| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/4/2008 12:08:20 AM | | BWAHAHAHA - too funny!!!! | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/4/2008 12:34:11 AM | Yes, there are that many. After being on the Internet for the last 8 years, I am amazed at what some women will do to get 5 seconds of attention from a man, any man. Sad but true. They are also the ones making posts about WHY???? did he do this or that to me after I gave him EVERYTHING!!!!
Running scams use to take some time and energy, you can to go out and put on a whole big thing, etc., now all you have to do is sit in your underwear on the Internet and many will rush to you to be scammed and lied to and believe anything you tell them, for the attention they get out of it.
And it's not gender specific, lots of women out there are scamming men, lots of men will fall for anything if they think an attractive women wants them or needs them. It's crazy! And I said some, certainly there are many more who are not so easily taken. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/4/2008 2:56:27 PM | | I will never understand anyone who could do this . I have way too much respect for myself. You work together for your home , vehicles etc... and sex should never be a bargaining chip. Anyone who would do this is worthless just my humble opinion | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/4/2008 3:35:43 PM | I met a guy on here who lived one town over, we talked for a few weeks and then he rode his bike over to met me one afternoon, got to drinking to much and started telling me how cold he had been that winter. When I asked why he explained ...he lives in a RV camper...drives an old truck. He explained it that when he mets a woman around his age they already own a house, furniture etc so he just pulls up outside and moves in with her, then when it doesnt work out he loads up his motorcycle in his truck and hooks the RV and away he goes.
Another guy on here lives with roommates, sleeps on an airmattress...they dont come right out and tell you that is what they are looking to move in with someone and have them take care of them. They do the same old tired lines "You are the type of woman I COULD fall in love." I know if you hear it on the first or second date it is a line or they have no concept of love.
I think I would have preferred someone who out and out asked vs tryin to pretend they are something they arent, both of these guys told me how much they loved their profession (one was in sales and the other an engineer)...then I noticed the hours that they were on and ends up in the end they both admitted they didnt work. | |
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| sugar mommy?
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| sugar mommy?
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/5/2008 3:29:36 AM | | As i read through this i remember how many times i was expected to pay unexpected bills,one woman showed me 1,100$ past due electric bill one month after we started seeing each other,then wanted 1,500 a couple of months after that for summer day care for her son,as a man i have always been expected to come up with the cash to solve the problems of any women i was with...all without batting an eye or so much as a speck of hesitation...if a man had done it to them he would be a "bum"...add to this all the expenses of dating which of course i was expected to pay as well,trips,dinners which when she brought her kids could be as much as 150 $ or more | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/5/2008 7:38:19 AM | Sapphire eyes, the next time a man tells me he owns an RV, I'm gonna cringe! That is just too wild.....too, too, wild........ | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:11:47 AM | | I don't have a RV or a camper . a tent well that way to old . NOT in the 20's anymore . With gas prices as high as they are . and you live in smae town . I would ride bike to see you . Yes , I am looking for a sugar mommy . I move -in and the woma takes care of me . what ? men have done all the time . so why can't the woman take care of the man . | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:32:29 AM | | PSSSSTTTTTTTT Mr. catman...get off the floor and pay attention...........I was married for 37 years and always worked. Not only that, I was a mother, veternarian to the pets, caretaker for my alcoholic husband, homemaker, yard person, worked 2 jobs most of the time,sports mom,etc etc etc.........no one EVER took care of me......................didnt need it then........dont need it now..............and I'm not into supporting anyone else. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/5/2008 10:11:17 AM | I really dont get how men justify things by saying I did this for someone before...so... no one made you, you made the choice to pay for things for other people. Don't pay for something and then whine about it. We are talking how some men want a woman to pay for them and how we all think they are losers...you have the right to think a woman who wants this is a loser to!
The stay at home mom's have the hardest job and the most productive job in the world...nothing against mothers who work (I worked). Some men want to have someone in their life that doesnt work as a social status for themselves and some women want to be taken care of that way...each person is different.
But when a man who hasnt supported a woman offers up the fact that other men did in fact take care of a women it is just so lame!!!!! | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/5/2008 2:56:37 PM | | Yeah....like when women crow about how much they "give" all the time and then "he" did this or that...no one told you to give anything...lot's of whiners on both sides. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/6/2008 10:01:00 AM | lol, the cougar myth.....too funny. I already have kids, I don't need another one to support, right?
