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| Broken Hearted...need advice, please?
Posted: 5/29/2008 8:31:29 PM | By the time he comes back (they always do), you won't want him. Pretend he is a drug and you need to detox. Don't dwell on the past, but start doing the interests you love. In time, you will see he was doing you a favor.
I wish I had moved on when a boyfriend told me to "get lost." It was a stormy relationship that I did not need. Of course, I probably needed the relationship to figure out what I DIDN'T want in a man.
Don't get bitter and just take the time to heal. | |
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| Broken Hearted...need advice, please?
Posted: 5/30/2008 9:48:43 AM | This is a classic example of why women get blamed for "nagging" too much. He says he doesn't want to be in the relationship. Leave it. Bugging him will give him a whole new set of reasons why he doesn't want to be with you.
Oh wait, I just remembered...You only wanted to hear the sugar-coated resposes. Ahh what a pretty little life you lead. | |
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| Broken Hearted...need advice, please?
Posted: 5/30/2008 10:06:45 AM | | No, leave him alone. My last boyfreind said the same thing and now he is with a psycho but he is happy so more power to him(i say she is psycho because she sent a naked pic. of herself to me. ich.). just let him be. if he wants to contact you he will. just move on with your life. find someone who can appreciate you. it is hard but in the long run, you will be better off. | |
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| Broken Hearted...need advice, please?
Posted: 5/30/2008 10:23:42 AM | hi there sweedegirl,xx ya from sweedon lol xx  well by the look of ya profile babes ,,,, ya wont be on ya own for long  i would have welcomed ya with open arms put it down to experience and when ya ready for a genuine romantic guy that will be there for ya give me a shout lol chris xx X MWAAAH X xx  XXXXXX | |
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| Broken Hearted...need advice, please?
Posted: 5/30/2008 10:40:36 AM | Step away from that telephone young lassie. Forget him, I know easier said over actually being done.
Remember him calling you is the way for him to quell his demons (conscience) and will serve to do nothing more to you than give you that false hope.
Settle for no ones crumbs.
Delete every email, every photograph every everything whether from your memory or technology, otherwise each time you only force yourself to re-open the wound. Otherwise you are destined to live in the past, and might miss out the very next best day. Hearts heal, I know it doesn't seem like it, but they do, but broken dreams do not.
This is a bit harsh, I know I'm battling this demon right now, trust me on this one, he's not pining over your. It is your path for now, walk it the best way you can with your conscience clear.
Stay safe
Be well
ny | |
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| Broken Hearted...need advice, please?
Posted: 5/31/2008 8:13:31 AM | | I would just leave him alone. He said he didn't want a relationship right now and that seems to be your reason. But if you guys had something good - he will realize that probably get back in touch with you. If he does, don't make it so easy for him. Sometime you don't know what you have til it's gone. right? But I would do everything I could to leave him alone and move on. It's hard --I know. Good Luck. | |
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| Broken Hearted...need advice, please?
Posted: 5/31/2008 2:08:19 PM | hi, i was in your position two months ago, wed only been seeing eachother a couple of months, i heard all the i love you cant live without you, id just lost my mum a week afte rmeeting him, so i was in grieving to, and yet my gut instinct was telling me be wary, i was right, it happened we finished, i was in a bit, but not too much, but it stilll hurt, i met him through work, but hes on here somwhere, and he said hed met a few woman on here before me, so watch out girls, its not safe to go back in he water yet, be strong, be your self, do your own thing, pick your self up, and just think that someone else has your left overs lol, and if you want to talk im here, and hes on to his next one on pof, bye for now, from sue...... | |
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