| SET HIGHER STANDARDS FOR YOURSELF
Posted: 5/20/2008 3:32:29 PM | Ya know...
I was gonna touch on that, but thought it was way too obvious to bother mentioning, but now that someone else bit that bullet for me...
WTH? He sucks in bed according to you and you're all "Why'd he bail?". Did you wanna be stuck with bad sex for the longhaul? Assuming it was even HIM that was the bad part.
I mean honestly... good riddance to bad sex. No?
Is it common to get upset about being reject by someone you weren't even that keen on in the first place? Seems awfully dumb to me. | |
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:15:18 PM | We do some stupid stuff sometimes and sleeping with someone right away is one of them. been there too...and its not a good thing in the long run.
.He probably didnt want to sleep with you again becuase he knew he couldnt handle you...take it as a good thing he is being a prick right away and not in 2 years after you have invested time into him.
But I do agree with his comment about being with someone thats on here all the time. Even if you are only on once a day...thats still once a day trying to meet new guys. Thats the only downfall about meeting someone off here especially when their profile talks about looking for someone else.
Oh the joys on online dating...LOL
Good Luck tho! Dont let one guy bring you down...he is so not worth it!!! | |
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/4/2008 3:56:53 AM | Some men will say and do anything just to have sex, and once that's done and over with, so are you. NEXT!
*** Take note, if someone really is interested in you, they will wait for the sex -- you don't have to give it away so quickly. Respect yourself, it says a lot about a person when they do; and also a lot when they don't.
PS. WHY THE HECK WOULD YOU WANT TO STAY WITH SOMEONE WHO CAN ONLY LAST 3 SECONDS?!?!? NO FRIGGIN' WAY!!! | |
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/4/2008 5:06:24 AM | Ulookat....
~ Look at the facts;
(A) YOU wanted SEX -- otherwise you would not have slept with him
(B) HE wanted Sex -- as does every male
(C) YOU KNEW he wanted sex.... (his actions during the date)
(D) SEX was BLAND -- (your own admission about his faulty performance)
(E) It took him forever to get aroused ( Do you think that was a good sign?)
(F) You are complaining
He was being TOTALLY honest with you --
You both wanted sex -- as it progressed he was NOT attracted to you.
However most men will continue to have sex for the sake of sex (you were giving it out to him).
Time to stop wondering and start to GROW UP~ | |
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:26:51 AM | He slept with u because he wanted sex , so did u or u would of slept with him ! Ladies Men know that Bigger women are more likely to please a new partner ..... its no mystery ladies Fat girls have to try harder for our attention ... so ,,, often they do the deed to seal the deal ,,,,,,, but as soon as a shapely piece of fluff comes along ,,, its bye bye fatty ! ...... Men like sportscars ....... but if all the good cars are'nt available , we will test drive a Junker w/ huge trunk ......... fat girls are like Mo peds , their fun until your friends see u driving one ... | |
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:09:58 AM | When we met, his first response, was "wow" you look just like your picture! You are so beautiful, you look so young, you are very attractive etc. The next time we get together at my place, one thing leads to another and we end up sleeping together. He spends the night and tells me the next day after being intimate again, he wants to stay with me in bed all day. I must say, the sex was not good. "He must have thought it was and said,"Oh we are going to have lot's of fun with each other" Each time, it took him forever to become excited
First off,,, just want to say that really, who gives a shit how soon she slept with him? Ill bet most everyone here has done the same thing and maybe even on the FIRST date, so eh,,,whatever. But,,,,he DID mislead her as the person on the first page did say. If she was so fat and unattractive in his eyes because of that,,,,then why would he lavish all the compliments on her? PLUS,,there obviously was a NEXT TIME (he chose to be with her again) AND he spent the night and was intimate with her the following day. Obviously he wanted more,,,since he made the comment about having lots of fun with each other.
Yanno,,,if someone were making comments like this to me,,id be wondering the same thing she is.
He's a dog. Pure and simple.
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/4/2008 10:03:35 AM | | You complained about the sex at the start of the post so what is the problem? Who wants a guy that is difficult to get aroused and then cums in 3 seconds. You weren't compatible. Messaging him under another name sounds like highschool behaviour and is such a waste of time. Get over it! | |
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/4/2008 12:38:25 PM | I think the lesson here is that don't give away the cookie too soon. It is very superficial the first few times you are with someone on a date, but the longer you wait the more you will know, until you don't want to know anymore.
I think some people are good at faking chemistry and use it to score. | |
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 8/11/2008 12:44:05 PM | | Here we have another example of someone else trying to figure out what happend and first thing we do is jump on her case for giving up to that arse, that in itself gives us guys who are clearly trying to find a nice date makes us look like fools, dogs and all other names some ladies call us, yes I have to say we men are idiots and talk a lot of BS in the heat of the moment , but some of US really mean it, I'm sorry "ulookatme" you got one arse who plainly wanted a good time and didn't had the guts to tell you so..no wonder more and more people are leaving POF with all these freeloaders playing mind games ...and when I said freeloaders I mean women & men as I have encountered some ladies with different sn's only to have the stupidity to have the same pics on both of them ... | |
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 8/11/2008 1:52:30 PM | He slept with you because you offered him a "pillow" to rest his "head" on...pure and simple. He had sex with you because he wasn't attractred to you - he had an urge to take care of. Perhaps he lost his attraction to you because he felt that if you were able to help him become more arroused then it might have gone somewhere. And since it was so difficult to arrouse him and keep him there maybe he feels that was somehow (crazy I know) your fault.
Bottom line...don't put yourself out there like that again...and if you do...please keep it to yourself.
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:23:32 PM | | He wanted to get his rocks off and you said yes and were available. You evidently got the job done for him, he did not stop between the sheets. He was thinking and working with his second head! | |
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zeeba
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Joined: 3/27/2008
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| Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:32:14 PM | | Why must he be a dog, both parties agreed to do this. I think many people are prudes on the outside. But deep down inside they want it just as bad as everyone else. Everyone think about sexing several people through out the day, how many people go for it because they want it, not many? But if they knew she or he was thinking the same thing they were thinking then the party would ge started. It's just sex you get it you give it. You love it, you f_ _k it, you spank it, you s_ _k it and there is much more to do with it. So get over it and just do it. Love it while you doing it. | |
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