I can support myself and my kids. I would expect that anyone I get involved with should be able to support himself too. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/6/2008 10:44:46 AM | *looking around my home*
Nobody is going to find any sugar here.
*shaking head*
Nope, no sugar.
I've got some of those yellow packets of sweetener, though.
I'll share.
Not for sex, though.
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/6/2008 6:38:47 PM | The first one took 50%
The second one took 50 % of the 50 %
The third one took 50% of the remaining 25%
Which left very little .....
And you expect us to have something ????
Just looking for a roof and a warm bed ,,, is that to much to ask?/?  | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/6/2008 6:57:47 PM | | Kind of reminds me of the guys in bars who would go up to every woman and ask if she would have sex with them that night. 99 of 100 women would slap their face but maybe just maybe 1 would say OK. How much easier it must be on-line where you can send it to hundreds of women in a few minutes without worrying about coming to physical harm. I figure the women must get alot of that. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/6/2008 7:14:56 PM | | difference between a poor man and a poor woman...poor woman still gets her some...just a fact of life | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/6/2008 7:46:59 PM | gee barra........you mean the third time is NOT the charm?
another myth debunked  | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/6/2008 10:19:42 PM | gee barra........you mean the third time is NOT the charm?
I forgot ,,,,,,,, I still have my charm,,,,,,,ladies !!! what more could you ask for???   | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:54:19 AM | Message 41:
Ya mean all you gals didn't go flooding into the workforce and take all those high-paying jobs away from perfectly fine decent and deserving men so you could be someone's nice loving breadwinner? NOPE! I did it so I could take care of MY children....not some lazyass man who wanted to be "mommied" his entire life!
On the subject of "sugar mommys' however; LOL! I had 2 of them IM me this this morning before I'd been here for 5 mins. One was 29 yrs old...the other 35. In THEIR defense however, they may NOT have been looking for a woman to take care of them financially....they were just looking for a "hot older woman" who they felt reasonable sure would not try to hook a ring through their nose!
Most of the encounters that I've had with men looking for a "sugar mommy" have been generally very close to my age (55). Their reasons vary from....lost it all in the divorce, so now they're looking for someone else to victimize....errrr, I mean...make PAY for what some evil woman did to them. Nevermind that they were very willing "victims".....by being married to and taking care of a woman who wouldn't work.....for 30 years! Then there are plenty of those who are now older, with no health insurance, no pension plan....who never got married....or stayed married because they were too busy partying to consider that some day they might like some of the boring stuff.....like a bed to sleep in with a roof over top of it....rather than a sleeping bag and a tent! LOL!
I do concur with most women here however; the thought of a sexual relationship with a KID...and to me...anyone under the age of 40 qualifies as "KID" material!!! LOL; then YUKKKKK. I couldn't help but think of HIS mother....and what she'd be thinking.....and if I were her....I'd be wanting to kick my butt! LOL!
In essence; I find that the young guys are not so much looking to be supported, though I'm sure they wouldn't turn down an generous gifts; as they are just a sexual encounter with no strings attached. LOL! you can hardly blame a young guy for that! It's the older ones, who should know better (but never do) who are more likely to be in the game for financial reasons. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:09:55 AM |
Most of the encounters that I've had with men looking for a "sugar mommy" have been generally very close to my age (55). Their reasons vary from....lost it all in the divorce, so now they're looking for someone else to victimize....errrr, I mean...make PAY for what some evil woman did to them. Nevermind that they were very willing "victims".....by being married to and taking care of a woman who wouldn't work.....for 30 years! Then there are plenty of those who are now older, with no health insurance, no pension plan....who never got married....or stayed married because they were too busy partying to consider that some day they might like some of the boring stuff.....like a bed to sleep in with a roof over top of it....rather than a sleeping bag and a tent! LOL!
I agree with this... I have had this experience with a number of older men who think my compassionate heart equals a stupid head and blindness. Many are those who liked to party and considered any kind of responsibility a bore and a diminishment of the quality in life.
