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 virgilskid

Joined: 10/29/2006
Msg: 26
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what do you think about this situation?
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:37:34 AM
After going out twice I think the guy knows if he likes you or not. And I tell women I am interested in that they can call me pretty much any time, if I am asleep or working I will get back to them. If a guy is truly single and interested there is no reason for secrecy and keeping all calls and emails to when he is on the road or at work. He reeks of being a cheater, there is a chance that he is not, but don't get your heart too involved until you have been invited to his place and have seen his inner sanctum, so to speak.
 Katyguy63

Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/8/2008 12:47:45 PM
I think you know your answer.

I say dude's married and lookin' . Even if he's single, if he's that busy and doesn't have time to give you a courtesy call, e-mail, text, smoke signal, whatever. It will always be a one-sided relationship. Lord knows we've ALL had enough of those. I guess it's up to you to decide how involved you want to get. Just remember this. For every great looking single guy/girl on here, there is someone somewhere that is tired of their shit....
 Virgiancowgirl

Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 28
what do you think about this situation?
Posted: 5/8/2008 1:22:15 PM
Trust in yourself and do u know Check it out. I did check out someone from this site and boy am I glad I did. He was gathering women from lots of sites. He has a whole setup. He even told me he has a webcam and calls them for special online . now what I mean. I can't stand men or women for that matter who lie. He said he only wanted one woman. I even flew to see the one from the Christian site. She was heartbroken. He isnt even divorced yet either. But you can trust some men and women so either go by his home for the truth or just ask him.
 carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 29
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what do you think about this situation?
Posted: 5/10/2008 3:47:11 PM
I find women tend to be very paranoid concerning men.

You will find out pretty soon if he is cheating or not.
 angeleyes0629

Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 30
what do you think about this situation?
Posted: 5/21/2008 11:08:35 AM
I think he is married.
 aspiring_angel

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/21/2008 11:23:13 AM
OP That last bit of information leads me to believe something isn't quite right. Does he call at about the same time of day? (like on his way home from the office?) Does he pick up your calls in the evening? (you didn't say anything about that). On the weekends, is he answering or phoning you on a regular basis?

I'm not saying he's married etc. Only he knows that, but I'd be cautious if you see the signs above.

I once had a gentleman who wanted to date me. I put him off because I wasn't ready, but still we had dinner a couple times and talked on the phone quite a bit. He seemed to travel a lot for work and called me at around the same time each day. (on his way home from work). He rarely picked up my calls on the weekend and if he did, it was always in the car. Finally I noticed something - in his car, under a throw blanket was a car seat. Another thing, he had two vehicles. Is having two vehicles against the law? Nope, but usually you have two cars because someone else drives the other one. (the one with the car seat.)

I found out he was married by doing a search on his name and found a wedding announcement for three years previous. I confirmed this with his office LOL. I got the number, phoned and said I wanted to send flowers for her birthday. The secretary replied that his wife's birthday was next month, right around the same time their baby was due to be born. Isn't that precious?

Best Wishes OP ~
 Avarielle

Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 5/21/2008 4:28:30 PM
PUHHHLLEEEZE. He is either living with someone or married. The fact that he doesnt confirm dates until the last minute means that he does some last minute shuffling with wifepoo or girlfriend. Vagueness = run fricken fast my friend.
 road-runner71

Joined: 7/17/2007
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Posted: 5/22/2008 12:19:06 PM
Sorry, but this is hilarious!

There is absolutely no way of knowing! Perhaps he's just trying to play it cool, or he really is busy.

When you are ready, go to his place to find out.
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