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| Make Conversation Like That..
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:26:51 PM | That's a bull's eye for hereshe! OPie, you can safely ignore everyone else here (even me!) and simply absorb what this lady has shared with us. It'll get you there.
Cheers!
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| Making Conversation.
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:33:22 PM | | Hi. You can start by sharing some of your interests and then asking about hers .... Also, be a good listener and do not monopolize the conversation. With practice, it gets easier. Maybe having one drink helps too. LOL | |
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| Making Conversation.
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:47:29 AM | Conversation just needs to flow, like when talking with friends.
engauging with topics of film, music, and hobbies is always good. stay off of boring subjects like politics, unless you both have an interest.
talk about nature, like walking, cycling, and try to keep it light.
generally conversation will bounce back in forth, ask questions in regards to what she has said, if she's talked about her last sking trip, ask where did she go, and is it regular, or goes she go to different skiing resorts, if so which was the best, don't ask in bullet points, you can talk about your hobbies at the same time and mix it in, whether it's skating, which is similar u could ask if she's skated before, if you can't relate, because you don't do anything similar, but if you genuinely wanna go say how you'd always wanted to go skiing.
don't think to hard it should come to you, if not talk about something comfortable to you, if your out for drinks, talk about where you are, and if you've been before, and talk about what your drinking or her, ask her, her favourite. i think you get the idea.
best of luck.
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| Making Conversation.
Posted: 5/8/2008 4:31:44 AM | Nerdy things can be made to look cool. I think I have done it with my profile. I think part of it is you are asking the wrong questions. Ask open ended questions that cannot be answered with one word.
I do not know about the Aspergers though you might have to learn to fake interest.
Also I think you should redo your profile. Do not say you are funny be funny. | |
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| Making Conversation.
Posted: 5/8/2008 4:55:28 AM | Ask open ended questions, many of them, not about them, everything but them, and you will soon see that those same question generally will tie into their interests, so you are showing interest not only in them but many issues, beliefs and life experiences etc... This form of questioning will tell you more about that person than making it like an interview. JMO.  | |
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