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 Author Thread: Are prostitutes the solution? [CLOSED For Review]
 manlooking407

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 101
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 1:50:36 PM
"Prostitutes are definitely not the way to go. In my younger years, I had plenty of female friends that just enjoyed having a fling with no strings attached once in a while. Why risk getting a disease, robbed, or arrested just to get off. Ihave come across many prostitutes in my business and I cannot think of any that I would ever be so desparate to use. My advice is to tough it out or find you a nice women with the common goal in mind."

Actually, hate to break it to you, but...does anyone see the difference between banging a prostutite and banging a woman(with no strings attached?). Either way, you can catch a disease.

Notice the spread of HIV, though it sometimes goes down, it's not to all significant. Personally, I would do prostution in the more legal way, take a trip to VEGAS! To the Chickenranch brothel. So , over there, it's not illegal.

And, of course, when you spend money on a prostitute, you're pretty much guaranteed a piece of a***! As opposed to spending money on a non-prostitute , just informal
 manlooking407

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 102
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 1:55:00 PM
".....street walkers, bar girls, call girls, escorts, etc. Just clearing that up. "

Don't forget, girlfriends, and ex-wives. Some people don't necessarily have to be a "Prostitute" by profession, to have sex with someone for money.

Sometimes diamonds for a girlfriend can get you laid ;-)
 RitzNB

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 103
Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 2:29:58 PM
I agree with most of the people on here. Prostitutes are dangerous. You're in essence sleeping with every partner they've had before you. The number is extremely high. They are indeed full of std's. The government does regulate some brothels but who's to say she didn't catch AIDS after her last blood test was taken (even if it was taken the day before). Alot of these women are drug addicts. If they didn't catch an std or AIDS through unprotected sex they probably used dirty needles to get high. I really don't see the difference between an escort and a prostitute. They both get paid to have sex. One walks the street and the other might work out of a fancy motel. Do you really think a man is going to pay an escort just to accompany him to a fancy event. Give me a break !!! He'll be f*****g her at the end of the evening. Aside from the health issues it's up to a man whether he wants to pay a woman for sex. Some men say they want variety, a quick fix. They can get variety without having to pay for it. I'd never pay a man to sleep with me. That would take away the fun and just make it cheap. I agree with a comment made by a man on here. You can get an std by picking up a lady in a bar. Granted that's true but a man's chances increase ten fold with a prostitute. Rubbers will only get you so far.
 Sliv

Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 104
Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 2:32:08 PM
What if they were regulated and taxed by the government; maybe even insured?

How's Amsterdam doing?

Then there's George Carlin's perspective: "How can it be illegal to sell something that's perfectly legal to give away." :P
 ~Songbird~

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 105
Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 5:20:29 PM
I think that it's gross, someone would even become so desperate and pathedic to paying for sex...but I agree, it makes no sense why it is illegal. Is it because of the amount of murders, or guys cheating on their wives, or vice versa? whatever it is, if that's the case then when they get caught charge them for what they did, don't punish them for wanting to become the scum of society by sleeping with walking diseases.

Paying for sex is not the solution to anything.
 EvilGenious

Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 106
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 6:16:45 PM
The solution or not, I can't really say. I can say it's not likely to stop anytime soon, so we might as well do it right and get what benefit we can out of it. Legalization=more control=less disease. Also better to have it taxed, so at least the public will be getting something back out of it. I cough up 1/3 of my paycheck right off the top--why shouldn't they? As for the social benefits, I really can't argue them much. I could see some issues arising if someone insists on going to the local bordello for nookie instead of his s/o (assuming everything's on the up and up there), but that would seem to indicate other problems than just readily available prostitutes. Again, it's going to happen anyhow, so we might as well not further endanger our collective selves by thinking that it won't happen if it's not legal.
 Bustersab

Joined: 12/13/2004
Msg: 107
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 6:31:34 PM

"why is it 95% of prostitutes in Vancouver have aids despite the use of condoms being used?"

