| i like phone sex Posted: 11/27/2008 5:43:40 PM | ^^^^^ Do they have deals where the women call men?  | |
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spkit
| Joined: 11/11/2008 Msg: 102 | |
| i like phone sex Posted: 11/27/2008 5:54:52 PM | | If I had an SO then I might do it. But the phone sex is like anything else. You can get addicted to it and then where is the fun in that? You'd now be no good for a future relationship. | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/27/2008 7:18:00 PM | haha racer matt you're a cheeky one! A deal might be considered ;) haha
In all fairness I do have some 'special offers' as I like to call them haha some of my regs buy me something from my amazon wishlist, and I'll call them up for free for say 20-30 mins or cam for them etc. Its all about looking after your customers. I do this in my day job in medical sales, so I'll naturally do it to my adult callers also.
crikey, had a guy on the phone just now for nearly an hour, we talked about history. And our favourite historical eras see its not always about gettings ones rocks off at all.
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/27/2008 7:27:01 PM | First, I find it funny when people who are on THIS site--an online dating site--say that phone sex is lame. Perhaps you are not making an effort OR your partner is not making an effor t OR one or both of you SUCK when it comes to putting things into words. Mind you, I am NOT saying it is preferred over real sex. (Then again, women who think phone sex is lame may not be any better at REAl sex if the problem is lack of imagination!) Yes, it IS safer. YES, if you are in a monogomous relationship it is probably better to cyber or have phone sex with your partner than go get real sex from someone else. Guys who talk about the whole male/vual thing need to remeber that MOST of us have imaginations and/or access to "pictures". Like what you want, OP. Don't let some of the attitudes expressed here stop you. Remember, we are all here online on a singles dating site. I ALWAYS keep that in mind when I see women with negative and/or unrealistic/delusional attitudes. An open mind will keep you sexually satisfied a lot better than an "attitude". Imagination is the key! IF your woman wants it--give it to her! | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/27/2008 7:32:13 PM | | phone sex is all about imagination. if you're creative and good at visualizing a scene, it can be quite a turn on. it's 100% safe and it's a way of sexually breaking the ice to test for compatibility. it's no more silly than roleplaying, kinky costumes, and various other bedroom games we engage in. people just need to keep an open mind and have fun with it. | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/27/2008 7:35:21 PM |
haha racer matt you're a cheeky one! A deal might be considered ;) haha
In all fairness I do have some 'special offers' as I like to call them haha some of my regs buy me something from my amazon wishlist, and I'll call them up for free for say 20-30 mins or cam for them etc. Its all about looking after your customers. I do this in my day job in medical sales, so I'll naturally do it to my adult callers also.
crikey, had a guy on the phone just now for nearly an hour, we talked about history. And our favourite historical eras see its not always about gettings ones rocks off at all.
No, I meant do they have women who call men and *I* make the money?
I'm sure I could make an Amazon wishlist too...  | |
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Shri_1
| Joined: 10/29/2008 Msg: 107 | |
| You like phone sex Posted: 11/27/2008 7:48:28 PM | How Long Did It Take You To Capitalize ..
Almost Every Word...
In Your "About Me " Section?? | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/28/2008 1:59:45 AM | | no matter what kind of situation im in, i wont go for phone sex. just that name sickens me | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/28/2008 4:09:53 AM | Haha racer Matt - I know exactly what you meant my dear!!
Also who's 'about me' has been capitalised?
(Did you mean me? with this? - I totally adore music and my faves are Metallica, Iron Maiden, Motley Crue, Killswitch Engage, Cradle of Filth, Kid Rock, Black Sabbath, The Delays, Megadeth, Muse, Avenged Sevenfold, QotSA, ZZ Top, AC/DC, GnR, Velvet Revolver..and so many more. The louder, the better...You just cannot beat a hard and fast riff!!)
Names (of towns, bands etc) are always started with a capital letter, it's just basic grammar. Plus QotSA is a well known shortened version of Queens of the Stone Age.
