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 dancecard

Joined: 3/19/2006
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Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 2/27/2008 6:19:53 PM

That is how mentally unbalanced these ladies can be/are . One has snapped.

Message: Funny! ~~~~~~~~~~~`just one? Some are rough on their children as well.

But do we judge all women by the acts of a few? ~ ofcourse not!

Surpopurflus statement ~ offer no content ` perhaps a stab at wry humor? dar
 TheKnightInShiningArmor

Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 937
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Posted: 2/28/2008 8:17:55 AM

unloading his 380 semi auto on the way


Glad I don't live in your country
 joeys gurl

Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 938
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Posted: 3/16/2008 1:35:06 PM
Are prostitutes the solution?

well look at the headlines these days! ha!! Spitzer, the girl, prostitution ring, etc.

guess now maybe things will either go legal or not. didn't I say, something about Hilary using this as a campaign 'idea'... oops... i did it again.. please don't ask me to explain. just an idea i had, and bam, it showed up... (i just 'knew')
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 939
Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/16/2008 2:11:15 PM
"That is how mentally unbalanced these ladies can be/are . One has snapped."

And this is limited to prostitutes? The BTK killer was a deacon in his church. Stop looking for weak excuses to point the finger at prostitutes.
 1pickyguy4u

Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 940
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Posted: 3/21/2008 4:23:19 PM
Prostitutes are the most realistic people/women on the planet. The guy's not paying for the sex, he's paying to avoid the head games and turbulence women love to generate to keep a man off balance. Females resort to psychological warfare instead of physical to win and they're very good at it. It's why girls hate having to compete when one of their friends makes it known she enjoys sex for sex's sake instead instead of taking part in the old carrot and stick routine.

If a guy takes a girl out to dinner she should do herself a favor and at least volunteer to give a him a hand job. Girls who manipulate guys with their looks and wiles are as much to blame for the male versus female battle. The only thing they understand is being treated like shit until they hand over the goodies. Then, if the guy's any good in bed, she'll respect him, but not beforehand.

And even though women don't like a guy's eyes to stray into other pastures, theirs roam constantly. They want the nice guy for stability and the bad boy for sex. That's the honest truth.
 1pickyguy4u

Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 941
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Posted: 3/21/2008 4:30:13 PM
One way or another you've paid for it. Like it or not, all women are whores. You simply opt to rationalize it so it suits you. Don't get me wrong, I adore women, but they're far from innocent. Stick any guy's****into any girl, and she's not going to know the difference, and won't care as long as she can get her rocks off. Also, literally any woman can be seduced by a guy who understands her psychological buttons. Put anyone's "devoted" wife in a room with a stranger who knows his stuff and sooner or later her panties are going to go sliding down her legs.
 Rolling A Long

Joined: 3/14/2008
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Posted: 3/21/2008 4:36:42 PM
All women are whores? That is a sick idea. Maybe it makes sense in your outlook on life. To me it sounds perverse, cynical, ugly and ignorant.

Sexual desire can be experienced as a need for sexual intercourse with a woman, focusing on the act, ignoring the woman except for her role in the act. With that view you can make sex a commodity and buy it and sell it. This is only one very narrow way to experience sex. Other views hold that people are divine, that sex is an expression of affection, without any concept of transaction in the sense of getting and giving.

It's all well and good if people wish to play at hooker and trick, having money that way, having sex that way. But what is neither well nor good is the kind of view of people and of sex that denigrates both.
 Lavinia10

Joined: 2/4/2008
Msg: 943
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Posted: 3/21/2008 5:52:26 PM
message above: your answer was AD HOC ( on purpose:the right answer) : perfect!
 TalkToYaLater

Joined: 3/14/2008
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Posted: 3/21/2008 5:57:14 PM
I prefer Jackie Brown to Jackie Palm,lol.
 Cunning_linguist

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Posted: 3/22/2008 2:04:09 AM
Its comical someone would use the fact a prostitute killed john to "prove" theyre unbalanced

Spousal murder is one of the commonest forms of premeditated murder and women despite not being portrayed as such are more than holding their own in notching up instances of that

You only have to look at the lack of maturity, wisdom, sanity, reason, balance and objectivity of the majority of women on places like this to realise that a vast amount of non prostitutes are severely unstable or have a massive collection of unresolved issues and a wardrobe of axes they need to grind

You also dont need to look far to see how many women are unemployed but will ONLY date men with a "good work ethic" or whom want someone to show them the "finer thing in life" or whom claim to be old fashioned and into nice restaurants to see prostitution ISNT limited to simply the women who are open enough to just state that as a profession


So whats the problem?

Well modern dating is a game, for many of not most women its the art of making a man jump through imaginary nonsensical hoops that although claimed to have some purpose and relevance cant be backed up with any semblance of a rational and sane explanation

And as sex is a major and integral part of a relationship its part of the reason so many men put up with the mindgame playing nonsense that women think is supposed to be part of the dating process

Sex is also pedestalised by women as tho its some huge deal, which again makes it easier to manipulate the men into playing their adolescent games


But if prostitutes were legalised, if sex was easily available without all the mind game playing manipulative nonsense then men would be far less likely to put up with the antics of the paranoid, insecure, self doubting womens antics and wouldnt be any more prepared to "prove" anymore than they would expect the women to "prove" to them and we would have an equal balance and relationships forming would revert to being dependant on personality compatibility, shared aims and interests and enjoyment of each others company and women would lose what they perceive as one of their main forms of "bait" and therein their power at the outset of a relationship


Its a similar psychosis to why so many women croon on endlessly about their love of sex toys and why they are better than men BUT class men who would consider using male sex toys as "dirty" and "perverted"

Female sex toys subconciously scream of a mans irrelevance in sating a womans sexual needs, paints the picture that women dont NEED men for sex, that they would be just as happy ramming the rubber phallus instead. But as long as men feel they would be viewed badly for doing similar with male targetted sex toys theres an inbalance in power and men are to an extent more reliant on women for sating their sexual needs


Both are a power play, and both strive to maintain the use of sex as a bargaining chip on an inequal playing field and prostitution would severely level that playing field which on a subconcious for most and a conscious level for some women I think scares the bejesus out of them

Because THEN, their issue ridden emotionally unstable "personality" would be their only "bait" for attracting a partner and as such would mean they'd have to put some effort into restoring at least a faint semblance of sanity to themselves which of course takes effort and maturity hence why so many are blandly and without any real reason so defensive and aggressive on the issue and rip quite blatantly into men who are pro or arent against the topic because it just simply undermines their ability to play mind games and their main card up their sleeve to manipulate a relationship from the outset

Niether sex nor relationships should be a power play, thats the mindset of the insecure, of those lacking any perception of self worth as a person, its childish and its unnattractive but to varying degrees its somewhat of a necessity for most so its "used" as a tool rather than shared by huge amounts of women and men

And legalisation of prostitution and the removal of the stigmatisation of men using them would undermine womens ability to do that massively, maybe even totally

So they defend their advantage tooth and nail
 carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 3/22/2008 3:52:08 AM
A prostitue is never teh answer for me.
Firstly I hate sex with condoms.
Secondly, it would break my heart to have to pay for sex.

Having said that I dont believe in live in relationships either.
The law is so much on the side of women/wives I feel it is better to live alone.\



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