I wonder where you get your facts! Not true, since I know the Main Administrator for the Needle Exchange Program.


Wouldn't be because most of the hookers there are needle users? Just saying.
 Vandelai

Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 108
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 7:05:52 PM
Read this article, it is about Germany and that prostitution is legal...they only backfire to it is....you know how you're trying to collect unemployment compensation in the US? Where if you registered for unemployment, and if you get OFFERED a job...and you turn it down, you get denied those benefits?

Well the same thing, if turn down the opportunity to work as a prostitute..lol. Read on:

Copy and paste this:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2005/01/30/wgerm30.xml

Or read:
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'If you don't take a job as a prostitute, we can stop your benefits'
By Clare Chapman
(Filed: 30/01/2005)

A 25-year-old waitress who turned down a job providing "sexual services'' at a brothel in Berlin faces possible cuts to her unemployment benefit under laws introduced this year.

Prostitution was legalised in Germany just over two years ago and brothel owners – who must pay tax and employee health insurance – were granted access to official databases of jobseekers.

The waitress, an unemployed information technology professional, had said that she was willing to work in a bar at night and had worked in a cafe.

She received a letter from the job centre telling her that an employer was interested in her "profile'' and that she should ring them. Only on doing so did the woman, who has not been identified for legal reasons, realise that she was calling a brothel.

Under Germany's welfare reforms, any woman under 55 who has been out of work for more than a year can be forced to take an available job – including in the sex industry – or lose her unemployment benefit. Last month German unemployment rose for the 11th consecutive month to 4.5 million, taking the number out of work to its highest since reunification in 1990.

The government had considered making brothels an exception on moral grounds, but decided that it would be too difficult to distinguish them from bars. As a result, job centres must treat employers looking for a prostitute in the same way as those looking for a dental nurse.

When the waitress looked into suing the job centre, she found out that it had not broken the law. Job centres that refuse to penalise people who turn down a job by cutting their benefits face legal action from the potential employer.

"There is now nothing in the law to stop women from being sent into the sex industry," said Merchthild Garweg, a lawyer from Hamburg who specialises in such cases. "The new regulations say that working in the sex industry is not immoral any more, and so jobs cannot be turned down without a risk to benefits."

Miss Garweg said that women who had worked in call centres had been offered jobs on telephone sex lines. At one job centre in the city of Gotha, a 23-year-old woman was told that she had to attend an interview as a "nude model", and should report back on the meeting. Employers in the sex industry can also advertise in job centres, a move that came into force this month. A job centre that refuses to accept the advertisement can be sued.

Tatiana Ulyanova, who owns a brothel in central Berlin, has been searching the online database of her local job centre for recruits.

"Why shouldn't I look for employees through the job centre when I pay my taxes just like anybody else?" said Miss Ulyanova.

Ulrich Kueperkoch wanted to open a brothel in Goerlitz, in former East Germany, but his local job centre withdrew his advertisement for 12 prostitutes, saying it would be impossible to find them.

Mr Kueperkoch said that he was confident of demand for a brothel in the area and planned to take a claim for compensation to the highest court. Prostitution was legalised in Germany in 2002 because the government believed that this would help to combat trafficking in women and cut links to organised crime.

Miss Garweg believes that pressure on job centres to meet employment targets will soon result in them using their powers to cut the benefits of women who refuse jobs providing sexual services.

"They are already prepared to push women into jobs related to sexual services, but which don't count as prostitution,'' she said.

"Now that prostitution is no longer considered by the law to be immoral, there is really nothing but the goodwill of the job centres to stop them from pushing women into jobs they don't want to do."

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LOL....now only if they could force women to work as prostitutes or be denied Unemployment benefits in the US...talk about chaos, eh? LOL

Word to the wise for women in Germany, don't turn down a perfect "Job Opportunity" like this, if you're out of work.
 MikeJ

Joined: 1/30/2005
Msg: 109
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 10:28:22 PM
Prostitutes are so 5th century BCish.

