT.........Your past is just that when it comes to lovers, and what you should really be concentrating on is the one you are with........and hopefully make that the last you will ever want or have.......
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 5/4/2008 8:51:15 PM |
Ok now we have made this wonderful man out to be "Christ" he is divorced..something wasnt working? Back to him...sister, all i can say is best of luck. I truely hope you make a good decision.
texgent01...I'm confused. Where was it stated that the man the OP is referring to is divorced? It could be he is widowed. Even if he was divorced, you're saying that he is to blame for what went wrong and is not relationship material? Aren't you divorced? Couldn't we say the same about you?
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 5/5/2008 12:54:30 PM | It's sad to read that the OP is wary of someone who has only been with one partner - sure fits a stereotype. But stereotypes are made to be broken.
Could be that he is a wonderful sex partner, but you're not willing to see? Perhaps he's learned to be an amazing, giving lover because he was with someone he loved. Or maybe he's ready to explore and is open to all sorts of adventures.
Bottom line is that it doesn't matter if he's only had a single lover. Even if that wasn't a great sexual relationship, he could be at a time in his life when he totally clicks with the next woman and it's all perfect. There are no guarantees even if he's slept with multiple women - as others have noted, someone can keep being bad even if they've been with a number of women. On the other hand, a long marriage of 'so-so' sex can leave someone eager to rev it up. | |
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 5/5/2008 3:38:24 PM | OP - I'd be be a cynic and probably not believe he's slept with one partner, unless his job application listed "Monk". What a load of crap, and that would be my belief. Ok, if he has lived with his Mom all of his life, I might believe it.
I don't want a man who has beded 1000 women in his life, but if he's 47 and has 1 partner, I'd probably sleep with 1 eye open around this dude. | |
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 5/7/2008 6:46:14 AM | I would see it as a red flag if she'd been with a dozen or more men.
I am with some of the others on this one. Maybe if they are in their 40’s to 50’s and married right out of high school along with staying faithful for 20-30 years before divorce or widowhood there may be those with under a dozen.
This “dozen” criteria doesn’t really jive with so many of the males advocating around here to have sex as soon as possible unless they are tired of the ladies telling them no for decades. It also doesn’t jive with all the “claims” of how so many nymphos are just falling all over themselves to sleep with them on first dates but again, wouldn’t be surprised if this was also a lie to convince the “nice” ladies they need to “loosen up”.
I really found this one funny because in many circles I am what would be considered one of those dreaded “good girls”. I kind of like these numbers and I can now rebuke anyone that tries to put the “prude” label on me in the future. Can’t speak for all the other ladies but there are a few on this thread that would probably be some nice notches to add.
I guess a few of the others along with myself also can’t be classified in the “women bail on men as soon as they can” mentality that I see so often these days. I also stayed in a marriage longer than I should have to try to get it back on track.
I personally think you have to go with your gut and how someone actually treats and behaves with you along the way rather than what is in their past . You can’t go by numbers excessively low or maybe even excessively high in partners, years married or even not married to determine how well a person will fit with you.
Anyone from outer space, bad, good or even quick draw MaGraw will show their true colors sooner or later, MaGraw the soonest of course. Being good in bed doesn’t always mean a lot of different partners, sometimes it’s the opposite. A series of one night stands can also imply not good enough for another round. | |
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