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Posted: 5/3/2008 3:10:40 PM | | thks for your kind post and i know that what is being siad is true. I only email him on occassion to let him know im still thinking of him. what we had is like no other. it wasnt jsut a "like" type thing. it went far beyond ....all the way to my soul. i have given up jsut as he has. but it doenst stop the feelings, the pain, the desire , or anything else. but life goes on and i know that too. so im moving on. my emailing him does nto mean i havnet moved on. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 3:11:33 PM |
you see he built a basketball court for the orphange kids and in the corner of the concrete he drew a heart before it dried and inside it read eric and rox forever.
OP, if he drew a heart in the concrete AND wrote "eric and rox forever" that is a whole different story.
A boy once drew a heart for me on the concrete, with the chalk, and wrote "boy and red forever". But, then the rain fell, and the heart was erased... and I knew that he was a player and a cheater, so I dumped his sorry as$.
Another boy did it in the sand... same thing... the tide ruined it... and our love drawned in the ocean... in the ocean of life...
BUT IN THE CONCRETE!!!!!!! That will last forever!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't know what these other posters are talking about... I think that he loved you then and will love you forever.
Cuz if he did not love you he would have deleted your contact info long ago... he's probably just shy.
You should go to CA and meet him... don't be scared... real love knows no holds... just wear your pretty WHITE dress.
Best of luck to you and Eric!!!!
.... written tongue in cheek...
*emails Eric to hide away his bunny* | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 3:14:54 PM | | Go in my wedding dress huh red lol good idea. he would probably pass out right where he stood. lol. jsut wake him up long enough to say i do and then he can go back to sleep lol for awhile anyway lol. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 3:16:59 PM | ^^^ Hey, that way there is no chance for him to say no. 
Make sure to bring the ManBat... in case he tries to resist.
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Posted: 5/3/2008 4:19:05 PM | OP, the reason he doesn't delete you, is because his ego is constantly being stroked by someone who is infatuated with him. He doesn't even need to put in any effort, writing, calling or anything and continues to get emails from some chick in another state who he's never met telling him how awesome he is.
You said you've done everything you possibly could. I would say you haven't done everything.....you could move to be with him. Just a hunch, but I think if you told him you were moving out there, THEN he would delete you.
*edit....great minds, Red.
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Posted: 5/3/2008 4:23:39 PM | | i did offer to move out there by the way lol and he still did not delete me. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 4:28:14 PM | What did he say when you offered? I mean it doesn't sound like it was "yes, hurry up already, rox."
~ds~ | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 5:46:49 PM | | he did not reply becuase he wnats me to move on but its for the wrong reason. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 5:55:41 PM | | *shakes head, turns and walks out of thread* | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 6:48:39 PM |
*shakes head, turns and walks out of thread*
NO NO NO!!! Not yet!!! We're not DONE HERE!!
OP: This is what you should do...... I saw this in a vision in the clouds today, as I pondered
your situation while sipping my sun tea out back....
You need to go to him! FIND HIM...... Offer yourself to him, body and soul!!
Buy that long white gown and veil..... hide it away with your treasured mementos of times
you spoke... maybe you doodled as you were dialing his number for the 117th time....
waiting for him to pick up.....
DRIVE SISTER!! Go to where he is and camp out, proclaiming your love to him... tell him
you'll do anything to spend the rest of your days and nights with him.
Follow him to work.... camp outside his office and tell his receptionist that you're going to
marry him someday.... soon..... as soon as you finally meet in person!!
Does this sound far out? Strange? Whacked? NO?????
THEN GO! Go like the wind.... For LOVE has no rules... and you certainly wouldn't follow
them if there were any..... So no more "thinking".... just go!!!!
And then come back after you've been released and tell us all about it.
We'll wait........... | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 6:54:38 PM | | Yes OP we will wait... Doesn't matter if it take 5, 10, 15, 20 years... We will be here... Besides, I think they give conjugal visits... | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 9:07:41 PM |
there might be a reason to have to contact that person again, you never know.
lol. "you never know."... Ya, that's why I load up on lottery tickets. lol
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Posted: 5/4/2008 12:43:30 AM |
not only not talk to her
This establishes that he isn't harassing,
or even trying to contact you at all?
his list of contacts
This clearly establishes that he is
the proprietor of his list.
refuses to delete her
Why are you so obsessed with demanding that
he delete you, if he hasn't even tried to contact
you in 4 years? If he hasn't contacted you at
all in 4 years, why are you even allowing this
issue to waste your time?
