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 sugargirl760

Joined: 3/19/2006
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Looking for a female... Am I weird because this bothers me?
Posted: 5/4/2008 11:59:26 AM
Does my post really make me sound like I'm offended?

I thought I was posing a question to garner others' opinion.
 rentahusband

Joined: 4/17/2008
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Posted: 5/4/2008 12:03:27 PM
Well, you DID say it "bothers" you......
 sleeplessinessex

Joined: 4/24/2008
Msg: 28
Looking for a female... Am I weird because this bothers me?
Posted: 5/4/2008 12:20:05 PM
I now know why some people are single on this site, paralysis by analysis comes to mind
 sugargirl760

Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 5/4/2008 12:38:27 PM
Cat hair up my nose bothers me, but I still have a cats. Sand in my eyes and mouth bothers me, but I still live in the desert. Wiping a grown adult's bottom bothers me, but I'm still nursing student. My ex-boyfriend's noxious flatus offended me, and that is why he is my ex.
Looking for a female... Am I weird because this bothers me?
Posted: 5/4/2008 1:52:22 PM
I don't use the terms "female," "woman," "lady," "girl," or anything else.

I affectionately refer to them as "a place to park my sausage."
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 31
Looking for a female... Am I weird because this bothers me?
Posted: 5/4/2008 1:55:29 PM
I've seen the "looking for a male" ululation quite often. You, OP, really need to read more women's profiles to witness how women and men in fact communicate nearly identically.
 Marius66

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 32
Looking for a female... Am I weird because this bothers me?
Posted: 5/4/2008 2:16:32 PM

Does my post really make me sound like I'm offended?

I thought I was posing a question to garner others' opinion.


No.......I think you asked a fair enough question.

Just a lot of guys posting on here are being smarta$$es.....and just enjoying giving you a hard time.

Most of the women that I know....prefer to be addressed as a lady or woman.

Men asking for a "female" are keeping their minds open for all species......and are just letting women know this....

If guys replying to you on this thread are giving you negative responses to your post......they have obviously have been getting too many read/deletes and are miffed.......or have asked for a female and got no response
 ZeroSpazz

Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 5/4/2008 2:32:16 PM

Just a lot of guys posting on here are being smarta$$es.....and just enjoying giving you a hard time.


I didn't know we were going to have a CNN news analyst come here and tell us what we really meant. You could be right, or it could be that most of us are wondering that if she is that persnickety about such a small thing than what would she be like in real life?
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 5/4/2008 2:38:58 PM
^^^^^^ Even though manginas are obnoxious they do serve a purpose: They chase normal women to men who don't say things women want to hear merely to get laid...and ultimately fail.
 rentahusband

Joined: 4/17/2008
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Posted: 5/4/2008 2:50:28 PM

Cat hair up my nose bothers me, but I still have a cats. Sand in my eyes and mouth bothers me, but I still live in the desert. Wiping a grown adult's bottom bothers me, but I'm still nursing student. My ex-boyfriend's noxious flatus offended me, and that is why he is my ex.


You say TOmato I say toMATo, but the overwhelming response here is to "lighten up".....as stated, I wonder what you're like in real life?

I can see you totally freaking if one were to call McDonald's Mickey Dees, call facial tissue Kleenex and heaven forbid if one were to ask you to go for an ice cream and order a gellato instead.......lol
 Marius66

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 36
Looking for a female... Am I weird because this bothers me?
Posted: 5/4/2008 2:51:27 PM
You see OP....I just gave an opinion....some don't have a sense of humor.
Then you get classed as mangina....lol
I enjoy taking the piss out of people....especially the ones without a sense of humor
 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 5/4/2008 2:54:43 PM
It just sounds to me like a quirk. We all have them, so it's not a big deal IMO.

You have to find someone whose quirks are compatible with yours. Then it's all good! Umm...right?
 ZeroSpazz

Joined: 1/31/2008
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Posted: 5/4/2008 3:01:36 PM

especially the ones without a sense of humor


What? You didn't think my post was funny?

Mangina

No, I am pretty sure It's still intact....
 esad

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 5/4/2008 3:43:54 PM

To me, anytime I hear or read how a man is looking for a female, I think of animal husbandry.

OP, let's talk about How that makes you feel ?
We all have our little Fetishes, don't we ? Leather, ropes, creamed corn, farm animals. Sex of one, half a deviation of another. You say "Tomato", I say sweet succulent ripe pulsating fruit of the vine.
They all get squishy when you make sauce, no matter what you call them, yes ?
 AlexisTaylor

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 40
Looking for a female... Am I weird because this bothers me?
Posted: 5/4/2008 3:47:18 PM
Weird? No. Nitpicky? Yes. Seems a stupid battle to pick.

"It's not a MANhole, it's a WOMANhole!"
 rentahusband

Joined: 4/17/2008
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Posted: 5/4/2008 3:53:45 PM

"It's not a MANhole, it's a WOMANhole!"


only if you're a dike lol

(runs and hides under his desk now....lol)
 Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007
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Posted: 5/4/2008 4:01:20 PM
..."street slang is an increasingly valid form of expression. Most of the feminine pronouns do have mocking, but not necessarily in misogynistic undertones."

Essentially, though, almost every person who posted on this thread related that they do not want to offend, which is very heartening. But at the same time it's very disheartening, in that our social climate has made the use of anything but medical/scientific terminology acceptable. Especially in our personal lives.


I thought you were just bothered by the use of "urban" slang by otherwise eligible guys, yo.
 PretaPorter

Joined: 3/1/2008
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Posted: 5/4/2008 4:22:14 PM
It would not matter to me whether I was defined as female, woman, girl ... as long as it wasn't the plural.
 poet of tragedy

Joined: 4/14/2008
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Posted: 5/4/2008 4:31:55 PM
Someone, no matter male or female will always be offended by something. It is impossible to be politically correct every time we speak and I could think of worse things to be called.
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 5/4/2008 6:04:51 PM
....or the ever-unpopular "Humania Femalia"
 solitary1

Joined: 11/8/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 5/4/2008 10:23:12 PM
Reminds me of an old comedy bit:

Ahh, ya doesn't has to call me Johnson! You can call me Ray, or you can call me Jay, or you can call me Johnny or you can call me Sonny, or you can call me RayJay, or you can call me RJ... but ya doesn't hafta call me Johnson


I can no longer keep track of what I should or should not feel bothered by. I'm also leary these days as to what I can and can not say to persons of either gender for fear of instigating a gender war.
For future reference, you may refer to me as a vagina-equipped, penile-challenged homo sapien. Well, that or you can just say 'hey you'.

 zopz

Joined: 1/3/2008
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Posted: 5/4/2008 10:27:03 PM
I say female because I just like to be weird. Can you blame me? I enjoy it, why can't anyone else?
 sugargirl760

Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 5/4/2008 10:29:59 PM
Solitary, I like your thinking!
 rentahusband

Joined: 4/17/2008
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Posted: 5/4/2008 10:35:27 PM

Solitary, I like your thinking!


But is she solitary in her thinking? lol

That's an old eddie murphy skit........an oldie but a goodie!

That one is right up there with Googie goo goo and aunt bunny fell down the steps....
 Vancer

Joined: 10/29/2006
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Posted: 5/4/2008 11:28:58 PM
sugargirl760, you have stumbled across the fact that 80% of us are actually alien invaders pretending to be human.
This is not good.
The female must be elmiminated.
*begins flashing lights and spinning in circles*
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