Mail order brides are where it's at.
 salamander000

Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 110
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Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/29/2005 10:54:53 PM
once again , money can't buy "EVERYTHING", but it comes damn close.....
 Blue Point

Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 111
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 12:51:04 AM
A prostitute won't look after you when your sick, she won't give you beautiful children, or make sure you have a nice home to come home to, she won't give you affection like someone that loves you will, she won't really care about you no matter how much you pay her...

But if a guy didn't want any of the things listed above, or if in fact he did, but wasn't willing to do the same kind of things in return.... I personally hope that he'd spare me and go and see prostitute.
 ferris101

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 112
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Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 12:55:01 AM
Who would ever pay for an std anyway?
 manlooking407

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 113
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 3:11:00 AM
"Who would ever pay for an std anyway?"

Just buy a bar slut a few drinks, take her home, and have your way with her. LOL!
 showbags

Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 114
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Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 4:14:46 AM
brothels are legal here in australia. they are regulated by the government and operate like any other business when permitted to do so.

the 4 that i own do a roaring business......er, i mean, oh shit......um, i've heard....yeah that's it........ i've heard that it's quite a lucrative industry

*you covered that up nicely, good work*
 blackmanx

Joined: 10/28/2004
Msg: 115
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Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 4:20:46 AM
Prostitutes may be the solution to sex-deprived men who live with or
date frigid women. I dont have that problem. My lady likes sex just as much as I do. If I felt like straying, I'd go for a MAN-wich meal rather than more
FISH-sticks. Just a bi guy's $ 0.02. I sometimes miss the BEEF, no matter how much FISH my lady gives me.
 Avatar000

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 116
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:13:33 AM
Forgive an ignorant American's question, but what is a "legalized Sex Worker?"
 Sliv

Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 117
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:15:30 AM
Oh, in America they're called "gold diggers"
 Avatar000

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 118
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:18:04 AM
I thought it referred to some sort of legalized prostitution in Canada--am I wrong?
 showbags

Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 119
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Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:18:43 AM
sorry all but gotta do it on behalf of the rest of my countryment.......surely "ignorant American" is a tautology???

it was too gooda opportunity to pass up!!!

just starin me in the face....darin me to do it......i tried not to, but something out of my control grabbed my hands and started pressin the keyboard



 Avatar000

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 120
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:26:59 AM
Now see--that's the problem. You try to ask a serious question on a serious subject and get slammed for no reason at all. I'm not going to rip you apart, showbags, much as I want to, since I got another thread deleted replying to a #$#!! who asked for it. I will say that I love my country and I meant "ignorant American" only as an illustration of my lack of knowledge on this topic. In general I am neither uneducated nor ignorant.
 showbags

Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 121
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Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:31:39 AM
i know avatar.....i promise it was only in jest. my sarcasm knows no bounds (for better or worse). i can honestly say i didnt know what the answer was. chances are if i did, i would have just told u instead of come up with some smart ass response like that.

peace out man. i admire the restraint too........violence (out of the bedroom) is not my thing

 Sliv

Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 122
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:34:04 AM
There is no legalized prostitution in Canada. I gather that "Legalized Sex Worker" is probably something they call hookers in Amsterdam, where it is legal. In fact they even have stores where you can walk in and pick a girl you like. They're all registered with the govt, etc.
 showbags

Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 123
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Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:36:07 AM
women who work in legalised brothels here are usually called escorts.
 Avatar000

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 124
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:40:50 AM
Fair 'nuff. Sorry for overreacting.
 Avatar000

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 125
Re: Are prostitutes the solution?
Posted: 3/30/2005 6:44:22 AM
Personally I think illegal prostitution is an archaic concept. The Puritans have been dead 300 years. Legalize it, tax it, regulate it, keep it clean.
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