I know one man in particular who actually cruises the forums looking for older women who are nurses or who are in the "helping" professions as his next victims. He charms them, plays on whatever loneliness they have and their sympathies about how ALL of his previous exes were unfaithful, tells them that he nobly left everything for the ex, moves in on them, takes them for everything they have and then starts to abuse them. If they protest his hoovering, he terrorizes their families and everything they ever cared about until he is finished with them. And when he is all done, he drops them as though they never existed.
While this subject may be kinda funny, it is also one where countless women have their compassion being played with and they end up being badly hurt.
It gives a whole new meaning to "there's nothing so dangerous as someone with nothing to lose". | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/8/2008 9:12:17 AM |
I agree with this... I have had this experience with a number of older men who think my compassionate heart equals a stupid head and blindness. Many are those who liked to party and considered any kind of responsibility a bore and a diminishment of the quality in life. Yupper! That's exactly why I choose message # 17
Ya mean all you gals didn't go flooding into the workforce and take all those high-paying jobs away from perfectly fine decent and deserving men so you could be someone's nice loving breadwinner? as it is a perfect example of the antiquated thinking that many people still assume was the way life REALLY was pre WWII. In REALITY, women had always worked and supported families. If you don't believe me.....borrow a Bible and read Proverbs 31: 10-31! The "virtuous wife" did all the work...the husband was an administrator and spiritual leader.
The propaganda of the "stay at home wife" was perpetrated POST WWII to convince women to give up their jobs to make way for returning soldiers, in an economy which has almost overnight from agricultural based to industrial based. Those who would rewrite history would have us all believe that women have always been lazy, unproductive leeches on the butt of society. LOL! unfortunately....they've mananged to convince a few others of this.
And you are correct....since appealing to our (women's) compassion worked once, some believe that it should continue to work.....even though far too many males fail to believe that any sacrifice whatsoever was ever made on our part to "stroke their egos".
I think the original plan had it's heart in the right place, but was skewed from the get go. It's the old "power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely" thing. Men no longer needed women for any purpose other than reproduction, eagerly pointed out that she made no real contribution to the economic well being of the family. Women, who had historically been accustomed to being vital and necessary components of the family were replaced with automatic appliances of convenience, supermarkets, and all the other trappings of the new "Industrial Age". Needless to say, those who were reared believing that they were needed, necessary, and vital undoubtedly suffered an extreme loss of self worth when they no longer had gardens to tend, chickens and livestock to feed, clothes to sew, soap to make, or veggies to can.
Having myself been sort of at the front of the line when women RESUMED employment in meaningful areas of the labor force, I too dealt with a lot of the animosity expressed in message #17. NEVER have I allowed myself to feel "guilty" for "taking a job away" from a man. Certainly there are enough to go around, IF a person is willing to educate themselves and WORK. I am Viet Nam Era.....NOT WWII era. I rejected my mother's philosophy that I HAD to pretend to be stupid to attract a man. I always wanted one who was as smart as me...and who was as willing to WORK as I was. I simply could not see any other reasonable recipe for success.
Whether looking for a sugar mommy or a sugar daddy, I think the mentality is the same. It's one lazy person looking for a meal ticket purchased by a responsible member of society with a good and healthy work ethic. Whether this "meal ticket" be male of female, you are correct...their compassion and kindness are being played and they are doomed to be hurt. | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/8/2008 9:22:12 AM | You are so correct grandma booboo...
And black women NEVER had the luxury of sitting at home being taken care of....we WERE AND STILL ARE..."the caretakers..."
But this chocolate chick ain't taking care of no one but herself...... | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/9/2008 12:54:04 PM | | thats the first time i have heard that line being used..wow, they keep getting better as the days pass..hey, i am a great cook as well..lol | |
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| sugar mommy?
Posted: 6/16/2008 8:24:35 AM | | There are guys and gals that will glom onto anyone they think is vulnerable and less capable of thinking clearly and/or who they perceive as kind and nurturing. A friend of mine told me a long time ago that because my profile illustrates that I am a caring individual, because I own a business (which hellooo could be in the red), yada, yada, that there were guys that would see me as a meal ticket. Well if they want McDonald's....If I wanted four kids I would not have had the equipment removed. | |
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