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 mitchchan

Joined: 12/11/2007
Msg: 51
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Posted: 6/3/2008 9:51:26 AM
Be on your guard. she's playing the field. Alot of people like myself would make assumption that a person might be into you. Just play it cool and let her call you. She WOULD make time for her if she's into you. There's plenty of fish 6 billion people.
 curiosity_24

Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 6/3/2008 10:15:49 AM
She is trying to be nice and not have to tell you straight out that shes a maneater lol aww poor guy she's just not interested but trying to do it in a way that puts her off the hook for awhile just dont keep texting her whatever you do no drunk texting
 wondering1980

Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 53
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Posted: 6/3/2008 10:27:52 AM
can you explain why some guys do the same to women? if you can answer that then you got your answer
 ~Kyn~

Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 54
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Posted: 6/3/2008 10:28:40 AM

"Yeah last night was fun...we'll definitely have to do something again sometime. I'm busy tonight and my weekends pretty busy so i dont know about this week...but maybe next? i give you a call sometime.."

wtf does that mean, and who would be busy from now through all weekend? what do you girls think?

You're a nice guy...but I dont think there's a spark right now...and maybe we'll hang out another time.

well wtf i dont get it, she was talking and laughing with me the whole time. why do girls have to be like that. if i dont want to see a girl again i would flat out say it

Talking and laughing isnt a "come on"...Im sure you talk and laugh with other guys and it doesnt mean they wanna date you
And she has "knocked you back" when you've contacted her the next day (atleast to that point)

Same thing happen to me man. Hang out for like 2 days. Putting her head on my lap, shoulder, and stuff. She gave me her number but I never call, guess she was mad. Yeah like the guy above say don't expect to much as if something goes wrong you're the one that's going to hurt.

THIS ^^^ wins my WTF award for today.

She gave you all the signs...she gave you her number...you didnt call...and it hasnt worked out eh...?
Astounding.
 Canadianivek

Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 55
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Posted: 6/3/2008 10:33:18 AM
eh man hows it going?......its none of my business, but you are quite young still, go live life a bit (my brothers 25 and always with girls(Im like)"mannnn go live single a bit), anyways......from what that girl said, it all sounds kewl, I mean "she is busy" for a few days lol,....and..>>>>know about this week...but maybe next? < she said that....she is kinda saying or asking "you" now "but maybe next"< jump on that and email her in a few days and try to plan something for "next", who knows "for sure", they are "words/semantics" you can analyze them forever ....dont get into that/thanks
 ~Kyn~

Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 56
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Posted: 6/3/2008 10:47:04 AM
^^^ Im trying hard to reconcile that advice...with being from the same guy who's been wanting to dress up like Scooby Doo...and hunt down a complete stranger via the clues she inadvertently left in 3 emails over a week...and after she deleted her profile.

Yeah...Im also having a hard time translating what exactly was said too.


OP...just chillax...if she doesnt contact you...dont worry about it.
 Canadianivek

Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 57
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Posted: 6/3/2008 11:58:05 AM
eh Kyn lol (shaking head) read your mail, Im not gonna bring other posts/forums into other ones(like you kinda just did)mine is done with(but you seem to still be at a kinda loss with it....a) wasnt gonna hunt her down b) she didnt delete it on "her own choice" and decision c)the 3 emails to me were positive...anyways blah blah blah /back to the topic in this "forum" thanks
 ~Kyn~

Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 6/3/2008 12:06:09 PM
oh yeah...I just got your email and just replied...should spell it out for ya.

Does this mean she isnt interested?

See OP...situations like...oh...I dunno...for example...like this VVV

When a complete stranger disappears and leaves you absolutely no contact information after 3 emails in a week...regardless of whether they were polite or not...it means they arent interested in you.

IF they were...they would create another profile and contact you straight away.
If they havent...see it for what it is...dont stalk them through subliminal messages hidden within the emails....Get over it.
 Canadianivek

Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 6/3/2008 12:08:35 PM
lol and I got yours/thanks, and sorry dont like to judge but have to here, you just seem like a simpleton(but dont worry thats good in life sometimes, you still get it wrong..we didnt "ONLY" exchange 3 emails...mannn (shaking head) , anyways on to this topic/its his forum
 Patarey

Joined: 5/24/2008
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Posted: 6/3/2008 12:10:23 PM
Canadian!!!!!!!!!!!!

canadian is giving advise........??

I was just going to say wait a week and see what happens...........but do like canadian said..........send an email, then another then another then another...............

Until you get some answers dang it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Canadianivek

Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 61
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Posted: 6/3/2008 12:13:28 PM
When a complete stranger disappears(doesnt just "decide" to disappear was booted for whatever reason/s(maybe new to site????people are "new" right..(blah) and leaves you absolutely no contact information after 3 emails in a week (shaking head more like 20 in a wk)..blah(3 would be weird, I agree...regardless of whether they were polite(wasnt just polite, more than that(mann) or not...it means they arent interested in you.(not interested? you dont know that from what was said etc

IF they were...they would create another profile and contact you straight away.LOL they would? maybe they dont live on here like we do....busy jobs etc...maybe doesnt know how..or doesnt think that way....anyways there is lots of ways/to look at it..the thing that bugs me the most is people like you that just go into forums and post answers or try to put "guys" down Im assuming here(wont go there), and dont understand ALL the facts first......you just "shoot answers" out and dont ask or read whats going on, anyways back to this guys forum...ohh and Im not gonna start getting personal with you , so please dont with me(thats off topic and a weak human trait also)
 ~Kyn~

Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 62
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Posted: 6/3/2008 12:16:04 PM
lol and I got yours/thanks, and sorry dont like to judge but have to here, you just seem like a simpleton(but dont worry thats good in life sometimes, you still get it wrong..we didnt "ONLY" exchange 3 emails...mannn (shaking head)

You funny bunny

Does this mean she isnt interested?

OP...if you see Unread/Delete...it ALSO means she's not interested.

*thinks about deleting her profile*
 Canadianivek

Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 63
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Posted: 6/3/2008 12:16:28 PM
or take her back to your house and watch a replay of the 1986 World Cup final
(best goal ever is on it)....
 Canadianivek

Joined: 4/8/2008
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Posted: 6/3/2008 12:19:33 PM
haha none of mine ever said "read/delete" in the 1wk)ops sorry just had to get that in there for the jury hehe sorry back to this guy....mann dude she doesnt seem really really die hard interested, but then again she does also, she is leaving the door open for you...by the.."how about next wk"(dont analyze words....(humans do this)..a word is a word only, dont become attached to it.....what would you have wanted her to say?
(call me 2night and come jump in my bed?)..haha (guy thoughts eh?....anyways your still "in" there I think...etc
 seib3184

Joined: 4/26/2008
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Posted: 6/3/2008 12:20:17 PM
I don't see what's cause for concern. You said you both had a good time and she certainly didn't say anything that should be taken for a rejection in itself. The worst thing you could possibly do is over think it and pester her. It's certainly not unreasonable to assume she made plans with friends a few days in advance. It's not like you asked her what she's doing for dinner on Nov. 13 an she said she had to wash her hair.

My advice is to give her a few days and if she hasn't gotten in touch with her, call her up to talk. If you get the impression that it's just friendship she's after with you, well, there's plenty of fish ...
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