If he is harassing you, block his ass, and have
a restraining order filed.
See how easy that was?
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Posted: 5/4/2008 1:53:13 AM | Here's the thing... even if he loves you with all of his heart, and he is sitting somewhere right now thinking about you and pining for you... none of it matters if he won't actually talk to you.
I don't think at this point there is anything that you can say to prompt a response. I am SO sorry that this guy is doing this to you. Either he stopped reading your emails long ago and/or changed his email address or he is being cruel by not putting a stop to it and deleting you as a contact.
This does not sound like someone I'd want to be with even if he did change his mind. You shouldn't either. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2008 2:55:13 AM | | well i know he loved me to no end at one time as i did him. when things turned bad for us ...i actually went into a depression where i was in bed with stomach aches and crying. this went on for long time. this man is like no other i have ever met in all my 41 yrs of living and i guess its hard for me to let go. I understand why he wont email me back. but to me well i guess i dont accept it. he once emailed me and said he is hurting as bad as I am. i have gotten about 4 mails in the last 4 yrs. but his reasons are unacceptable to me. I know he has not deleted me or my emails would not be sent. I hope that one day he will change his mind and whats preventing us from being together will be over. i dont know if its fear, he did tell me at one time that his feelings for me sacred him. or his job, or my kids..at the time i couldnt leave the state . or the fact that he relaly didnt want my life to go the way it would have if we had got together. i dont know could have been a combo of all. but this man is someone that is well worth not giving up on. as far as asking to delete me it was because if he wants me to get over him he needs to delete me. i receivced an email in return that siad delete you? not a chance. that was my answer. an obviously he hasnt delted me as he said he wouldnt. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2008 6:36:37 AM | | If you don't put the ex aside, the NG you are going out with tonight doesn't stand a chance... | |
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Posted: 5/4/2008 6:49:10 AM | | if the ex as u call him ever showed up no man would have a chance with me. lol. but since that isnt going to happen..no need for any man to worry. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2008 1:33:54 PM | ummmm, kitten?
Just curious:
before he moved away, but during that year of daily correspondence, why did you two never meet in person?
and if he found the time to email you daily back then, during which time I assume he was also working, what has changed now? You know he has internet access if he can/does read all your emails.
because your 'relationship' had no physical reality to it (as in: you never saw each other at a bad moment - which we all have here and there, you never had a fight, you never went through a rough patch together, you never saw each other the morning after the night before, you name it), it was a fantasy person that you and he each fell in love with. You are treating it as the real thing.
Not saying he isn't all that served up on hot buttered toast, but kitten??? four years later???
hnh
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Posted: 5/4/2008 5:11:23 PM | | his job. he was in calif and me in louisiana. thats very far. a trip like that would have had to been planned for or wroked out with job. he emailed me daily before he started his work day. as far as internet access his job now does not allow him to have a computer for security reasons. he has always used a library since the day i met him. and no we never did have physical contact but the feelings we felt for each other were unreal. he is a real perosn. and he is in my heart and soul. we had a much more meaningful relationshiop long distance than most have in person. it was just so beautiful. there just arent words to describe it. | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 12:00:04 AM | | That's a sweet hypothetical you've got going on | |
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Posted: 5/6/2008 10:19:40 AM | | its not hypothetical but thks for ur insight. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 5:10:27 AM | "he emailed me daily before he started his work day. as far as internet access his job now does not allow him to have a computer for security reasons. he has always used a library since the day i met him."
I know its useles but I just have to say this...Kitten you are completley delusional. If you could be clear minded you would see that this guy was just lieing to you all along. He went to the library EVERY morning to write to you but now he cant have a computer for security reasons?? How absolutely ridiculous is that? The only way that could me tue was if he was in a minimum security jail and his"promotion" was into maximum security!
WE are not trying to be mean to you but you need counseling badly. If you cant afford it check your local menal health centers. In fact if you clip and paste what you have written here and send it to a counselling center I'm betting theyd get you in quickly. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 10:28:17 AM | | Why do you care? | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 2:44:34 PM | been 4 yrs now of one sided emails and he will not delete me.
If he won't delete you, block him.
Next thread. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 4:46:52 PM | | I don't understand why this mini obsession with him deleting you. I almost never delete contacts and phone numbers. Franky, it's not important to me and doesn't mean anything. I think you're making a big thing out of nothing | |
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