| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 12:30:47 PM | Let me see... free room and board, and all a guy has to do is perform sex?
Maybe some guys are into that, personally I'd have to run away shrieking from any woman who actually found that desirable. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 12:48:13 PM | My city is FULL of women who do this....and it's sad and scary....and not all of them are older women....and a great many of them have children living at home, or barely have enough to care for themselves.... | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 5:09:21 PM | There are some women that desperate...
I'm sure its not the majority in your age bracket though.
Tell the scammers who want to play gigilo that they aren't well enough equipped to be worth it.
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 5:13:43 PM |
My city is FULL of women who do this.
Really? I can't imagine why a woman would even consider responding to such a request. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:06:13 PM | I know that I have to beat off all those young women that would like for me to pay for them, take care of them, keep them in the life style they truly want, and make sure all their needs are taken care of.........I think it is called a "mid life crisis"..........or maybe a second marriage???????........... 
OT......It is so nice to know that equality is creeping in more and more when it comes to dating and who takes care of whom, why, and how it is done......... 
Just my opinion.......  | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:20:47 PM | | The only problem with those boytoys, you usually have to train them and sorry too old to be a trainer!!!!!! | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:25:52 PM | | LOL Just got a message from a 37 year old that is volunteering to be FWB to an older woman. I'm suspecting he thinks I have the benefits to give. LOL LOL Do you think he wants to share my Medicare. Come to Mama ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ NOT | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:30:37 PM | Does he look like the marlboro man Gal? lol
knew that would get you Gal lol....funny how things carry over from thread to thread | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:39:45 PM | LOL IF he did do you think I would be posting here.........Id be on IM or the phone by now.
Maybe starting the car!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 7:25:01 PM | Golconda, I've asked some of the women I know who are doing this, and here are some of the things I've heard....the ( ) are my retorts.
1. "I'm not getting any younger", if the man is younger than her (Well, neither is he!)
2. "You have to do 'something extra'.....there's so much competition out there!" (You don't have to "compete" with anyone if you take yourself out of the "game")
3. "It's better than being alone" (Honey, let me tell you....you can be with someone, and still be "alone")
4. "Black men outnumber black women in this town 2 to 1" (true), and if I don't,
someone else will." (Let her, then....and since that is the case, why are you only
dating black men......men come in all colors!)
5. "I've been without a man for sooooooo long -- my family is starting to think I'm a
lesbian. -- and momma (or daddy, or sister, or brother) say that people are
starting to talk." (Let them think what they want.....they sound like a bunch of
homophobes to me!)
Bottom line is that some people will try to "buy" lots of things that they can't afford (financially and emotionally) because they have low self-worth, and it's just easier (for them) to cover up the major problem instead of dealing with it, because, as I've said before, introspection can be a very painful thing. But a wound can't heal "clean", if we stitch it up and let it fester.
That's just one woman's take on it.
Peace and Blessings | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 7:59:40 PM | I think I'd be bored to death having someone take care of me, might have to start drinking just like my ex-wife (she didn't work a day in 18 years but she sure did like to spend along with the drinking) | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 8:29:40 PM |
...It Usually it starts with.."I am changing what I seak in my choice of ladies. Am leaning towards a more stable, professional type woman". You do the translation on that one
...Yeah well I'm leaning towards my night stand drawer, and batteries are so much cheaper...adios...."Hi Ho Silver"
...maeflowers
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/1/2008 9:22:02 PM |
I know there might be some desperate women out there but are there really that many?
Just when I think I have heard the most outlandish request there always seems to be one even more outer space then the last one. I have asked men that have made what I view as somewhat unusual "offers" to me if women have been stupid/gullible/desperate enough to take them up on these offers. They don't usually bother me after that. I suspect that wasn't the answer they wanted. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 9:40:06 AM |
Loucinda, your profile says that you don't care about a man's age, looks or income as long as you are interested in the same thing. Perhaps the guys that are reading that are assuming that the one thing you are interested in is sex. You might want to clarify what you are looking for in your profile. ......Perhaps stating that you aren't looking for a purely sexual relationship will help weed out the gigolos. Good luck!
Exactly. I probably would not even consider staying over at a widow's home. It would be just too weird. Animal instinct or whatever you want to call it, males keep to their own territory; that's why I have my own house. You have run into some strange guys. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 10:08:27 AM | OK I heve to ask...................
fifties forever.........why would you find it wierd to stay over at a widows home?
I mean if you were in a relationship with a woman that has been widowed......would it not follow that you would eventually want to spend the night? | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 10:58:27 AM | Ya mean all you gals didn't go flooding into the workforce and take all those high-paying jobs away from perfectly fine decent and deserving men so you could be someone's nice loving breadwinner?
I'm shocked.
No, I mean, schlocked... but only if you're rich ugly and old.
(-and really I meant "shlonged" but sometimes the Pun Gods just aren't with you...) | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 11:16:06 AM | | and then you men turn us into stepford wives lol | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 11:53:13 AM | ^^^^ Funny you mention that, I just watched that last night on TNT or TBS or something.
fifties forever.........why would you find it wierd to stay over at a widows home?
Sounded to me like the poster thinks it is creepy to stay or live in the “marital” home of the now deceased hubby??? | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 11:58:10 AM | Well news for him............not all widows live where they did with their husbands.
I'd rather stay over where a widower was with his wife, than with a divorced man. Oh wait the divorced man wouldnt be in the home..........the wife got it in the divorce lol | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 2:09:48 PM | | Sugar mum ? I need one ! | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 3:29:03 PM | Well - it works for quite a few men throughout the ages so why wouldn't work for a few women now. As long as it is mutual - they aren't hurting anyone. But I can't see it happening over the internet.
Now on the other hand, I've received emails as well and it felt creepy. You just know they are lurking on sites and emailing every new person of the right age. Yuck. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 4:28:11 PM | | Maybe he want to get out of his Mommy & Daddy's house... or maybe they kicked him out... | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 5/4/2008 8:52:11 AM | | Yep, Maeflowers, batteries are so much cheaper, and as for that other "device" that uses the batteries, at least you know where it's been........ | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:01:21 PM | So? when a younger man e-mail an older women, does it mean that older woman will be a sugar mommy? Well, ok all those younger men who e-mail me watch out , I cant be a sugar mommy to you, I am looking for a man who can support himself with out my help lol. Most e-mail I get are from younger men, but I answered them that they are way too young to be involving with this old lady lol.  | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:48:53 PM | | I had a toyboy for several years. I was gone so much, I needed someone to care for the dogs and take care of things around the house. It worked out great. He was in school, and then internship, so he had very little money. I never thought to make sex part of the deal. I'm so danged stupid! I had him right there, and wasted it. | |
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