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| How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 7/14/2009 10:25:32 AM | As a man, and someone who has had his heart broken several times I can tell you that men hide their true feelings because they are percieved as less of a man when they show emotions. I know women who are always telling their men to show how they feel, but the thing is as soon as a man does this the woman will begin to lose respect for him and percieve him as weak, unmannly. So men are programed from early on to hide their emotions. The only safe ones men can show among women are happy and horny which explains why men are so f***ed up. The truth is that men cannot just turn off their feelings in one day. If they really don't feel anything after a breakup then they never felt anything in the first place.
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| How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 7/14/2009 10:47:50 AM |
I can tell you that men hide their true feelings because they are percieved as less of a man when they show emotions. I know women who are always telling their men to show how they feel, but the thing is as soon as a man does this the woman will begin to lose respect for him and percieve him as weak, unmannly
Men say this a lot. I have never seen it in action--have you really EXPERIENCED this, or do you just go with the common thought about it?
One of the sweetest things in the world to see is a man with his new baby. If that's not emotinoal, what is? There is not a woman uot there who would think a man who loves his kid that much is "less manly". I'm sorry, it just doesn't happen.
Stop buying into what OTHER men tell you, and instead just feel what you need to feel. | |
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| How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 7/14/2009 11:25:36 AM | I'm going to stick to the topic, not do men have feelings?, can men hide their feelings?, should they hide their feelings? etc.
I think the premise is arguable but interesting. My adult daughter often complains to me of men getting over it quicker than her. And so as the safe man in her life agonizes often over the phenomena while sort of backhandedly accusing me of same (I caught my last gf watching and laughing at Bill Mahrer on HBO, can you imagine my disgust?!!!)
But we finally reached resolution through her teenage sons, my grandchildren. They truly do get over it, in hours if not minutes. Watching them I realized they have so compartmentalized their intellectual process from their emotional process they could literally will themselves to forget the young lady recently of their affection. They usally assign undesirable attributes to the object of Ex-ness and with that move on quickly.
In the inverse I've noted women become warmer over time toward the ex, recalling our good attributes while forgetting our many, many, many undesirable traits. I would never do a go-back, I think all of my ex's would. | |
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| How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 7/14/2009 2:06:03 PM | men dont stop having feelings quickly,
some men only pretend to have feelings so they can get to the more intement part of a relationship thus giving the aperance of them getting over it quickly but there is no it to get over, I was dumped by a girl i liked and it took me a while to get over it,
some men who do have feelings tend to mask them in any thing but sadness,
woman tend to show wat their really feeling, thats wat makes it hard for guys to understand them, their so simple | |
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| How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 7/15/2009 11:55:31 AM | "woman tend to show wat their really feeling, thats wat makes it hard for guys to understand them"
I think this is profoundly true. Women talk and communicate their emotions more than the reason for those emotions. They may even demand immediate indemnification for their losses, but they say what their loss is in emotional terms, and they say the terms of the reparations in emotional terms.
Let me explain.
A man forgets his wife's birthday. She slams him for leaving the toilet seat up, for opening the window, for not opening the window, for turning the TV on as soon as he gets home, for asking her how day's been.
If from these clues the man does not understand the issue (that he forgot her birthday) then she goes into explaining what she needs to get to be appeased: He must stop running after his secretary, or after his boss, he must not tip the waitress so much, he must not give away his boredom with the marriage so easily by talking to his orthodontist in such a friendly manner.
Simple, and I can see why male humans have a hard time understanding the female earthlings.
The one previous poster is a genius, despite his lack of language skills.
Thanks, one more thing to report to my fellow Zorkians. | |
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| How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 7/15/2009 2:54:13 PM | some men not all that think they are gods givt to women. these man hafe a special name they are called jerks.not all men are jerks. they are men out their that are not afraid to show their true feeling.that kind of man knows what an who he is.some times they are not as good lokking. but they are real and have deep feelings for woman an is not afraid to show it. yes even cry some times when they are hurt.they are still as much a man then the tough ,macho kind.but lets be fear. they have woman that do the same thing to a man.after you fall in love with them they kiss you off an never look back.all i can tell you is look at a mans heart an whats inside. not the out side .that gets old an yway.look.at the inside. tommy | |
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| How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:05:58 PM | | men get threatened really quickly.... If there was something to stop that they would be the man of your dreams>>>good luck with that one>>>Ps.s I so know what you mean | |
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