Well then Holeinthewall, we'll call it something else ahaha
But you know, I must emphasise it isnt allways about sex, for instance I spoke to someone last night for just under an hour and as we're both big into history. This is what we talked about, he told me about his trip to Gettysburg and I told him my passion for 18c scienctific displays. | |
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Shri_1
| Joined: 10/29/2008 Msg: 110 | |
| i like phone sex Posted: 11/28/2008 9:57:16 AM |
Also who's 'about me' has been capitalised? (Did you mean me? with this?
motley maiden--ok......let me clear something up ONCE MORE....when i come into a thread i address the OP.....the Original Poster/Originator of the thread......i am not here to talk back and forth or discuss things with the other posters.....unless you address me by name...maybe then i will address you...
but if i do....... i will type your screen name..
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/28/2008 10:05:28 AM | OP There's not much that turns me off on the Sex forum, but this does. I can understand phone sex with someone you know and desire...but you pay money for this? If so, best to keep it a secret from any future girlfriends. | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/28/2008 3:21:34 PM | | I don't do phone sex. I live in the real world. | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/28/2008 5:50:17 PM |
motley maiden--ok......let me clear something up ONCE MORE....when i come into a thread i address the OP.....the Original Poster/Originator of the thread......i am not here to talk back and forth or discuss things with the other posters.....unless you address me by name...maybe then i will address you...
but if i do....... i will type your screen name..
shri1- it would help if you made it clear who you were addressing in the first place then, this will prevent any confusion. | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/29/2008 2:01:56 AM | | its always some wierd old lady pretending to be a 20 year old hottie from cosmopolitan | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 11/30/2008 4:38:16 PM | It kills me. A girl who doens't have to work Full-time telling those of us who DO work FT, pay ALL our own bills, etc. that SHE doesn't have phone sex she live in the REAL world-ha ha! Then we have the woman who says that out of all the topics in the FORUM THIS topic is like the worst thing she has ever come across-ha ha-good for you. I am glad you date so much you have not had time to read MANY of the posts here in the POF forums. You needn't warn anyone about telling GFs they have paid for phone sex. I have found that women vary in the degree to which they are judgemental! The REAL world is not always black and white. . .nor is it centered in the halls of academia or your parents house! | |
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spkit
| Joined: 11/11/2008 Msg: 116 | |
| i like phone sex Posted: 12/4/2008 7:58:20 PM | There was an older woman with whom I worked with that did it for money. One guy told her to put rings in her n*pples. As she talked he abruptly said, "Well, did you put those rings in?". Of course she had to say yes. This is what she was getting paid to do.
She was not a hottie by any means. You really don't want me to tell you what she looked like. But heck, it's his money and time.
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| i like phone sex Posted: 12/21/2008 3:31:04 PM | I often wonder are people on the other end actually doing anything or just talking.....all I know is I would start laughing......so i'm not doin it....... | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 12/22/2008 2:21:38 AM |
i know i never understood phone sex but now that i been trying it this shits pretty hott...and not for nothin its also safe...but dont get me wrong i love the real deal but on the phone is the next best thing
I TOTALLY AGREE!!!
With the right person on the other end of the line it can get exotically hot!!!
Where is the ice when I need to cool off? wow ummm okay never mind  | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 1/22/2009 12:38:09 PM | | I tried it but personally I would only do it with a SO. | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 1/22/2009 2:00:50 PM | | yep, me too. Nothing hotter than hearing your lover on the other line getting all out-of-breath!!! Sometimes you just can't be "in-person" - I'm not saying it compares to actually being there, but it can be very erotic if done right. | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 1/23/2009 3:24:32 AM | | Phone sex is ok...just not all the time...I use to do this with my ex only because we lived so far away...I wouldn't do it to a complete stranger...you gotta be really comfortable with it | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 1/23/2009 3:48:08 AM |
A girl who doens't have to work Full-time telling those of us who DO work FT, pay ALL our own bills, etc. that SHE doesn't have phone sex she live in the REAL world-ha ha! What does working full time or not working full time have anything to do with the price of eggs? She stated her opinion and she's entitled to it.
Being honest, it's a bit difficult taking anything serious that someone with the screen name "WillSniffUrUndies" has to say. I would expect to see that screen name in a high school chatroom filled with hormonal teenage boys. Yuck. | |
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| i like phone sex Posted: 4/2/2009 9:01:05 AM | why have phone sex..when you can just have sex... | |
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